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Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21158

Lovely queen P! Please tell mom she is a queen in my heart also. She is so sweet to me. I think even she knows we are meant to be. I hope you understand that I give no credit to fictional gods. All that has come to pass is due to you, mom and me. No others.

You know I have always supported your work and determination. This never has and never will upset me. When I express an opinion that may not be popular and don't see anything for a day or so, I have to see where your thoughts are.

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Hello Sweetheart,How are you doing?I hope you are doing very well,,Sorry for the delay,I know you already understand all what`s going on here ,,I Miss and Love you soo much Derrick..My time is very limited,i have to work more because you know the Holidays are just approaching..
The least time i get after doing some house chors and other stuffs i then Check my emails ,cos you know we have to keep the communication,,we have to keep the faith hope and love .
I just want you to know that i love you for real and i just can`t wait for that in person .I love you Derrick .Kisses

I was just looking through the older mails from this one. I started on this by PM and worked it slowly for a couple of weeks before I got him to mail. His first mail was June 10. I have no way of getting to the old PMs so can't say for sure.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21158

My sweet princess! I really wonder at times if I am even worthy of your love. And it is worse thinking mom may not love me also. It hurts me to say things but you know I don't say them for the wrong reasons.

I never have and never will be mad about your work. I have known this part of you from the start.

Today was the Thanksgiving holiday here in the US. I watched yesterday to make sure things did not get real bad and let my morning crew trip the pipe out of the hole starting about 2 in the morning. I still am not asleep from that as I have to be there if something happens and I have sent all my guys on a one day holiday with their families.

I had some time with my family but not much. I got a plate and saw the wind pick up. I had to get myself back out here immediately and check everything for possible problems. Rather than call them back I did all of it myself and am watching everything with this gusting wind tonight.

Please kiss mom for me!
I love you my treasure

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Hello Sweetheart,How are you doing ??I am hoping you are doing okay in terms of your health as well,,It`s always good to have some time with the family..And also am hoping work is going on well with you.
Honey yes you are worthy of my love ,,Love is something from the heart and mine is straight from my heart for you .I love and i just can`t wait to be with you as husband and wife.
Mom is still on the travel and tour companies trying to fish out the best..We will let you know when she finds out the best.
I love you Derrick,am happy we found each other .
Big kisses and hugs

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21158

My lovely queen! I hope you and mom are doing great today. I had some serious time with my mother on the way to my scan and we talked of you. She is already asking of babies. I am afraid she is going to drive you crazy with questions like this. Looking back, we have never even talked about sex much less babies.

My work is going well I guess you could say, but I get these crap appointments with doctors that interrupt me.

Mom asked me to say hello for her and she wants to know your shirt size. Whether you answer this is up to you baby.

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Hello Handsome,,I hope you are doing great,I have really miss you,and am always blessed to check my email to see you write to me,,,You are very understanding,loving and caring Derrick,I really love you.
I mostly think about this,and today am glad to know what i often think about,,that your mom have accepted me too,just like how my mom have accepted you,that means we can surely build and have a brighter future together.
She have already started talking about babies,that good to know,and you have to also know that i will be glad to make babies with you..Am beginning to have some strong feelings that we are meant to be,do you sometimes feel the same?If so that means we are Soul Mates .
I have done alot of thinking which i know you have done the same too,,why don`t we make our minds well and life the rest of our lives in happiness..My heart is yours You have my word Derrick.
Please say hi for mom for me,and tell her my shirt size is 16..
I love and miss you Derrick

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Good morning my treasure! I hope you and mom are doing well today. Sorry it took so long to get back to you. I have been dealing with doctor after doctor for about a week now. Such a pain but I finally got this round over with.

Baby, mom is very accepting of us. She does not even know how pretty you are yet. She only knows that I love you and we are trying to create a family together. Funny she found the baby thing to jump at first.

It is very easy for me to admit that I have very strong feelings for you. I'm sure you knew this already but I sometimes forget to tell you just how special you are to me. My mind is already made up, I belong to you if you will have me angel!

