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Good morning my love, how are doing and your work as well. Honey i have been worried and feeling so down about what happen to us a couple of days ago.it is so much hurtful for my man to tell me my thought are horsshit thought,demanding,rude,untruth and bipoler is so much for me which i wouldn't want to hear them anymore. So i have come to realize that all these is hopping to us as a result of my traving expenses coming from you. My love i don't have that much but you let me know when you are ready and want me to come. I will find a way to pay for my expenses to avoid problem of such nature again ever from happing. Please don't get mad okay,i want us to have peace to move our relationship on to make it happen and to make it happen we all have part to play. Honey just tell me what to do to prove my love for you and i will do it for you. I love you Derrick....Gracelyn

Good morning my love! I hope everyone is well and enjoying the day. I am guessing you will be at the shop with your auntie again today. I hope you ladies have a fairly easy day of it. I'm sorry if what I said upset you. When you talk to me as you did it becomes quite irritating. You are nice as can be in one mail and then all of a sudden you are someone else in the next. It is like I am writing to 2 entirely different people.

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Hello again my love,are you writing me and not anyone else okay. Yeah we are at store write and busy selling and this time around to you fail to talking about my traving issue so i take it that you understood what i said lol please let me know when you are ready and want me to come. Then again tell me what to do prove my love you honey if that is what you want me to do baby...

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Sent from my Nokia phone

Good evening my love! I see you ladies worked hard at the store today. It is nice to see that the store is a success.

It is only you that I am speaking to and I have no desire to talk with any other woman. You don't need to worry about that.

I did stop talking of that because it always ends wrong.

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Good morning my love,how are you doing? how nice it is to her that you don't have any intention to talking with any other woman but me...Anyway i don't even have time to thinking about that.You have all my attention and i honestly promise you that and my heart honey. This who i am and i cant change that,i promise to stand by in all time so please promise me your love and care for me baby,i really mean what we are doing so please don't let me down okay...I love you baby

Good morning my sexy girl! I hope everyone is well and enjoying the day. I had thought you would know for a fact that no other woman gets to take me from you. My love, care and attention all belong to you only. You need not waste even a second worrying of those things my dear.

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Hello honey we are back home and yet another day has been granted.Your
hard working lady miss his man and would love to have him by her side
all night long but distance has set us apart.And what is distance when
there is true love,care,honest and all the qualities that constitute
Miss right and a man who has a big heart for the love of a woman.
Wishing to have you close and wake beside you is all my heart
desire.Good night:*:*:*:*:*:*I love you Derrick take care

Good morning my sexy girl! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. It is nice that you had another great day at your work and I certainly wish I were there by your side to make you feel better after a long hard day. I hope you slept well and had wonderful dreams of you and I together.

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Good day love,how are you doing and everyone?My greetings to them as well baby.I log on to the site we meet and deleted my profile since i dont need it any more.I don't know for sure but i saw you online.My heart in chains,bleeds and yearning to be with you but i fear if all effort turns out to be vain what is the use of that my love.With all i do i want you to know for sure that the love i for me is real so dont let me down...Gravelyn kissssss take care

Good morning beautiful! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. How is everyone there? I do not believe that it was me you saw in the site baby. I have not been there for a while now. I used to go in there just to see if you had left me a message but I know that you don't do that so I don't go back there any longer. I have the only girl that I need right here. You never seem to believe me.

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Good day honey,how are you doing and work as well. Am very glad that
fanaly we are in position to talk about beleive and that trust in
question.what i want to ask is do we really trust each other?

Hello again my sexy baby! I really wish we could figure that out because you do not seem to trust or believe anything. No matter what I say you continue to do this to me. I can't seem to get anything right with you and I am getting very frustrated.

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Good morning baby,how are you doing and your health my love its quite
important to me. We stated all fine and eventualy everything seem to
look like we don't trust each other which i see it to be impossible
for everything we are doing without trust. I have ask you several
times to tell me what i should to prove my love just for us to build
our trust together but everything seem not to be working honey. We all
are part of the problem baby but its not too late my love.

Good morning my love! I hope everyone is well and enjoying the weekend. I know we are able to fix this. It started great but somehow went completely wrong. I do not think asking you to prove your love to me is a true test of a relationship. I know we love each other we just have to work on the rest.

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Can we have chart today baby?

