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Jess
Not quite a Newb
Joined: 26 Jan 2012
Posts: 24
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Thu Jan 26, 2012 3:54 am |
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Hello everyone .
I`m not sure if I will be going to like to do this as sport , in fact I love mind challenges , but I might be a little afraid of it. I joined because I have had a close encounter with a man ...that lasted about 2 weeks .... and after searching the web , I found out he was what is called a romance scammer . I might share my experience with you.
I have no idea this exist, it took me by surprise , and it made me feel curious so I have been reading about the subject and how to find ip`s in emails , and search for their location etc.
The man who was writing to me claimed to be in UK , but his ip is from California.
I came across your site , and I really have had a good laugh. So I thought , if I ever have to come across one of these caharacters again I`d better be prepared, if you don`t mind me joining ...and who knows , maybe I like it enough and finally decide to have fun and join you as a team . |
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Dya Reyarunen-Downmeleg
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Joined: 10 Aug 2009
Posts: 4129
Location: At the toilet door yelling are you almost done in there? Oops, too late...
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Thu Jan 26, 2012 4:01 am |
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Welcome to Eater, Jess!
I hope that you do decide to join us. We especially need more "romance baiters".
Your lad with the California IP - was he using gmail? |
_________________ ^ You are my favorite Canadian on Earth. Pastor Frank
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so as to enable the conclusion of this transaction on your behalf since you are not dead because if you are dead you would not have write me because I know that never will a dead
write to living...
I could receive the document official which you want to forward me for adhesion with TW@T
I am captivated, impressed and hypnotised with your sincerity
This you’re TW@T has it existed some how somewhere before?
Your ASSCODE is: 999-035-2655
"I Am Not a Justin Beiber Fan" innocent.being
Steward, WTF?
SAY NO TO SCURVY |
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ParaNoid
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Joined: 12 Sep 2006
Posts: 5123
Location: Looking for Steward.
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Thu Jan 26, 2012 4:29 am |
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Welcome and be sure to read the the stickys at the top of each forum. Then read Eater U at the bottom of the Index page. You also might benefit from a Mentor. Click on the link in my signature line. |
_________________ Gold Coins here
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vonpaso xlura
Baiting Guru
Joined: 10 Apr 2011
Posts: 13781
Location: Bertcad, Lojbanistan
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Thu Jan 26, 2012 6:06 am |
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Welcome to Eater!
Baiting isn't just sport - it's serious crimefighting. I just reported a bank account for fraud (that's what the latest piggy in my siggy means) and hopefully will get a fake bank website from the same lad soon (the flags are for those I've already had shut down).
There's nothing to be afraid of, as long as you give the lad no way to find out who or where you really are. We use made-up addresses that don't exist but sound real. Lots of baiters use Gmail to hide their IP addresses; some, including me, use Tor, so that not even the webmail server knows where we are.
I once e-dated a romance scammer before I knew anything about it. S/he was in Udmurtia, Russia. Fortunately I know enough Russian to figure out that she was a he and a liar.
I second getting a mentor. |
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unwashed
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Accra - SH Cotonou
you are a fake people so do not ever write to me again.
Am mad at you right now ... Am tired of your questions ... Am sick and tire you and your bank
Nigerian pig . go swallow a grenade idiot. Boko Haram will solve your problem idiot .
you are big fool by send a fake payment information and never you contact me again asshole .
your passgae bearing your ATM CATD ... Ant Terrorist Certificate ... legal verterbrate ... expartiate your meaning ... gets to your dwaignted address ... successful ofghw transfer |
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Fowan Nyne
Baiting Guru
Joined: 12 Aug 2009
Posts: 3720
Location: Miniluv
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Thu Jan 26, 2012 8:37 am |
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Welcome Jess
Dya's suspicions are odds on to be correct here. It's rare for a lad to be in California but not impossible.... |
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I can't wait for 'Eater Easter!
Find out about Rental Scams
"Note I am very weak by straight"
"Did you want to cheat me or play on my intelligent?"