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Hello My Darling Derrick,
How are you doing??i miss you alot,I forgot to let you that we were voting on the 7th which was yesterday,everything when on well,but just that the EC is on the counting.
God should let the right one win.Anyway how are you doing your self Honey ?and Mom as well,Please say hi to mom for me .
So Honey tell me how your planing for the Xmas,i wish i was there already,but mom is still no thing just looking for the right place travel and tour company.
Am trying to gather some little money to get you and your mom something for this Xmas,i want your address Derrick .
Am a bit less busy again i didnt work yesterday and today,am home and i will come and again to check if you emailed me.
I love you so much Derrick ,Big Kisses and Hugs

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My lovely P! I hope you and mom are enjoying a wonderful day there. I have not read from you in a while baby and I am getting worried. Is everything all right?

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Hello Sweetheart,sorry for the delay in responds,,I became sick and was admitted at the Hospital for 2 days,i came home just this morning,am doing okay now Derrick,Don`t be worried,it wasn`t anything serious,just that the doctor said i shouldn`t stress my self too much.
I fell sick because i work too much,but it`s not my fault,i needed to gather some money for this holidays,,but i guess i over did it.
Am very happy the way things are going now,,i Believe strongly that we will be together as one no matter what .Now your mom have accepted me and why will it scares me if she wanna know more about my self or maybe us,,how we met each other,,if we truly love each other,,.I will be very glad to let her know anything she need or want to know without any fear.
That`s what every responsible mom should do,My mom have asked me those questions,and am not afraid if your mom ask me the same or even some different i don`t even have in mind..i will be glad to answer her honestly,I just have to be there that`s all.
Honey i think you are forgetting something,i asked for your address,but nothing,i have some little money left which i can get something nice for you for this xmas and the new year.
Do you know what i have in mind now Derrick?Phone call i wanna hear your voice my love ,,what do you think?We have to move to the next level in this relationship,maybe we can talk more about sex and our babies we wanna make.
I love you Derrick...Big kisses and hugs

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21158

My sweet, gentle Queen! i hope all is well and you are enjoying the day there. I am very sorry to read that you were ill and in the hospital baby. I wish I had been with you to help you get through it. I hope you do feel better now and please do not overdo it again. I know we all want more money to spend for the holidays but it is not worth making yourself sick.

I just thought it fair for you to know how my mother is. She does this more of curiosity than anything. She likes to know things about our family and even your own family.

Honey I have no trouble giving you my address but I do not want you to spend your money on gifts and such. Hold on to your money in case you or mother need it for something. I will give it to you after the holidays so you are not tempted to send me something. You are the only gift I need.

You are right that it is time for us to take another step in our relationship. I will be happy to talk with you on any of these subjects that you are comfortable talking about. Nothing is off limits to me honey.

I love you so much!
I am sorry you were sick
but I am glad you and mom are safe
Please kiss her for me!

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Hello Sweetheart,,Am doing okay now you don`t have to be worrying too much,,How are you doing self Derrick are you now home for the holidays?
It`s good to know that about your mom,,That tells me she want happiness for you in teams of your relationship.that`s all a good mother can think about her son...If you don`t mind you can give her my email address so that she email me personally she may have a lot to ask and I will be glad to let her know anything she want to know about me .
Derrick do you like the idea about the phone thing ?That way we can talk voice to voice,,talk more to deep.
One of the things I like is exchange of gifts,,I wish we could do it with you this festive period,,but since you don`t like the idea it`s okay i still Love you LOL.
Again what do you think about talking on phone?
The love i have for you is unbelievable,It`s for Real.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21158

Good morning my treasure! It is always great to read from you again. I hope you and mom are doing great. I am not at home right now baby. I am going to try to get away for Christmas but I am not sure if I will or not. If I possibly can get away I will tell mom your email. Be on the lookout for one from @gmail.com This is her name but she goes by her middle name which is Sue.

Honey, I would really love to talk to you when I am at home but I just cannot do it with my business phones. If the guys saw me getting personal calls, they would think it is okay for them to be on their phones all day long. I have had to fire a couple of people for that so I have banned them while they are at work. They can leave those in their vehicles but I better not catch them out there checking and making calls or text stuff. I don't pay them for that. <My k7> is our home number but I only have it set to receive voice or fax while I am at work.