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We had a chart yesterday and he did not enjoy it one bit. I started questioning the wages there, the price of hamburger and macaroni. He would not give me a straight answer to save his life. I finally got him to say that beef was 1 dollar but that was the only thing he finally answered. Our chart pretty much went like this

Grace: and what i know is what i know is whati told you
me: So what you were paid is what you earned and you put it in your pocket?
Yay
That is no answer
I had a paycheck. It said I was at work

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Good morning my love,how are you doing.where you able to talk to them
on phone yesterday to find out why? Am sorry for not giving you
straight answers you needed hear yesterday okay.I thought about it and
i think at least you need to know our standard of living over here
because you deserve to know. Honey i think there is no need for you to
use my country situation to insult and disrespect me when arguing with
you. I will talk to you after church and am going to tell every
details you need to ear from me. Then again forgive and forget let
yesterday be our past that we don't want to revisit. That is the other
side of me when am trying to talk to you softlow. I will check up on
you after church promise me you are going to be good a boy lol and
talk to sweet to me miss that bye bye take care kiss Gracelyn

That is the bipoler thing I brought up to him saying I was talking to 2 different people. Every time the chat started going South and he was saying stupid stuff I would call him on it. His net would go bad and the other, slightly smarter one, would come back.

Good morning my love! I hope everyone is well and enjoying your Sunday and churching stuff. I did not try to use your country to insult you dear, I am trying to learn about you and your life there. I don't see why that seemed so unreasonable to you. That should have been a very simple and straight forward discussion but it got way out of hand.

I have a serious dislike for deception, especially from my lady. I have seen far too much of that in the past, I do not want it in my future.

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I dropped him a little greeting this AM. nothing much, just to keep him on the hook. His Mondays are always at aunties shop so I know what to expect there.

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Good day my love,how are you doing and work as well?Yeah we are at shop they brought in new stock today.I talk to Stacy about what she is reading and issure consering the wage.she told me before you will get employ,companys will apply for student who with better grades and base on that you will be by gain the salary.Then again the salary you will demand will be base on the position you wil occupie in the firm since much is expected from you.she said the salary start from 1000 to 2000 cide a month and as you get promoted you salary get increas.I miss you baby i wil mail you about how we started family business and the initila capital and where we are today as family.Honey i dont know much about it and am not saying everything she told happen to be the truth so tell how things are going there.I miss you my love.....I cant stop thinking of you baby kisssssss

Hello again my love! Everything is good here, I just finished my inventory and about to order more for the week. I sat down here to check my numbers with my supply and found your mail. Thank you very much for asking her and I am very sure that she would be much more aware of the wage considering that she studies it. I don't doubt her a bit.

I recall you saying that is considered middle class and that is great. Now I have some kind of idea what you meant by that. Now can you tell me how the cide compares to the US dollar? I don't know that measure of coin.

I miss you too and I hope you are not tired tonight or at least sleeping well and having great dreams.

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Good morning honey,how are you doing?Am glad you some how understood
what i was saying and clear some doubt in head that we can archive
something positive in this relationship by a way of leaning how to
trust each other.Our cide isn't doing too well agains the dollar it
kept deprecating and now ,1 dollar is selling for 1.98 cide. Over here
in our country we import more then we export so its really affecting
the state of the economy which is making standard of living very
high.Thanks for your understanding my love i really appreciate that
and makes me very happy this morning kiss and take care.Enjoy the rest
of your day. Gracelyn love you

Good morning sexy girl! I hope everyone is well and enjoying the day. It was very easy to understand your message. You were telling me facts as you and your sister know them to be. That is much better than what we fought about the other day. Now I know more about you and life in your country. If my math is correct on the figures you told me and the rates of cide to dollar, the wage would be somewhere between 500-1,000 a month in US dollar equivalent.

I hope you had great dreams of us and all those kisses you are saving up for me.

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Hello my love,how are you doing and your health as well. Am worried
just as you are baby but am not in good shape. Am having a unbearable
headhik and i can't do anything baby more so i think am over Stressing
myself working that is what the doctor told me today honey. I miss you
and i need to take my sleeping pills.

Good day my lover! I hope everyone else is well and enjoying the day. I am glad to find your mail today but sad to read that you have a headhik. I hope you get some rest and start feeling better. I have been missing you the last few days.