"All necessary preparation for the movement of the stool are in the pipe line" - Stan "the man" Agbley
Click here to see a proper scam
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Tururut
Elite Baiter
Joined: 13 Jun 2011
Posts: 1597
Location: Lost in translation
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Thu Jan 26, 2012 8:38 am |
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Welcome! |
_________________ x28
Parti Boi. x2 x3 Xmas Parti 2012 Lagos-Natitingou, Lagos-Parakou-Kandi, Benin City- S4fari Hotel Kano A 419 picked me up, took my bag and ran away - have did a lot for Gomer but nothing good come out, every time different trip and they always mess up at last, why? Benin Republic mess up, Kano state in Nigeria mess up, Safari Camp also mess up - am really ashamed of my self in street
My wife divorce our marraige because I failed to provide proper maintenance of the family. |
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Robert Heinrich der 1.
Baiting Guru
Joined: 10 Oct 2010
Posts: 3877
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Thu Jan 26, 2012 8:54 am |
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welcome Jess, glad you found out in time.
Fowan Nyne wrote: |
Welcome Jess
Dya's suspicions are odds on to be correct here. It's rare for a lad to be in California but not impossible.... |
maybe, he (the scammer) is using yahoo and that was the IP of yahoos center in sunnyvale CA.
@Jess: there should be another IP further down in the text, very often it starts with 41. (for a long time, this was the only IP block of african ISPs) |
_________________ Lagos - Accra - Kasoa (and back) 2x490km Lagos - Nairobi (and back) 2x ~5000km, Nairobi - Mbiri 2x130km on easter sunday, x12 , 6x Penisprint, Dai Teatime / Anderson Frank: but have been there since about 1hr plus no sign of them and was interrogated by the police and almost arrested
Team Eze, 2 lagos - cotonou and lagos - cotonou (he hated it).
The threatening is increasing day by day with different cursed of animals, and i don't know what to do now. ---- am angry for your head |
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Jess
Not quite a Newb
Joined: 26 Jan 2012
Posts: 24
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Thu Jan 26, 2012 11:59 am |
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Thank you all !!
Sorry if I just used the word sport, I know this is more than that.
Well, he was using a gmail adress to send me the emails , and a yahoo account to chat.
Both send me there .
I`m so straightforward , and naive I`m not sure I might be doing this well.I tend to believe everyone. But I`m willing to learn.
I will accept to have a mentor of course , that would help me . The man who talked to me has his picture in a profile in netlog with a logo of trust on him , that makes me sick.
He was using a fake web page too , where you can look at the same picture, and he did send me some. I was stupid enough to sent him some of mine too.... and I hate to think he might be talking to someone with those as avatar.
Please forgive any grammar mistakes , english is not my first language. |
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Jess
Not quite a Newb
Joined: 26 Jan 2012
Posts: 24
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Thu Jan 26, 2012 12:01 pm |
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I forgot to add, the ip directed me to Mountain View and Sunnyvale. |
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Phil Yerboots
Elite Baiter
Joined: 29 Oct 2009
Posts: 1342
Location: Back in Asena's sandbox
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Thu Jan 26, 2012 12:07 pm |
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Welcome Jess!
Don't worry - you made a good escape and although you can't bait this particular scammer there are others for you to try out your new skills when you feel ready. Feel free to send me a private message by clicking on the PM button if you ever need to discuss love scams.
Love Phil X |
_________________ Ibadan-Abidjan-Bouake (with Dr Mike & The Monsignor) "i sleep in the park again and am scaring" Ebay (with SheepFishing)
Todger Club (Class of 2013)
"I want your head on a platter between my slapping breast-buds." Doughnut
"You are sick and need medical attention. I just realised." Pee |
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Big Al
Baiting Guru
Joined: 13 Dec 2011
Posts: 5054
Location: Winter is Coming....
