Meet me in Osaka - got piggy ;P

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Posted: Thu Dec 29, 2016 2:17 am

Tamako's new friend, Facebook lad, Alan wants to meet her in Osaka after New Year's day. Let's give him Chicken greeting!!

Phase 1: Pre cook

2016/12/15
Alan: Hello my dearã€€
How are you?

Tamako: I am fine, thank you!

2016/12/16
Alan: How was your day?

Tamako: I am fine, thank you. And you?

Alan: Fine thank you
Tell me a little bit about you, if you dont mind?

2016/12/17
Tamako: I am Tamako from Tokyo Japan, currently in Osaka for work. I work at hospital administration.
And you?

2016/12/18
Alan: Am a single father,
Am a widower,i have one lovely daughter.
Am an architect,..I design both commercial and residential.
`How old are you?
Do you have any child?

2016/12/20
Alan: You seem busy

2016/12/24
Tamako: It is before new year, very busy.
Isn't it rude to ask age of a woman?
I have a son 16 years old, goes to high school.

2016/12/25
Alan: Ok
Seem like you are always very busy,
I wish i can talk to you more.

Tamako: Yes, now is December, busy. Before New Year. Please post your message.

2016/12/26
Alan: It ok
I understand.

2016/12/28
Tamako: How are you?

Alan: Am fine dear
How are you?
How is work and how is your family?

Tamako: I am fine, thank you. My son in Kamakura with my parents. I go back to Tokyo to meet him this weekend.

Alan: Ok
Do you miss him?
Do you have viber or can you download viber?

Tamako: Yes, I miss him.
No, I do not have viber. I do not know what it is.
Why?

Alan: I always miss you.
I want to be able to talk to you on the phone.
Viber is for phone call.

Tamako: My Spoken English not good.

Alan: I know .
But slowly you can practice.
You know soon i am coming to tokyo.

Tamako: when?

Alan: When i come we would meet and we have to communicate.
So slowly we should practice on the phone.

Tamako: when are you coming to Tokyo?
I work in Osaka and my parent's home in Tokyo. During work time, I am not in Tokyo.

Alan: I want to come in January.

Tamako: when in January? My holiday is limited.

Alan: If you have home in Osaka i can come to osaka from tokyo.

Tamako: Do you know how long it takes from Tokyo to Osaka?

Alan: How long?

Tamako: 3 hours on bullet train or 1.5 hours on air. In case of local train, takes more time. It is not so near.

Alan: Am coming for holiday and am coking to see you so no problem for me.I want to meet you and spend time together with you.I want to get to know you better.
Do you have home in Osaka?

Tamako: I stay in apartment in Osaka alone. My son in Kamakura, near to Tokyo. My home in Tokyo, lent to someone.

Alan: Ok
Do you want me to come to Osaka?

Tamako: So when are you planning to come? You never say which day.

Alan: I can come Direct to Osaka and later we go to Tokyo together.

Tamako: When?

Alan: I dont know which day yet,i have not booked my ticket.
When i book my ticket,i would tell you.
Tell me when is best for you?

Tamako: December 31st to January 5th in Tokyo.

Alan: If i come to Osaka,you can still go to work,not problem for me.
I would wait at home everyday when you go to work.

Tamako: But I am working, only have weekends.

Alan: What time do you close from work everyday?
Am coming for 2 weeks holiday.

Tamako: 9th January is public holiday. You can come between 7th to 9th January.
You can not stay at my apartment. It is very small. You need to stay at hotel.

Alan: Ok i stay at hotel near your apartment.
Is there hotel near your apartment?

Tamako: Not recommended for foreigners. You should stay at hotel in central Osaka.

Alan: I dont need big hotel,i just want to me close to you.
Am coking for you.
I dont have family or friends there.
I am coming for holiday and also spend time with you.

Tamako: No, stay at Umeda. It s vert nice.
I will be working during weekdays and I can not care you.
I work at hospital as hospital administrator. sometimes over time works.
Umeda is closer to my work place.

Alan: What time do you get off work?

Tamako: 5:30 pm is closing hour but overtime at 9pm or 10pm sometimes.

Alan: Ok
When i come,we can see how it goes ok.
But i think i want relationship with you.

Tamako: Please tell me when you are coming.

Alan: Am tired of being single and i want to move on.
My wife died of breast cancer May 2013.

Tamako: I am scared of relationship because of my ex.
I am not sure what kind of person you are.

Alan: That is why i want us to slowly start talking and get to know each other better.
We dont spend time together that is why you dont know me and i dont know you.

Tamako: You should come and meet me first.

Alan: I want us to communicate.
Yes i want to come.

Tamako: So come to Japan first.

Alan: Ok i would come.

Tamako: So I do not let you into my apartment. You stay at hotel. Understood?
I am not decided yet.

Alan: Can you download Viber or wattsup on your phone?
ok

Tamako: No, my phone can not download.

Alan: Which phone do you use?

Tamako: Normal mobile phone.

Alan: Not Iphone or Samsung?

Tamako: No.

Alan: ok
Communication is very important for me.

Tamako: So come and meet face to face first. I do not trust just written words. My ex husband was such person.
He say very good words and he was violent.