Gift exchange or just surprising you is something I like to do. I just do not want you to spend money on me while you are there and then something happen where you may need that. When we are together we can exchange gifts whenever we like. I will have no problem with that.

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Hello Derrick,
How are you doing?I hope you are doing okay and not working too much,because the holiday States tomorrow..LOL
Anyway I miss you soo much,,i just want you to give me a day in these holidays you will be home so that i call you,I don`t want to call for the machine to answer it.
I want to hear your voice at once..I love you Honey no matter what..I believe this is our time
Mom says hi but i say Mary Christmas in advance,
Love you Honey..Big kisses and hugs

Posted: Mon Dec 24, 2012 6:34 pm

Go for it, NV. You show tremendous dedication to what you do Thumbs up

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21158

Thank you TM! I'll likely be coming round soon to talk about that safari before long. I think I may be able to get this one moving.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21158

Good morning my sweet queen! I hope all is well and you are all having a merry Christmas there. I don't know how everyone is at moms house. I need to call them and wish them a great Christmas also. I will pass your best wishes to them when I speak to them. I am a bit irritated that I won't get any of the chicken and dumplings that they are cooking up.

Everything is fine here with me and my work. I got the men a day off today to be with their families but it is so cold and the weather is about to turn very nasty, I will not be leaving here. I do not want to have any traffic accident that would prevent me from being back on time.

I am not so worried about being cut up, although it hurts a little, I know with this bitter cold we had this morning, things are going to happen. It was about 5 degrees outside when I let my night crew go home until tomorrow. I am outside for about an hour or so at a time right now knocking loose fluid caps and draining the pumps so they do not freeze up. I've turned my yard hoses on and stuck them all in the water tank or set up some fast line so they would flow back that way. I have just about got everything ready for a terribly cold day now.

Once I am done with all of this I will just be sitting here in my trailer watching and listening to everything out here. The men will be back tomorrow at 6 AM and we will start back in with a fresh bit.

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Hello Derrick,
How are you doing??Honestly this Christmas haven`t been nice to me at all,i don`t really know why,you had everything,at least enough money to as well but i guess it`s just boring.
No internet since the last time i sent you my last mail,the phone was also not working so well,i couldn`t call.
So tell me how have your Holidays been tell me,may be yours is a nice one.
Did you wish your mom a Merry Christmas for me?Hope you did.
My Mom says i should wish you a Merry Christmas for her,All the same i still haven`t heard from your mom,i guess she`s still busy with the family this festive season.
I love you soo much Derrick,It`s my prayer and wish to be with you early next year.I miss you .
Big kisses and hugs.

Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2012 2:56 pm

^^^ I just read the Blog Posts Shocked

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...he begged me to thrust my different subjects in intimate places of my body, and then sent him these pictures.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21158

How did you miss the sex with dog stuff? He is all butthurt right now but I can send my biker after him in a bit! That is about 3-4 of my old Vlads in the blog. They just love me TM!

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21158

Good morning my sweet, lovely treasure! I am not real sure I understand your last mail to me my queen. It seemed as though you are upset with me. Remember when you told me that a persons feelings can actually show through in their mails? I am thinking I see exactly what you meant.

Baby, I told you how and where I spent my Christmas. I went nowhere. I laid here thinking of you after I took care of the rig. I will be doing the same thing tonight but I am not giving anyone the time off for this one. They will be working too.

I hope you and mom enjoy the new year. It is not only a change in date for us, it is also the year we will finally come together ad make our family! I called mom to ask what is going on and she is watching all of the babies for their christmas/new year break. She said she would be mailing you after the babies go back to school.

Baby, I really need to know that you love me. It seems you are yet again not happy with me and now I don't know what is really going on in your mind. I almost think you are not happy because I did not send a gift. While this is true, your gift is waiting here for you and we will make a holiday together!