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Thu Jan 26, 2012 12:14 pm |
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Glad you found out the truth before you really got screwed over. I don't read where anyone has told you that you need to break all contact with this scammer if they have any true information on you. Get a mentor for some quality help. |
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Jess
Not quite a Newb
Joined: 26 Jan 2012
Posts: 24
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Thu Jan 26, 2012 12:39 pm |
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Oh !! I already did that !!! about 2 weeks ago ...when my friends in the UK told me the adresses on the web page didn`t exist at all , I asked him about that ...why are you lying to me ? he replied : I have never lied to anyone in my life ..haha !! I ceased talking to him right on the spot.
No , I never gave him my personal details, ....just my real name , and real email addy and messenger I don`t know how much could he have gotten from my yahoo account.
Thank you so much for your offer !!! , I might be writing to you, to ask you some doubts I still have , but he didn`t harm me from an emotionally point of view... in fact I was asking him since the beggining have you got some screw loose ? or are you under some medication ?
I have a question , does these people pornography as well ? because he asked to see my child`s picture , ...that was the beggining , ...made me suspect and was the motive why I had a closer look at his webpage, and asked my friends for the adresses and phone number of his company. |
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Robert Heinrich der 1.
Baiting Guru
Joined: 10 Oct 2010
Posts: 3877
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Thu Jan 26, 2012 12:55 pm |
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an eventually pedophile scammer?
how did you get in contact? via mail?
if yes, would you mind sharing his initial email and email header? |
_________________ Lagos - Accra - Kasoa (and back) 2x490km Lagos - Nairobi (and back) 2x ~5000km, Nairobi - Mbiri 2x130km on easter sunday, x12 , 6x Penisprint, Dai Teatime / Anderson Frank: but have been there since about 1hr plus no sign of them and was interrogated by the police and almost arrested
Team Eze, 2 lagos - cotonou and lagos - cotonou (he hated it).
The threatening is increasing day by day with different cursed of animals, and i don't know what to do now. ---- am angry for your head |
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Dorothy
Baiting Guru
Joined: 09 Jul 2008
Posts: 3114
Location: somewhere over the rainbow
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Thu Jan 26, 2012 1:27 pm |
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Sunnyvale is the location of Yahoo's servers; Mountain View is google's servers. Neither will be the true location of the scammer.
Scammers often target single moms, as it can be harder for single moms to find someone who is ready to commit to someone with children. Scammers will show great interest in the children simply because it helps to make them seem like they are kind, caring people who are ready to settle down with a family. Many will quickly start referring to victim's children as their own to reinforce this image. I've known some scammers who have actually convinced the victim to put their children on the phone or even webcam with the children, and the scammer has told the children that he loves them and is going to be their new daddy. The whole point of this is (a) to convince you that he is a caring, generous person who will make a good father to your child, (b) make you feel more connected to him, and (c) if he pulls the child into the scam, he can make you more hesitant to cut it off, because you have to worry about hurting your own child in the process.
The truth is, he couldn't care less about your child--it's all about making you believe that you have a future so he can get hold of your money. |
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Jess
Not quite a Newb
Joined: 26 Jan 2012
Posts: 24
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Thu Jan 26, 2012 2:44 pm |
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Good evening darling,
How are you doing? Thank you for finding time to chat with me when i was in the office my dear.
I don't know what its hard for me to hide my feeling towards someone but i want to say i am becoming fond of you. I hope this wish bring happiness to you because you are not happy. I want you to be happy for you have someone new as a free in your life. I want to say something to you that
Tomorrow's hopes and dreams will never die as long as you believe in yourself and follow your heart. The kindnesses in your heart will guide you to accomplish many things in life and overcome all challenges and all obstacles. Never give up, always have faith in yourself, and you will gain the greatest gift of all, the gift of hope and love you rightly deserve.
Whatever you may do in the future, never let anyone stand in the way of you pursuing your dreams. Know that you will always have family and friends to rely on whenever you need them. No matter what you may decide to do in life, I will be right there to help, support, and love you. I wish you only the best as you continue chasing your dreams. I will love to have your own photos.
