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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 4:21 am

Re the problem with 4ppl. Unfortunately Google Chrome, does not like it at all, and Outlook simply gives the same message as Jasper gets.

I intend loading the Laptop with "firefox' and see if that will load it.

I keep getting introduction e-mails, in my catcher account on 4ppl from some one called "Slave Vera" who want's me to tie her up and lock her in the cupboard, Which does have some appeal , and I have some very creative idea's she might like Confused

Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 5:34 am

Cacke.

Here is a discussion about Elena's models:

http://www.romancescam.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=20&t=15325&start=45

Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 5:39 am

weareborg wrote:

I intend loading the Laptop with "firefox' and see if that will load it.

I already have firefox on this machine (since I'm studying webdesign in RL, I have to have the main browsers), and I got the same message while trying to log in. So I did what any other red blooded ditzy housewife would do... Re-read the posts from you about other sites and signed up for mybelovednet.com

Thanks weareborg Smile

Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 5:45 am

I just downloaded Opera 10.00 (Just in case) and got the same message. But I DID notice before I got the message that my character was listed as logged in. There might be a nice PILE of lads when this problem is finally fixed

Not quite a Newb Joined: 16 Mar 2009 Posts: 21

okey.
i think i stay single rrest of my life.
No dating site are really good.

www.russian-women.net?

expensive. Any reviews?

419Eater is my life Joined: 29 Jan 2009 Posts: 265

The internet is a difficult place to find love. It's unfortunate that there are so many bastards walking around, making people fall in love with fictional characters and then rip them off.

No doubt love can be found in this dark place called internet, but you have to keep in mind the scammers.

Due to the romance baiting I mostly do, I tend to see quite quickly through the scripts. Real people write very different from the scammers. Real people don't fall in love after email no 3 or 4. to be honest: real love only develops over a period of months. In the beginning it's only those annoying butterflies in your stomache preventing you from eating and thinking of something else. But falling in love with someone only after writing emails and sending pictures.... I do not believe in it.

When you finally meet someone and actually start dating and doing things together, love develops.

Love... it's a complicated, difficult yet beautiful thing.

Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 6:22 pm

^^^

Could not resist! Laughing

What everyone else said, cacke!

And good luck! Wink

Not quite a Newb Joined: 16 Mar 2009 Posts: 21

Thanks Corona
Smile

Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 11:44 pm

Actually I know a couple who met on a strictly US site (not sure of the name). They exchanged e-mails, talked on the phone for quite a bit, and she finally (after about 3 months) flew in to meet him (she never asked for money & he was so nervous she wouldn't show up).

They stayed together about a month & decided to bring her vehicles from Virginia to Arkansas - lol - lots of small problems they had to overcome doing that...

she's still looking for a job (so us friends are watching the situation closely)...

I don't think they've actually said the "I love you" yet, but they seem very happy together...

She's 47, he's 49...so the age is close enough to have things in common...
and have gotten wise enough to know what each wants from a relationship...

So it can work, at least initially...

Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 3:14 am

internationalchrysis wrote:

So I did what any other red blooded ditzy housewife would do... Re-read the posts from you about other sites and signed up for mybelovednet.com
Thanks weareborg Smile

Perfect, another disciple to the collective, Come in my child, Isn't it a great thing when a woman takes advice, and does as she's told Wink

Now where did I put my Tin Hat deflector. I fear I might need it.

As for our mate who's looking for Love, Substitute Love for Lust, and if your unfortunate enough to fall for someone, Take a long hard look at her Mother, Because, That's what sweet young thing will grow into. Twisted Evil

I have an Ice cold shiver running down my spine, just thinking about it.
And they come round , all smiles, with Mother, and she starts to criticizes the way you live, before she's in the door. Then she want's to know all about your financial position, What's paid for, whats on Terms, While her over sexed daughter [ thats the attraction, face up to it] starts to measure up the curtains. And before you know what happened your out on your arse, and paying maintenance for the next 18 years. Ain't love grand

Take some advice cacke Go down the local knocking shop a couple of times a week, At least your getting what your paying for, and you won';t have some spotty faced kid knocking on your door down the track calling you daddy.