I love you so much my princess!
Please kiss mom and wish her a happy new year for me
Derrick

Please do not be upset with me baby! I need you!

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Hello Derrick,
How are you doing?Hope everyting is going on well with you,your mom and work as well.
I don`t know why you feel am upset with you Derrick,I am not upset with you.
Maybe you think you should have send me a present for this Christmas and you didn`t so you are thinking about it too much and now making you are feeling bad.You just have to Relax.
All though exchanging of presents is fun and lovely expecially when dating,Honestly i am not upset and see no need to be upset with you for not sending me a present for the Christmas.
You need not to know again Derrick because you already know that I love you with all my heart and just can`t wait to meet you in person.
Happy new year Derrick,This is our year.
Please wish mom a Happy new year for me.
Don`t feel bad Honey.I love you .
Take care .

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Guess I waited a day too long on this one. he is probing me now. I did mail him from my "mom" but waited on Derrick.

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Hello Honey,How are you doing?It`s been a while,i hope you are okay.Missing you

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Good afternoon my darling daughter. I hope you and your mother had a great holiday and new year dear. I usually go by my middle name Sue. You can see the rest of my name there i my address. You may call me any of these names or mom or whatever you are comfortable with baby.

Derrick has been a very lonely man for a long time baby! I have always encouraged him to keep trying and telling him that all women are not liars and cheaters like his first wife. From what he tells me of you I think he has finally found the good girl that I want for him to be with.

My other 2 sons found better women than Derrick did but he married so young he really had no idea what things were about then. He was young and foolish, his wife was even younger and just a lazy girl.

Derrick has told me that you worked yourself into the hospital for holiday money. Baby, please do not do things like that. I love that you are not a sit around lady but I already have one sick daughter, my baby Derrick with the cancer, I will not like to have another. I do not like my babies to be sick love!

Love you P, and I really want to welcome you to my family baby! That is such a lovely name honey.

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Hello Madam Sue,
This is P.I am very glad,In fact proud to see Derrick`s Mom to write to me.You are equally my mother too,So I will be very comfortably calling you Mom as well.
Sorry for the delay in responds,The holidays are over so am now some how busy again with work,but i Promise not to stress my self on work too much this time.
Mom,before we met each other,My past was also very bad,Men just took advantage of me because of my big heart,i do care a lot and love with all my heart .So they saw me stupid.
I was very hurt after my last broke up.I thought he was the Love of my life but he cheated on me.
I didn`t trust and believe in any other man again,But i was advised to forget about the past and continue the life again.I started it again with online dating,but at a point i was beginning to loss hope,because most of the men i met weren`t serious I wrote to the right guys at last,we had a nice conversation where it continued to the via mail to mail till now.
I saw that he was very different from the other men ,so i have to give him some attention.
Every thing went okay At last,we both fell in love with each other so Naturally.
I really love Derrick with all my heart,,but when ever i sit and think about our relationship i feel like he doubt if I really love him.I don`t know why?But i think it`s because he think he`s too fat.
If that is what he really think then he`s making a big mistake.
For all what i know,Love is all about the heart not the personality.
I don`t why i feel that way,but that`s how i feel..I may be wrong.Maybe i also think too much because i was able to Love,trust and believe a man again.
Thanks to Derrick.I really love him.
We both had miserable past.but a bright future .My mom also knows about Derrick,,I always think we both have found the right person.
All I told Derrick was that,he just have to wait for me to come to America to prove him wrong if he really have any doubts,We finally agreed on what i planned because it wasn`t just to prove him wrong ,but to start a brighter life in USA which include a husband plus a big family.
As determined as i see my self,I want something good and better for my self family and friend.So i have decided to come to America to live the life there because America is the very first country some one here will think traveling to.I saw that i could get a better work there,and the most amazing part was that,The true love of my life is in USA my Dear Derrick.
He said he will help me come there,Mom and i are all still on things on how best fast and easier way i can come there so i told him to just relax i will let him know .
I really can`t wait to see my self ,Derrick,you and the rest of the family,
Am very glad you are ready to welcome me into your family.I equally love you too Mom.
Take care Mother.