Always Me,
Fred. |
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Jess
Not quite a Newb
Joined: 26 Jan 2012
Posts: 24
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Thu Jan 26, 2012 2:50 pm |
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Thank you , Dorothy .
If that were his thoughts ...he was sooo wrong, because what I thought was that he wanted to gain acces to my child, and not that he was using it to get closer to me. |
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next victim
Baiting Guru
Joined: 27 Mar 2011
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Thu Jan 26, 2012 3:29 pm |
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Welcome to the board Jess! I'm glad you found out before things went South. I hope you are not still communicating with this guy. He has your name and possibly your IP. |
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mentors- http://forum.419eater.com/forum/cherrie_mentor_program.php
This Derick moral monster! From http:/ /scamnewss.wordpress.com/2011/10/14/derrick-ratt-scammer-beware/ Vlad blog
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Jess
Not quite a Newb
Joined: 26 Jan 2012
Posts: 24
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Thu Jan 26, 2012 3:50 pm |
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Thank you !!
No , I´m not talking to him anymore since I found out his webpage was fake, about a couple of weeks ago. He never tried to contact me again since I asked him about it. In fact I had already pissed him off before that, because I was telling him I didn´t trust him at all.
He said he would be coming on January to visit me and have trust settled down, but then he asked to meet me with my child , that was too much.
Yes , you are right , he has got that information from me . |
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Big Al
Baiting Guru
Joined: 13 Dec 2011
Posts: 5054
Location: Winter is Coming....
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Thu Jan 26, 2012 5:34 pm |
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If you haven't already, get a mentor. They can possibly help you with damage control and help get him listed on the sister site as well as getting the necessary info to the baiters for future pain in their general direction.
Welcome. |
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Jess
Not quite a Newb
Joined: 26 Jan 2012
Posts: 24
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Thu Jan 26, 2012 5:47 pm |
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Thanks !! Ok , have done that already.
Username changed and all mentions of original name edited, at OP's request. --bo |
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Jess
Not quite a Newb
Joined: 26 Jan 2012
Posts: 24
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Fri Feb 03, 2012 11:24 pm |
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I want to say thank you to all of you who had been by my side since I first come over here .
When I did that , I had been through a long journey looking for help ...I had this man with his fake website , and his profile on Netlog , and I was finding no one to help me to understand this.
I had never heard about romance scammers before, and I started asking for help around : local police first , UK embassy .. nothing except some links which I followed, UK police ..... not the reply I was waiting for
Still, I felt I had to do something about it , and then I came across romance scammers and then I arrived here.
Finally I had found someone to talk to who understood what had happened to me, and kindly offered to be next to me for help .... the same as other new friends I have already met.
I told this man that if he was lying to me it wouldn`t be a great deal , because I`m used to trust and rely on people and friends , and I would get through the experience remaining the same old one I used to be .....
thank you so much for helping me to succeed doing this...for one bad apple I have found a bunch of nice people who has offered their friendship to me. Thank you so much for that. |
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Dynamitedan
Not quite a Newb
Joined: 21 May 2007
Posts: 37
Location: Barnards Star
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Tsnerd
Not quite a Newb
Joined: 14 Jul 2005
Posts: 41
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Sat Feb 04, 2012 3:44 am |
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Welcome here, Jess. |
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Nailgunner
Baiting Guru
Joined: 01 May 2008
Posts: 8727
Location: ̢̝̣̳̗ͅş̱̖̹͉̬̣̖h̷̗͉̘̱͍̗ͅr͉̙̖̥͡_̛i̦̞n̷͉͈̺̪̯̹E̸͎̫̭̞̙ͅ
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Sat Feb 04, 2012 5:04 am |
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Welcome!
Glad you made it out unharmed. |
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"I still have your name tattoo on me. No woman want me because of this"
"Baster ScamBaiter like you. just leave me alone, and delete my email from you least" |
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