Not quite a Newb Joined: 16 Mar 2009 Posts: 21

i dont care, i have lived my life, i have done the tavern so many years, when you are at the party you are drunk or the woman is or those who gather around you so no one really mean what they saying.
i have found swedish penpals, i have traveled to them but they were not my types.
i am just courios on my russian 25% that i am but when i started to search i was very suprised but then i learned that they only were after the money so i came here to get advices. I am not in a hurry, i find my russian woman in the future.
you can joke about me if you want but i dont care i am not a american that want to find me a wife. i want to find me a russian woman because i want a partner, because its in my blood and i want to learn everything about russians and russia. Laughing

just telling why i want to find the russian woman.

Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 2:47 pm

well all I can suggest is you look for one claiming to be about your age (not in their 20's)...who doesn't look like a supermodel...who doesn't want translation fees or to travel TO you...

Take your time and talk for several months - get more than 1 set of pictures from her (even if she looks real - some girls have learned to not look like supermodels)...if you both can cam that's even better...

If you are financially able, travel TO her - that way you know there isn't a travel agency scam or anything like that...

Talk on the phone, as often as possible - it's easier to get to know a person that way and you'll know it's not boris on the other end...

Normal women do not fall in love in a few weeks, or want to show off their bodies to strange men...you wouldn't want a wife who did...

Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 3:12 pm

As a guy with LOTS of profiles on ACTUAL dating sites, weareaborg & ivana are right. After a while , you kinda KNOW what seems right and what is complete bullshit.

It doesn't matter who you are or where you come form , unfortunately ther are people looking to take advantage of you. At the same time, don't be afraid to keep an eye for for the actual one. They might be there, just be prepared to hunt under the scum of all the scammers you're likely to receive

Chrys

Not quite a Newb Joined: 16 Mar 2009 Posts: 21

Okej. I will try that way.

Short answer but its a answer from me.

Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 4:35 pm

@ cacke: I would LOVE nothing more than you to find the right person and prove all of us skeptics wrong. What I read from everyone else is saying simply is "BE CAREFUL" And I myself cannot agree anymore than anyone else!

In RL I am a borderline victim myself. That is the SOLE REASON I say "BE CAREFUL"!

But at the same time, good luck in your search

Chrys

Not quite a Newb Joined: 16 Mar 2009 Posts: 21

Thanks chris.
I am and I trying to be carefull.

Posted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 4:53 pm

That's all I can ask Smile

Posted: Thu Sep 24, 2009 3:02 am

Cacke mate. let me tell you, no one is laughing at you, or putting you up for ridicule,
But we see this sort of thing all the time. Good genuine blokes get taken , time after time.. Pussy is bloody powerful stuff, The girl tells you what you want to hear, and some of these scammers are very clever, at what they do.
But the old testosterone kicks in, and she waves her tit's at you, and like the rest of us your gone. And mostly it never fails.. and you fall, or your like some of the cold hearted bastards on here. And play them at there own game.
Please just remember, If it looks to good to me true IT IS sit back and ask yourself, Why is she interested in little old ME and ninety nine times out of a hundred, she not in love with you, only your wallet.

I still think your best way to go, is through a Russian social club, or friendship group, unless you can find someone with a Russian bride who's willing to advise you.

Jusr remember the old story..

Quote:

Strong Russian farm girl, Looking for small Aussie, with big proparty. Has nice small holding, growing Spinach and Spuds, Also has new Bolaries tractor. Can send photo of tractor.

Posted: Thu Sep 24, 2009 9:04 am

I can't get logged into 4ppl on ANY of my browsers, or any of my IDs.

@cacke I find either scammers or pervs inhabit the dating sites along with the odd baiter, so if you are looking for romance try somewhere else.

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