Alan: ok

Tamako: He says he is good and honest and religious. And he was violent.

The lad logged off suddenly. But this long chat on 28th Dec gave him some tips about Tamako's background.

Posted: Thu Dec 29, 2016 5:32 am

This sounds like the beginning of something beautiful. Smile

Posted: Thu Dec 29, 2016 8:50 am

Nicely done, Kaede!

Is there a fair where you can arrange to meet him?

Wannabe Baiter Joined: 27 Jul 2016 Posts: 93 Location: USA

I am going on a limb here and suspect he is going to need some financial assistance.
Bad me. Need to stop being so cynical.

Posted: Thu Dec 29, 2016 5:43 pm

Osaka? Nobody wants to be in Osaka for New Year's day! Kyoto is the place to be!!

Posted: Fri Dec 30, 2016 7:28 am

Hahaha, thanks all, he's being hooked and I look forward to get small pink pet to be added to my farm.

If anyone interested, please feel free to pick up him on facebook.
He pretends to be Trump supporter.

Now I came to know that the lad was offended by Tamako's word??? How nice.

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Tamako: Hello, how are you?

Alan: Am doing fine
And you?
How are you?

Tamako: I am fine, thank you.
Arrived Tokyo and meet my parents and son in Kamakura. How do you spend New Year's day?

Alan: I would spend it with my daughter.

Tamako: So your daughter with you now? How nice.
Are you visiting Japan with your daughter? I need to prepare for two of you?

Alan: No am visiting alone.
You where so aggressive with me yesterday.

Tamako: Why you think I am aggressive?
I do not understand why you say so.
why?

Alan: Yes you did.

Tamako: How?

Alan: And i didnt say anything bad to you.
I only asked if we could talk over the phone.

Tamako: What did I say?
I said my English not good. Is it bad?

Alan: It ok for me.

Tamako: Writing OK. Learned at college. Speaking no good.

Alan: I dont mind.

Tamako: And I do not have iPhone or Samsung.
Is it bad?
I have iPad but my son using and he does not return to me.
Is it bad?

Alan: ok no problem.

Tamako: I am using personal computer only now. Is it bad?
Then why you say aggressive?

Alan: I just felt you sounded aggressive and you compared me to your ex.

Tamako: I talked about my ex. not you.
Is it bad?

Alan: Am very different from your ex so dont compare me to him.

Tamako: I still have PTSD. So hard to forget about him.
And you reminded me of him.

Alan: How do i remind you of him?

Tamako: Because you are fast into relationship.
I need to meet you first.

Alan: Am not fast into relationship.

Tamako: My ex always good things. And he hurt me.
He claimed himself as good person and he hurt me.
So I need to look at person first.

Alan: How did you meet him?
How long where you married to him?

Tamako: At School. Married for 15 years then divorced.
Last few years, I was always at my parent's house instead of living with him.
I met him at college. He was 1 year senior.
sorry you don't want to hear about him, do you?

Alan: Yes i want to

Tamako: Nothing assure that you are different to him. So I need to meet you first.
So let me know when you are coming to Japan,

Alan: Ok.

Tamako: Thank you.
Sorry if you are offended. I am very careful.

Alan: we would meet when i come

Tamako: So tell me when you are coming, so I will book hotel in Osaka.

Alan: I am not sure of date.
I would let you know after the new year.
Or do you want to come to Turkey?

Tamako: No, I do not have time to go to Turkey.
I want to know in advance when you can come, so I can prepare for your coming.

Alan: I would let you know on monday.

Tamako: Thank you, glad to hear that.

Alan: You are welcome.

Tamako: I need to leave my brother's personal computer now. Bye.
I will log off sooner.

Alan: Ok dear
Bye.
Write me when you can.

Tamako: Maybe not, until Monday. New Year's day is very important day in Japan and will go to temple with my family.

Alan: ok

Posted: Thu Jan 05, 2017 2:57 pm

30/12/16
Alan: Is your phone android?

Tamako: Hello, I just have little time using my brother's computer.
No, my phone is not android. It is normal mobile phone.
I bought it 10 years ago and I can still use it.
Panasonic.

31/12/16
Tamako: Just have short time this morning. We start cleaning house before new year. How are you?

31/12/16
Tamako: Hello. I don't have lots of time now. Just wanted to say, have a nice day. May your new year will be full of Chicken!!

Alan: Thank you so much sweetie.
How are you?

01/01/17
I am fine, thank you.
How are you?

Alan: Hello dear
How are you?
I miss you.
You need to get a phone so we can get to talk more often.
You can get a small Android phone that is not so expensive.

5/01/16
Tamako: No, my phone still works, so I do not buy new phone. we can chat here.

Alan: We can chat here but you are not always here
Communication is Important for me.
Communication is Important for any relationship.

Tamako: I am not logged in all the time. I am not young girl who use smartphone and answer to the text messages every seconds.
Why you delete my comment on timeline? I do not understand!

(Now, Tamako commented to several photos on the lad's timeline where other women also seeing!)

Alan: Because we are not in relationship yet.
I want to be able to talk to you.
Like i said,communication
i want something very serious with you.
I may relocate and come live in china.

Tamako: So communication on timeline is important for just a friend, if we are not still in a relationship.