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Good day my love,How are you doing and i guess you are working by now.Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable. So far our love is been wonderful gift with alot of attention from each other which show how much we somehow care; trust not in it, we dont believe in it, we dont give it a chance to grow and how can it be returned to to us to give it again and again.Derrick honey we started from bottom now we are here,what are we making of that baby?My love i didnt go to any where today and still on medication i need some rest to.Please give attention to what i wrote because this how my heart feels when ever i wake and start to think of you....I love you baby i cant wait to read from you....

Good day baby! I hope you feel slightly better and are kind of enjoying the day. I am back from my own doctor now and see my baby is still feeling bad. I hope you start getting better.

I am really surprised that you copied something from the computer to me. That has no place in our communications and it makes me feel like you think of me as an idiot. I know you don't write that way.

Get your rest and then we will work this out.

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Good evening my love,please i dont think you are idiot honey and will never take you for a fool.I know you will know but i copied because apparently that is the problem we are facing as couples baby.I love you baby i cant leave to think that you dont trust me because is guilt in my mind and i need to be free of that my love....Then again enought of talking about that but think about how i feel one more time please please okay...How did your appointment with doctor go....please tell me more about it,did you go with your mom?

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Good morning my love,how are you doing and i guess you asleep by now.I miss you baby,let have a chart when you are free and would like to talk.....Dont forget to tell me how it went if your doctor yesterday baby and am getting better....Goooooooood mornnnnnnnnnnning kissssssss wakeeee wakeeeee kisssss

Good morning my love! I hope you are well and enjoying the weekend now that you are feeling better. Apparently I have yet another doctor that I must visit now. I had never met this lady before and still have my appointment with the other lady later this month. I was given another prescription for my medication but also told not to fill it until they get the lab work back that I did yesterday.

Honey I think you know how I feel about pasting nonsense to me. It is useless as far as our communication is concerned. If i wanted to read that mess I would visit those places on the computer.

Mom told me to say hello to you. I told her of you yesterday.

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He wanted to chart this morning and I gave him the chance. He stayed on for 3 minutes then wrote this in mail and chart.

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Am sorry i couldnt meet you as i wanted to but i hope we can try that tomorrow i miss you baby....Good night kisss

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We tried the chart again yesterday. At 1 PM I finally answered him. It took almost an hour for him to open the chat. I made him wait 15 minutes as I was charting another in skype then replied, and so began the lazy talking.

A lot of "yeah" "okay" "really" and many other one or two word nonsense that I would not answer back until he said hello. Then I would ask what was the conversation because he left me nothing to discuss. It's no wonder I cannot trust him, he is lazy and says nothing.

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hello honey am back from church can we talk baby?honey i think what we should do is to arrange for the time to talk to know the time to be come online....That will help us alot baby kisss...I"ll check up on you then..

Hello my sexy girl! I am inside for a while if you happen to be around right now. I hope you all enjoyed your church stuff.

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Hello my love,we need to know the time to be online.its really important to me because i hate to keep you waiting and not meeting you as well.....This shouldnt happen by chance honey it ought to be plan..I miss my love and love you forever take care...

Good morning my sweet baby. I hope you are well and enjoying the day. I woke with wonderful thoughts of my girl today. I hope you had great dreams as well. I know you will be with your auntie again today. Don't work too hard please, I don't want you sick again.

PS- I got your mail just as I was typing this to you. You must have had the same thought as me because I was really thinking of how good it would be to wake beside my love and share kisses before we shower.

Today I am doing my chemical inventory and order after I get the chemical house cleaned and straightened out so they can stock it properly again. It makes it easier for me to get my tallying done if I know that is stocked fully.

He slipped this in before I sent mine so I will revise.

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Good morning baby,how are you doing and how i wish am there with you when you wake up to give your morning kiss and have our breakfast in bed before we go to work my love..I will go to store today around 12:00pm my time is been a whale...Tell me your plans this morning?i will check up on before i go to store..I love you sweetheart kisssssss

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Good evening my love,we are back home and you know i cant stop thinkingof you.Honey am in love with you and my heart beat fast when i read your mail..Anyway my anuite didnt even allow me to work today maybe tomorrow baby.I believe you had your chemical house clean up and everything put in order...I miss you my love and i cant wait to see you in person....Am back home from work and i wish i can imaging how you look like when you are back as well hahaha...Well i need to take my shower and find something to eat after i watch news for a while and go bed..My love tell me time you come home from work okay and the time you leave as well i would like to know...Good night kisssssssssss

Good morning my sweet bride! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. We got the chemical house in order yesterday and I should have a truck with more chemical out here tomorrow. I was very worried about you thinking and wondering if you might be working too hard. I am glad your auntie didn't let you work very hard.

