2 New Loves

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Not quite a Newb Joined: 08 Nov 2016 Posts: 36

Hi there. It's been a while since I've been around. I lost my long term lad about a month ago. I had a bit of fun with another one for a little while(boy did he make me laugh!). As some may know, I do have a RL dating profile as I am single and trying to date(that's a whole other story), and that is where I get my lads.I have 2 new ones, and they seem different to me. They don't claim to be engineers, military, etc. English and grammar are pretty good. Both fairly close, but far enough away for it to be a pain to meet. I had wanted to meet one of them, but he always had an excuse not to make it(work, death in the family). I haven't gotten to the meet phase with the second guy. Here's where I'm curious. They both want my address so they can meet at my place. I haven't given it to either one, but first lad went around a hundred ways trying to get it from me and is now trying to phish for my birthday. Are they both just looking for a hookup? What would the benefit of having my address be if they are scammers? My name and info on my RL profile are fake, my pics and interests are real.

Posted: Fri Apr 21, 2017 10:55 pm

Criminals can find many ways to use your real life info. One thing that comes to mind is to sell it to other criminals. If you are baiting them from your RL profile, you need to drop them yesterday.

Not quite a Newb Joined: 08 Nov 2016 Posts: 36

Not baiting on purpose...they seem to just find me. Which is why my name and contact info is false, and a I have a non-traceable side line on my phone, plus VPN. I do agree they both need to be dropped.

Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2017 3:53 am

As long as yu are baiting safely, then have at them.They want to meet? Sounds like safari time to me. Just tell them you want to meet them in a "convenient" place then find some outdoor spot with a webcam. I'm sure your character would be free to meet for lunch. What could possibly go wrong?