Alan: I want to buy a home there so i want something serious/

Tamako: Why can't I comment on your timeline?

Alan: Yes you can comment.
But do you truly love me?

Tamako: So you want to buy a house in China? I am in Japan not China.
I think I can ... If I can meet you here in Osaka.

Alan: If we love each other,i can buy in Japan
I want to move on with my life.

Tamako: Come and meet first, I wish to meet you in Osaka,

Alan: I really want you and want something so serious with you.
Am in Turkey now.

Tamak: OK, so please try to come over here and meet me first.

Alan: Am working on a project here in Turkey

Tamako: Not in USA?

Alan: I came to Turkey last week Friday.

Tamako:: You were in USA, on 30th Dec. And now in Turkey?
OK understood.

Alan: Am now in Istanbul Turkey
If i finish my project,i can buy a home in Japan and come and live there.

Tamako: And going to China?

Alan: I am tired of living in America.....I want different environment.
America not good for my daughter.

Tamako: So you want to bring your daughter to Japan?

Alan: Yes

Tamako: That is good.

Alan: Too much problem in America.
I want to get married and live happily.
I have had too much pain in my life.

Tamako: what problems you have there in the United States?

Alan: The Government,the people,everyday shooting,terrorist attack,rapist,bad gangs,too much gun everywhere,drugs....so many
She is my only child and i want a good life for her.

Tamako: Understood.

Alan: How much is a Samsung Android phone?

Tamako: I don't know.

Alan: If you dont want to buy or you dont have money to buy,do you want me to send you money so you can buy?

Tamako: Will you help look for one, when you come to Osaka?

Alan: Yes i can.

Tamako: OK, so I get one when you come.

Alan: Yes i promise.

Tamako: I do not know how to choose smartphones.

Alan: And please slowly look for home.
3 bedroom.

Tamako: I have iPad but my son using it and never return to me.
Yes, I will.

Alan: How much is 3 bedroom?

Tamako: For used house or new house?

Alan: Used.
But good.

Tamako: I will ask my friend who's husband owns real estate company.

Alan: Ok

Tamako: I will meet her on Saturday this week.

Alan: If i get my first payment for this project,maybe i can send you some money to make deposit for home.
Am working on a big project.

Tamako: No. You will need to take a look before you buy. Come here first.

Alan: Just send me pictures.
I cant come now sweetie,i need to finish this project.

Tamako: Yes, but you need to see.

Alan: But i promise after project am coming,

Tamako: When you are coming then?

Alan: I trust you ok,if you say it is good then it ok for me.

(He sent photo of construction sites from Printest)

Tamako: What are these pictures? Your project?

Tamako: what are these?

Alan: Pictures from My site.

Tamako: what are they doing?

Alan: It is a military base in Istanbul Turkey.
I work for Government,so it is big project.

Tamako: What you do with military base?

Alan: I am building a military base.

Tamako: Turkish Military base? Why American build Turkish military base there?

Alan: Because am good architect,so they chose me.
It is just a small military base,not a big one.

Tamako: what is the name of your company? Very famous?
You have websites?

Alan: Not very famous.Am self employed,a free lancer.
Yes i have website but it got hacked,so i payed some and they are making new one for me.

Tamako: I see. Can I see your new website? Really interesting.

Alan: They have not finish making it.
They are still making it.

Tamako: I see. Please tell me when it is ready. Should be really nice.

Alan: Sure i would.

Tamako: Thank you!

Alan: You are welcome.
Please come to Istanbul for few days and come be with me.
"PLEASE"
I really want to spend time with you and do fun things with you.

Tamako: You said you come to Japan before and now you say you want me to go to Istanbul?
I can not take days off. Just finished new year holidays and back to work now.
Please, you come to Osaka.

Alan: Yes i come after my project is finished
But before my project finish,you can come for 2 or 3 days
You tell your boss you want to go see your boy friend.

Tamako: OK, I will wait for you to come after the project. I will look forward to seeing you here. And I can show you the house my friend help to find.

Alan: Ok sweetie.

Tamako: Thank you.

Alan: If the house is ok,i would make deposit.

Tamako: No, no need deposit. My friend can hold it for you until you come.

Alan: I just cant wait to get my daughter away from America

Tamako: You can send her here in Osaka.

Alan: Are you sure she would keep it?
Hope no problem for your son?

Tamako: I think she can stay at my parent's place in Kamakura with my son, if she likes. My parent's house is big and old and nice.

Alan: Good.
Am sure she would like it.
Sarah love asia so much.

Tamako: Please tell me which she prefer. She wants to stay with me in Osaka or in Kamakura with my parents and my son.

Alan: Every time she is watching Chinese movies.

Tamako: My son Maruo goes to high school from my parent's home.

Alan: Yes she needs to go to school.
Which is better for you?

Tamako: I do not know very well about Chinese movies.
Here is Japan, not China.

Alan: How much is High school for one year?

Tamako: Local public or private, or international?

Alan: Private international?

Tamako: Not sure but expensive compared with local private schools.

Alan: How much is local?
I want very good school and that they speak English

Tamako: 1,575,000JPY per year for International High School.
Local public is only 600,000 per year.