I can only imagine what you look like coming in from work and cannot wait until the day that I am seeing you when I come in from work and we can both get in the shower to clean up before we worry about supper.

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Good day my love,How are you doing today baby?why not we can always find something to eat when and after the shower honey.Am at store right now and not working too hard as i use to becaus now we have five employees helping out so i dont have to work too hard so dont work too hard okay my love and save alot of energy for me,i need that lol.Is been a while i fuck my pussy so am going to need you more offten when i come we all need real fuck trust me and i cant wait to ride you like one of horse in your farm lol.I love you sweetheart take care and i'll mail you when i get home.

Hello again my lover! I am very happy that you are taking it easy on yourself and that you ladies have more help in the store now. That is fantastic for your health and also sounds like your auntie is doing very well with her business.

I might work hard now but once you are here I will be working half as much so I will have plenty of energy to bring home to my girl and I will be more than happy to give you a good fuck in the shower. You can ride the stallion any time you like. I am pretty sure it will be a simple matter to get him ready to saddle up.

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Good evening sweetheat!Am glad you are saving up alot of energy to give me wonderfuly treat when i come over and yes baby my aunties is somehow getting better then again the growth rate as been somehow awesome then previews years.

Am done taking my shower and eating something to as well,I'll watch news for a while before i go to bed but am right here behind the computer thinking of you my love.I sometimes feel like am dreaming,is it fantecy or illusion but i know is the real love that i feel in my heart and we all realize that the day i'll wake up beside you every morning, even and the feeling of know that we belongs to each other forever baby.GOOD NIGHT DERRICK KISSSSSSSSSSS

Good morning my treasure! I hope you are all doing well and enjoying the day. I am conserving my energy but also making sure I still have that stamina that I will need to satisfy my girl. This will definitely be a sweet treat for the both of us.

I hope your news there isn't as bad as what we usually see here. They spend a lot of time reporting on crime here and most of it is just stupid shit. Kids stealing cars because they are too lazy to walk, shooting people for no good reason. This country is getting really crazy.

I wish you were sitting here at the computer with me right now. I can watch your photos when I wake but it's nothing like really being able to touch you.

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Morning my love.how are you doing ang i guess you maybe at work by now.Honey seeing each other in person reminds of how pripered are we and tells how we really want to each other closer but anyway i think you have your own plans and knows what is best for us baby.

I wish one day all th doubt we have in our mind and all the distrust,we can do away and find some place in our heart to move this relationship to a higher hight.My love i keep saying we not getting younger and i think we need each other baby which is the reason why promise you over again and again that i wont let you down and i want same in return.I dont need anything but all i want is real love so if you think you are that man i have been seeking long ago and you feel,i'm why wasting much more time?I know this must be hard for us but i wish we can try...

Well so far it's been fun and i like the way things are moving and i think all that we need is a little effort from us to make it work.I love you sweetheart take care kisssss......

Good morning my baby girl! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. You are right my dear it has been great fun so far and I know we can make much more of this if we try. There has never been a doubt of that in my mind. Except for that potato guy I have been watching out for.

It is obvious that we aren't getting younger darling and I really don't understand your reason for the continued use of the phrase "why are we wasting time". That does absolutely nothing to help us here. Please don't say that again. We are trying and I am sure we will get there.

I love you and really want to work things out and be with you fort the rest of my life.

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Good day my love,well we are all great and enjoying our day baby.I guess you are at work by now?Honey every relationship has it own up and downs which i keep wondring how can we make how head way without trust baby?Moreover am sorry for not mailing you yesterday, i had my internet disconnectd which i had to pay this morning.

My love if i have to stand out as exception woman for you,what kind of quality are you expecting from me as a woman for your life time?I really need your help on that because trust is the key element we are missing in our relationship baby...

I love you Derrick and i want you stay by you side..Take care.