Alan: Can you please change to $ ?

Tamako: I don't know how to do it.

Alan: Ok,Ijust checked,it about $5,000
It is good,not too expensive.
If i send her to you,can you put her in school and pay for her......I would pay you back when i come down.
?

Tamako: I will pay first and you return to me when you are here. But first, she will need to come to Japan and take examination for high school.

Alan: Ok
Is school teaching with English?
Can you help me find out later what document she needs to bring from her previous school?
Can she go to same school with your son?
And tell me your advice,should i put her in Public or private shcool?

Tamako: International school teaching in English. Documents she need are her school transcript and current school certificate, passport.
She will need to learn Japanese to enter my son's school. Any high schools need examinations to enter.
And she will need to register to the local government and get foreign certificate with her fingerprints printed. This will be done after arrival.

Alan: Ok
So the private school is better you think ?
Because of English

Tamako: Private international school teach in English.

Alan: Ok

Tamako: Private local school teach in Japanese.

Alan: But that is expensive,can you pay for that?
Do worry i would pay you all back when i come.

Tamako: It is OK.

Alan: Ok.Thank you so much sweetie.

Tamako: I can pay from consolation money from my ex husband.

Alan: I would start making preparation.
Have you gotten your consolation money from him?

Tamako: OK thank you. She can just bring her document with her.
Yes.

Alanï¼šDo you share custody of your son with him?

Tamako: Yes.

Alanï¼šSo many times in a week does your daughter stay with him?

Tamako: I do not have daughter.
My son live with my parents.

alan: Sorry i meant your son.
I mean do you share your son with him?
In America if you divorce,the parent can share custody of the child.

Tamako: No. My son is with my parents. Because his school in Kamakura.

Alan: Ok

Tamako: No, he pays his tuition fee but he has no right to see me and my son.

Alan: Sweetie what is your phone number?
I want to hear your lovely voice.

Tamako: My spoken English not so good. You can chat with me here. I mean voice chat.

Alan: My number is +90(Turkish Phone Number)
Dont worry sweetie
That is not problem for me,i told you this before.
I dont about your English.....I just care about your heart and personalty.
English is not your Language so i understand.

Tamako called Alan but voice chat could not connect on FB.

Tamako: something wrong with chat call?

Alan tried to call but Tamako could not pick up the phone.

Tamako: Sorry but my friend calling me and I am currently talking with her.

Alan: Ok
Am missing you.

Wannabe Baiter Joined: 27 Jul 2016 Posts: 93 Location: USA

Enjoying this, Kaede

Irritating he is does not know the difference between Chinese and Japanese. You are most tolerant.

Posted: Fri Jan 06, 2017 2:32 am

23:54
Alan: Are you still talking to your friend?
Are you there?

Tamako: Yes, still talking with my friend. I need to log off Facebook. Good night.

Tamako logged off before 24:00.

Alan: Send me your number.
Just like that!
I think am not important to you.
I cant believe you just went off like that,really so rude.
I wont go off on you like that.
Are you really sure you want me or you have a boy friend and just playing with me!
Why cant you give me your number and let me call you.......I gave you mine>
BYE.
Am so heart broken.

Alan: Have a great time with your boy friend ok.

2:30am, he called Tamako. Of course Tamako never replies!! It is midnight, idiot!!

9:46am
Tamako: I was talking with my friend who had problem with her neighbors. I don't understand why you are upset.
And it was already midnight. do you expect me to talk with you at 1am my time? so cruel! Remind me of my ex husband.
You want me to call you at your midnight time?
My phone +81( )
Don't get angry if I do not respond because work hour or midnight.
I feel you may get upset because I do not answer at midnight my time. So scared!!
And you should not get upset when I am talking seriously with my friends who are woman and having trouble in her life. You really like my ex!!
You should apologize for what you said!!
Now is work hour and I do not reply to phonecalls.

So Tamako is upset too!!

Posted: Fri Jan 06, 2017 2:33 am

Darthama, it is fun that the lad mixed up China and Japan. Hopefully he will say he is in Beijing to meet me, and my character is in Osaka, hahaha.

Posted: Sat Jan 07, 2017 6:34 am

Forced the lad to say sorry, hahaha.

6th Jan.
Tamako: I have New Year Work Start party tonight and will come home late. I will not be online. Please do not get upset!!

7th Jan.
Alan: Hello sweetie
How are you?
Am so sorry for yesterday.I got too sensitive.
I got sensitive because am really getting to fall in love with you.
I find myself thinking about you so much.
I cant wait to be with you.
And please dont ever compare me to your ex,am very very different from him.

Tamako: You called me to my phone? There were 3 phone calls when I was driving but no numbers displayed. I do not pick up calls when numbers are not displayed.

Posted: Sat Jan 07, 2017 7:35 pm

kaede wrote:

Let's give him Chicken greeting!!
Phase 1: Pre cook

Ha! Ha! Ha! Laughing

Master of Master Baiters Joined: 05 Jan 2017 Posts: 790

U cant make this stuff up !!

"I got sensitive because am really getting to fall in love with you"

Posted: Sun Jan 08, 2017 4:31 am

@kaede, it might be fun to just say "meet me here" from now on, just to see if he can remember where he is supposed to show up. Twisted Evil

Posted: Sun Jan 08, 2017 4:54 am

^ Now that would be perfectly fowl.

Posted: Mon Jan 09, 2017 8:54 am

Hi, all, thanks. Most likely I will keep on saying "when are you coming here" and not to mention the name of places, hehehe.

Alan: Yes baby I called you .
I called you from public telephone ,maybe that is why number not display .

Tamako: I do not pick up any calls if numbers not displayed.
Never get angry if you are calling from any phone that do not displaying your phone number on my telephone.

7th Jan
Tamako: This is what my friend suggested for housing in Osaka.
My friend told me it is 239,418USD. but will need to pay in Japanese Yen. No deposit needed.
She says she will hold it until you are coming and see the building.

[Sent him photo of a 3 story house with 3 bedrooms, 1 livingroom / diningroom plus garage in Osaka slum area.]

Airin Area Video: See here
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BOabdagwrFY

Alan: Wow ,it so beautiful .
Is the price negotiable ?
How are you sweetie and how is your day going ?

Alan: Hello sweetie,

Tamako: No, this is fixed price.

8th Jan.
Alan: Ok sweetie .
Is it a new home ?
I tired calling you a few times .
I don't even know what time of the day you come online .
There is something important I need to talk to you about .

Alan: Good morning sweetie

Tamako: Hello, I am sorry but I have no time to chat today. It is public holiday tomorrow in Japan. My son and parents visiting me in Osaka. I need to go to station to meet them then move around.
Please send message to me and I will read your important message later.

Alan: Ok.

Tamako: Thank you. I will logg off now. Please do not get angry because I do not respond quickly. You made me so scared last time.

Alan: It ok
I do understand.

Tamako: Bye. I have to clean my place before my parents come.

Alan: But please always try to create more time for us.
I would write you./

Tamako: Not now. Please let me go now. Release me now. I am scared.
Bye.

Alan: Have a lovely day and have a great time with family.
Yes you can go.

Same day evening:

Alan: Hello dear,
how are you?
Hope you are having a wonderful time with your family?

Tamako: Yes, busy now with my parents. Need to go out for dinner soon.

Alan: Ok
Am just missing you and thinking about you.
Have a wonderful time and please write me when you are free.

Tamako: What you wanted to tell me? That important something?

Alan: Dont worry,i would talk about it later.
I dont want to take your time now.

Tamako: Why not now?

Alan: It is a long conversation.

Tamako: Why?
Why not then send email instead?

Alan: Ok sweetie.

Tamako: I do not like long chat that will restrict my time. I need freedom from any restrictions. I was prisoner while I was with my ex husband.

Alan: Sweetie you have your freedom.
We hardly even talk.
I do not take your time.

Tamako: Then send me email or message, OK? I need to go out for dinner now.

Alan: Ok.
Enjoy your dinner and have fun.

Tamako: Thank you. And tell me when you are coming here.
Bye.

Alan: (heart mark)
I sent you a mail sweetie.

Alan: Hello Sweetie,how are you?Hope you are having a wonderful time with your family?
I cant wait to come and get to meet all your family.And i Promise to love your son as much as i would love you.
I just thought i should share with you a little bit about how mary passed and all i went through after she passed.
As you know my wife Mary died from breast cancer.As she was in the hospital for the last time i came face to face with all the different scenarios that Mary and i had
talked about since she was first diagnosed with cancer back in 2011.We had tried to plan for the day when i would leave the hospital without her and how i should go on
with my life and how i should finish raising our daughter.The last good conversation that Mary and i had a couple of days before she made that last trip to the
hospital,she had told me that i needed to find someone and to be happy,because she had seen how hard it was on me when my mom passed away.She also said she knew how
hard it would be on me to lose her and that sarah also needed a mother.However we had also talked about other things before that,what to do about raising sarah,how to
survive financially,and what to do for her funeral.
Mary had wanted a closed casket,she didnâ€™t want people to remember how the cancer had made her look.She wanted people to remember her from her pre-cancer days or to
remember her for her smile or to remember her for many other reasons than what the cancer had transformed her into.So my first priority was to have a funeral that she
wanted but that also Sarah felt comfortable with.Mary had felt very embarrassed and humiliated about what the cancer had done to her body.I was going to protect her
until we laid her to rest and I did.I was a Rottweiler on guard duty and i was rude to a few people who came early to the visitation while family members were viewing
Mary.
About 3 months after Mary died,i felt it was time to start working on the other thing Mary had told me to do.I needed to find someone for myself and a new mom for
sarah.There were no guides or manuals or books that i could find to help lead me in this task Mary had set for me.I was in a haze and i thought if i did what i was
told to do like i had for the last 23 years of married life things would be fine.This wasnâ€™t going to be the case!Mary was wrong in not telling me to wait until i was
out of the haze of her.She was right in her goal but neither she nor i realized that i needed to have a grief-less mind before i started on this task!
I made the biggest and most humiliating mistake of my life.I met and dated someone 13 months after Mary died.Most people would say that 13 months isnâ€™t too soon to
meets someone after the death of a spouse and i would agree.I haven't really dated much in my life so it was really difficult for me.However,the mistakes i made were
not listening to friends who said i had picked someone who didnâ€™t match me,someone who was so different from Mary that it wouldnâ€™t work, someone who had too many red
flags for me.After being with her for few months we both realized it wasn't working at all.I felt ashamed,humiliated and embarrassed because of this failure.
Right now am 101% ready to move on with life.Am so tired of living in pain and so tired of this lonely life.I want to be happy again,i want a mother for my daughter,i
want to feel like a normal human being once more.
And i also want you to know that am really getting to fall for you more and more everyday.
I cant wait to finish my project and come and start a life and a happy family with you.