Good morning angel! I hope you are all doing well and enjoying the day. I am always at work my lady, but not always outside. I missed you when I did not see your mail but I am not upset with you dear. I was very busy trying to catch up anyways and worried that maybe you were sitting and waiting on my mail.

You already stand out to me as my lady. I am not telling you the things I want in a woman because that would not be the real you. I want you to be yourself. I am not here to change you,

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Good evening my love,how is your day so baby?I miss you as well just
that sometime i get confuse and i don't do anything bad that may upset
you my love more so i ask of you that because i just want to know how
carry myself when charting and stuff baby.

Well we back home already and i want to get some rest but i thought of
checking up on you before i go to sleep baby.I love the way things are
going on right now and please send me one picture of you again okay..

I love you sweetheart good night...kisssssssssss

Good morning my treasure! I hope you are all doing well and enjoying the weekend. Everything is going fine here so far but that could change at any moment as you know. I do have another doctor appointment on Monday so I will spend most of tomorrow trying to get ahead so I can take the time to go do that and play catch up all over again when I return.

I miss you and I do think we are doing great so far. I don't want you to act different in mail or chats just please ignore asking me why we are wasting time. That is not a proper phrase in any way.

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Good evening my love,how are you doing and everyone to baby?Am sorry i
was a little busy today so i couldn't mail you on time as i use
to.well we are back home and i miss you baby.I already have the
picture you sent and don't forget to tell me more about the
appointment you have the doctor tomorrow.

Anyway i don't want to ask anything about that again baby,i only ask
of that because somehow i felt we need each other.Honey have you
thought of coming over to see me here and how things from your own
point of view probably invest over here as business man.There are so
many business opportunity and think from world projection Africa is
expanding which Ghana as country we are somehow on track.so maybe you
can do your research and think about if you are interested...

I love you honey and i'll sleep thinking,dreaming of you all night
long.GOOD NIGHT KISSSSSSSSS

Good morning my lover! I hope you are well and enjoying your Sunday and churching. I missed you yesterday baby and I am glad I found your mail this morning. I know my girl is safe at home at least.

We do need each other. I might consider a trip over there but I don't think I would be interested in any investment in a country that far off. I would most likely only be interested in seeing you.

I hope you slept well and thought of us.

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Good evening my love,how are ytou doing and how was you apportment with the doctor.I do miss you all the time babya and you be most welcome into my country which i cant want to meet you over...

I love you my love,am of to bed but i would check up on you before i go to store in the morning.....GOOD NIGHT

Good morning my lover! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. I haven't been to the doctor yet. That will happen today. I am not real sure what all is going to happen here but it might be good. My labs came back all right the other day so I'll just have to see what they do.

I wish I were pulling you to me and holding you tight in the bed and kissing you good night.

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Good day my love,I guess you okay baby and my greetings to everyone.Honey i know for sure nothing will happen to you,just that i only want to know what was going on.I miss you my love...

Honey in real life most of us have come to agree that marriage is made of two sinners and it need forgiveness when it due..May i ask you how quickly do you forgive if you think it is necessarily?I for instance,i turns to be emotional person sometime when it comes to certain issuers regarding love matters but as to who is right or wrongs,i just accept my mistake when i know i am which sometime i believe am not,just not to over propane issuers to cool down termpar and i expect same from my man as well.i'll give you my gift of respect and care to respect in all time honey........

With you am happy about how we are communicating and sorting out to speak about real life issuers and acknowledge the fact that previews weeks for us so far has been awesome.Thanks for been there for me and i will forever accept as who you .kissss my love .

Good morning angel! I hope everyone is well and enjoying the day. Everything went well with the doctor yesterday but it sure put my way behind here at work by the time I got back. I am still trying to get caught up completely.

Of course our marriage will be made up of 2 people, sinners if that term suits you better. They basically the same since people are imperfect no matter what label others might describe them with.

I certainly would never think myself to be perfect and I don't expect you will be either. I don't really hold any resentment toward things when they happen and don't see where there is a need to ask for or give it unless the event is huge. Most times it is merely a discussion to find and fix the issue and we move beyond that leaving the issue as being settled.

Most disagreements are caused by two differing opinions but when the 2 people communicate as we do there is no need for blame only solutions as to how we work out our problems. We would be living an entire lifetime together so it is very important that we are able to express ourselves. I would not want to ever go to bed with either of us angry at the other.