Tamako: Thank you for telling me such an important thing.
I don't see email in my mail box but are these message what you wanted to tell me or you have anything else sent via email?
Just worried if you sent email to wrong place.

Alan: Yes that is what i wanted to tell you.

Tamako: Ok understood, thank you. And feel sorry about your wife.

Alan: Hope you had a great time with your family?
It ok sweetie.

Tamako: Yes, still have some more to do tomorrow.

Alan: Like i said,i am ready to move on happily.

Tamako: I have to take bath and rest now.
Bye.

Alan: Did you take some pictures?

Tamako: Good night.

Alan: Please send me more pictures of you later.

Tamako: I will log off now. Do not get angry, understood?

Alan: Sweet dreams.
Ok

9th Jan.
Alan: How are you today?

Tamako: I am fine, thank you. My parents and my son went back to Kamakura.
Yes, we took lots of photo using my Father's camera. He uses film camera and will take time to develop. I will send you later. Please tell me your home mailing address.
You said you will know your schedule by Monday. When are you coming here?

Posted: Mon Jan 09, 2017 8:06 pm

Great bait.

The lad's story about his wife is taken from here:

http://thegrieftoolbox.com/article/my-wife-died-cancer-how-do-i-go

Horrible lad, stealing someone's real experiences and grief to use as a tool to scam people.

Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2017 7:34 am

The lad likes the house I found on the online house finder, actually located in the slum. I think no one except for mafia wants to buy. The house is 3 story with 3 bedrooms and 1 large living room / dining room and garage. Obviously suitable for mafia's office.

9th Jan
Alan: Hello sweetie,
how are you?

Alan: You want mailing address for my hotel here in Turkey or America?
I make inquiry about Sarah coming to meet you,they said she is a minor and cant travel alone.
So she as to wait and come together with me.

Tamako: OK understood. But she is high school student and should be able to travel alone. My son went to Seoul last year to meet his girl friend.
How long will you be in Turkey? If you are leaving soon, better send you the pictures to your USA address.
Not sure how long my Father takes for development but should be within 1 week.

10th Jan
Alan: Sweetie did you get my email ?
I tried sending you email .

Alan: Or kindly reconfirm your email address so I can resend the message to you.
It is much easier for me to send letters to your email than facebook because I am always at the construction site

Tamako: No I do not receive your email. Which email address did you sent to ?
Please send me your mailing address so I can send you photo when my father printed the photo at photo shop.

Alan: Ok sweetie I would.
Rewrite your email address .

Tamako: I do not receive email from you. Which email address did you sent to?

Alan: [email protected]

Tamako: I do not use that email address.
Alan: Ok
Then resend me your email ?

Tamako: [email protected]

Alan: Ok
How is your day going ?
I can't wait to come to you .
Please tell your friend to keep the home for us.

Tamako: Still at work now. Let me go. My boss coming and I do not want to continue chat.

Alan: Ok

Tamako: Bye.

Alan: Write me when you get off work

Tamako: I will read your email.
Waiting for your email.
Bye

Alan: Ok

Tamako: Bye

Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2017 2:07 pm

I could not stop laughing at this conversation. The lad says he is from Western culture

Yes, from Asia, Africa is located to WEST, I am sure. And his teenage daughter is happy for her Dad getting married and she is almost forced to move to Japan. Laughing

The lad was not willing to give his mailing address to receive photo from Tamako.

Evening chat.

Tamako: Hello, Alan. Did you send me email?

Alan: Hello my dear
I am composing it now
The email would let you know more about me more better
How was your day today at work ?

Tamako: Busy day as usual. How about you?

Alan: The weather is really bad these days... so work is kind of slow
It's been snowy

Tamako: I see. Please take care, do not catch cold.

Alan: Baby, it's really hard for me because my work is outdoor

Tamako: When are you coming here?

Alan: Today I couldn't get out to the construction site because everywhere is completely frozen

Tamako: sorry to hear that.

Alan: You should let me know your schedule because you are very busy with your work.

Tamako: weekends will be fine.

Alan: I am making progress with work and in later days I will give you the actual day of my arrival

Tamako: OK, happy to hear that.

Alan: Ok baby, I will start to make plans. I told my daughter and she is really excited to meet you
I am very sure you would fall in love with her when you meet her... haha

Tamako: That is great but I wonder how teenager can accept step parent. My son is not really happy.

Alan: You know for her, she needs a mother and i told her you can really take care of her. above all she is really smart
why is your son not happy ?
I am taking you away from him... we will all have a good life together. One happy family

Tamako: I don't know but he is not happy if someone outside is joining family.

Alan: don't blame him... he will be happy with little more time...

Tamako: He even said he will run away to Seoul.

Alan: what do you think ?

Tamako: I don't know. He needs time.
Do you have any idea?

Alan: I think he needs time.
don't push him too hard.. he's a little boy

Tamako: Why your daughter can accept outside and even agree to move to somewhere else?

Alan: You know the western and eastern ideas are different

Tamako: How?

Alan: She's all I have and she means so much to me until I met you
she trust and believe in me.
I am sure she will like the Eastern culture.

Tamako: My son trust me but do not want to accept outsider into family.

Alan: she is excited to try new things and see new places

Tamako: He has global mind, his girl friend is Korean.

Alan: yes but it's all same eastern lifestyle
How old is his girl friend ?

Tamako: So what is the Western way of thinking?

Alan: I expect you to know this by now.
The western are more liberal in thinking

[ Confused

African Ideas are more liberal???]

Tamako: My son's girl friend is 16, same as my son. They were classmates. But the girl had to go back to Korea because her Dad finished his assignment.
Will you explain further more, how liberal the thinking is?

Alan: Open, free and welcoming
liberty and equality

[ Confused

African Ideas are Open, Free, welcoming Liberty and equality???]

Tamako: So every teenager are welcoming new family member without any hesitation?

Alan: Of course not like that

Tamako: How?

Alan: I am able to convince her about you and Japan

Tamako: How she accepted?

Alan: so she has no problem as long we are together and thats is all that matter for her

Tamako: Hard to understand. why is that?

Alan: I don't understand what you mean why is that.

Tamako: Why your daughter can easily accept what you tell her? Please tell me how???
My son being so difficult.

Alan: Exactly what I have told you. she knows I travel a lot and I also willing to settle down
she has no problem with that as long we are living together.

Tamako: So?

Alan: Give your son more time.

Tamako: OK I will do so ...

Alan: everything needs time.

Tamako: But let me know your schedule.

Alan: yes my dear, I will let you know.
As you know I am really eager to meet you sooner rather than later.

Tamako: Thank you. And waiting for your email too.
Please let me know your mailing address too. So I can send you photo taken by my Father.

Alan: Yes dear, I have top 10 list which I came up with over 10 years ago and I am willing to share it with you
Can you send it directly to my email address ?

Tamako: No, I can't. It is going to be printed, my Father's camera is APS.

Alan: I think it's more easier for you like that.
You can scan and send them to my email
do you understand ?

Tamako: No. My Father says it is best being printed and he does not want to compromise.

Alan: ok when do you intend sending them ?

Tamako: Yes.
Will send you by postal mail.

Alan: You know I am in Turkey and from here I am coming over to Japan.
So why don't you wait for me
instead of posting to my mailing address in USA

Tamako: OK, so I can send you to USA?

Alan: It will take a long time for me to get it in USA
so its better you hold on for me until I get to Japan

Tamako: I see. So I do not send any photo to you.

Alan: Yes it's more better to avoid complications
because I don't know when I get to USA

Tamako: OK.

Alan: Japan is my nearest destination now

Tamako: Sounds great.

Alan: Yes baby, what are your plans for tomorrow ?

Tamako: Work.
Why? It is weekday tomorrow.

Alan: You are very hard working

Tamako:Yes, I am.
Why?

Alan: and I admire that qualities

Tamako: Thank you.
I need to earn money to let my son study in good university.
I need to stop chat now. Need to prepare for sleeping. Bye. Time is late.
Bye!!

Alan: Good night my love
check your email in the morning I will send you the list I told you about.

Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2017 4:51 pm

Quote:

everywhere is completely frozen

In Turkey???

And I have nephews in the 15-16 years old range. They are definitely NOT "little boys". Laughing

BTW, you shouldn't be surprised that the slums in Japan are much better than general living conditions in Western Africa. Cool

Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2017 10:01 pm

He still hasn't asked for money? I wonder how he will weave it into his story...

Posted: Wed Jan 11, 2017 2:45 am

Heavy snow in Istanbul, Turkey on 7th Jan.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-iQXGVs1qPA

But not so cold yesterday on 10th Jan 2017.Daytime low 0 C deg, High 6 C deg.
https://www.timeanddate.com/weather/turkey/istanbul/historic
5 C Deg should be warm, after heavy snow.

Yes, Japanese slum should be one of the safest slum in the world, foreign back packers like staying at the budget hotels there.
http://www.asahi.com/ajw/articles/AJ201612170011.html

The lad sent "Top 10 list of qualities he came up with to measure a woman." via email. I will post later. I think this would be the sign for money request, hahaha.
Top 10 List: https://www.scamwarners.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=13&p=134776

Posted: Wed Jan 11, 2017 4:02 am

Cool. They might even have some Winter! Still, covered with snow does not equal everything frozen - unless you hail from some place warm...like Western Africa. Confused

Posted: Wed Jan 11, 2017 5:58 am

Tamako received warning from a woman who claims to be this lad's victim. (She said Alan tried to take money, so fortunately she came to aware before sending money and trying to warn other women.)

I found few women removed the lad from their friends.
So the lad will be forced to concentrate to my character lol

No, it's not me doing effective warning. Only 2 responded to my warning. I guess that victim warning effectively.

Posted: Wed Jan 11, 2017 12:27 pm

Lad email:lol: Both emails are copy and paste from other scammer emails Laughing

Quote:

Hi dear,

How are you ?

I cannot keep my thought from wandering to you. I want to know everything about you. Your favorite color, your favorite beach, your favorite song, your favorite drink, your favorite... I want to see you, to touch you, to kiss you, so that I know you are real.

Thought I would share my "top ten" list. This is a list of qualities I came up with to measure a woman. They are a list of values I want in my partner. Here goes:

1. Freedom - I need someone that enjoys freedom, that has interests of their own and allows freedom in another.
2. Compassion/Kindness - The Dalia Lama says that compassion is the greatest power. So true..
3. Spontaneity - I love being spur of the moment, living in the moment. Yesterday is history, tomorrow a mystery, and today a gift. That's why they call it the present.
4. Responsibility/Stability - I need to rely on the other person to be there for me and to have our life together.
5. Healthy - Body, mind and spirit.
6. Humorous - If you cannot find the humor in life, then what is the point?
7. Spirituality - My partner must think on a different level and I am not talking about religion.
8. Intelligence - Must I say more?
9. Passionate - I love a woman that is passionate about life, about the little things, about love.
10. Respectful - One must show respect for their partner.

I came up with this over 10 years ago. I see so much of these qualities in you and want to know if you agree.

With Love,
Alan Gorski

Dear Alan

Thank you very much for email. You have very high expectation to women, do you? You are looking for very perfect woman.
I am so scared what you would do if you think I do not meet your expected qualities? Because you got angry when I was talking with my friend on phone last week. I am scared you may get angry if I am not meeting your expectation.

My favorite color is black.
Why you want to know about beach? I do not swim.
My favorite song is â€winterscape of the Tsugaru Straitâ€
My favorite drink is plain water. Good for health.
My favorite food is salted pork BBQ.
How about you?

Regards

Quote:

Hello dear,

How are you ?

It was really nice receiving your emails, yes am so serious in getting to know you better and talk more, I thought it would be helpful if I shared what some of my interests are and what some of my passions are and also what my likes and dislikes are. This will give you an idea about the man you are communicating with and probably spend the rest of your life with..... I favorite color is black and I see we have that in common, I like seafood such as shrimps, lobster Smile

I also like to drink water and wine.

Interests: I tend to have a variety of interests, such as the following: I enjoy the outdoors. I love spending time by the water (lakes and oceans) as the water grounds me and provides me with inner peace. I too enjoy a nice sunset especially by the water (romantic). I enjoy walking, swimming, anything with outdoors involvement and playing like a kid when am with my partner. A swing is always lots of fun especially if someone is pushing you. I have a playful spirit. I enjoy quality time spent with my son. I enjoy a good movie, all types of music, reading, some sports, different types of foods. I am open to trying new things. The bottom line is I am active and have a tremendous amount of energy to expend.

Passions: I have a few passions in my life and I would have to say that I am passionate about being a good father, about my career, about developing relationships (in general), and I really look forward to being passionate and having a passionate intimate relationship with you. I tend to be passionate about all things that are attached to the heart, my heart. Generally, this is my love and passion for humanity and for those that will come into my love life.

Likes: I like many things as I am open minded and flexible person. Generally, I like everything providing that there is no dislikes of mine infringing on the likes. Some of my favorite food (restaurants) consist of Chinese, Mexican, Italian with Jamaican sauce and rice being my favorite. I love red licorice and my favorite flowers are carnations. I do enjoy traveling and thanks to my job. I would like to see castles close up some day and stay in a beautiful hotel close to the sea.

Dislikes: There is not a whole lot that I dislike, however; the things that I do dislike seem to be based on values and character, allow me to explain. There are certain things that I have no interest in, however; these are the things that I clearly dislike or choose not to tolerate are: disrespect, unfaithfulness, dishonesty, lying, cheating, mean spitefulness, being judgmental, callousness, harsh words, hurtful acts, intrusting people, displaced anger, unfairness, injustice, selfishness, being inconsiderate, blaming, not taking responsibility, self-contentedness, rigidity and anything else that can cause damage or be damaging to another human being.
I also do not like comparison as we all have different character and qualities, I am saying this because I don't find it pleasing whenever you try to compare me with your ex husband. We all have past experience and I think we should move on from it because you won't like it when I try to compare you to my late wife.

Let me see, what else can I share about me? I have a strong work ethic and I never give anything less than my absolute best.

I trust that you are having a lovely day. I would love to hear from you and if there is anything else you would love to know or share about likes, dislikes, passions, and interests, do not hold back, am glad we are having this conversation.

You are in my thoughts,
Alan Gorski

Dear Alan

Thank you for email.
I am not romantic person, I always want to see the facts not the dreams and sweet things. So I want to see the facts that you will not hurt me, not the words. I have PTSD from my previous marriage. You should understand that. You say you do not like comparison with my ex husband. But you make me remind about him if you behave like what he would say and make me scared. Understood? I don't mind if you compare me with your late wife, dead person is a legend and can't sweep away good memories. If you do not hurt me, I will be OK if you compare me with her.

Regards

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