And Derrick

Good morning my lovely queen! I hope you and mom are fine and having a great new year. I am sorry for my late reply to you. Things have been a little hectic here the last few days and I am just catching up to it

We drilled into a gas pocket and it gave us a lot of trouble with our mud. I was very concerned that it may blow all of my mud out of the hole with the pressure jumping the way it was.

I do hope that you are not over working yourself again my love. It makes me worry that you did that before

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Hello Derrick,
How are you doing?Hope everything goes on well with you there ..I hope you are okay about how i explained things to you in my previous mail about you thinking i was upset with you for not sending you a present for the Christmas,which is wrong.
I finally got an email from your mom.And am very happy in fact very glad .
Honey i have to get ready for second work.I will check on you again when i return .
Much love kisses and hugs.

Posted: Sat Jan 05, 2013 6:51 pm

Good Stuff, NV.

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^^^Thank you Sir! A few beers and I put it on him thick!

Baby, it makes me very happy that you are comfortable calling me mom! I almost cried reading your mail. You are every bit as sweet as Derrick told me. I am so glad he found you somehow. Please never worry about how long it takes for you to mail me. in fact, I should apologize to you for taking so long to mail you in the beginning. Derrick gave me your address but I was taking care of my grandsons so my daughter could feel more relaxed at home.

She has already been through so much for such a young girl. She is only 30 and has already had a double bypass. She is just like you, she is very driven and has been a great joy to me but she sometimes pushes herself too hard.

I do believe you have Derrick figured out very well honey. He has been through some tough times with women and he is insecure about the way he looks. It is terrible of me to say this but some of the girls that he has been with did not give one flip about his heart. Only his wallet or some only for sex and for him to pay the bills. I hated those girls. I knew they did not love him but as a mom you kind of have to step back and evaluate the situation a bit differently. You see it from the outside but do not say much because you do not want to hurt them. it is a terrible position for a mom.

I am very happy to read that you want to come join my family and make babies. I love grand babies honey and Derrick tells me you are a very lovely lady. I can hardly wait to see your babies. I hope you will not get upset if I try to spoil them!

I love you sweety
Please give my love to your mother as well

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Hello Again Mom,I don`t think we are both at any fault,,you were busy with the family so you could email me earlier and I am also busy now a days because i have started with work..But i promise not to over work.
I am a christian,and my religion teaches me to be do onto others what i want them to do onto me,so i don`t see the reason why i should pretend to love some one just for his money.
I think Love deals with the heart,and Derrick have really captured mine.I Love him for real no matter what he looks like.
Am not those kind of girl who came just because of his money.
Mom,I not just saying for saying sake,I Really Love Derrick for real and with all my Heart no matter how he may look like.
Now i just can`t wait to come to America meet you all.
You are such a wonderful mother who really Love and care about her son.Derrick is really Blessed to have you as his mom.
I guessed i didn`t delayed much in the responds Mom.
Please take care of your self because i really care.

Hello my sweety! I do believe I will have the lovely daughter that I have always thought deserves my baby Derrick. You are a sweet girl. I will finally be able to relax knowing that all of my sons have married lovely ladies. It is all I have hoped for them since they were old enough to like girls. I think every mother hopes this for their children.

I will be so happy when I am able to give you a big hug and kiss. Please forgive me for being a chatty old lady but I am sure I will talk you to death dear. If I ask something wrong just let me know though. I have always been very open with my boys.

How is your mother honey? I hope she is great. I would love to meet her some day. I am sure the two of us would get along great. Derrick tells me you got all your sweetness from your mom. He always smiles so big when he talks to me of you 2.

Love you darling

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My wonderful treasure! I hope you and mom are well and enjoying the day there but I must say I am getting worried about your health. You seem to be working yourself too much again. Please calm down baby, you are scaring me. I do not want you sick again.

I was not sure how you meant that about the gift but it hurt my heart when I read that. I did not want to be upset when I replied to you though so I just did not say anything about it.

I am happy to see that you and mom are talking baby! I wasn't real sure if she was rested up from her time with the boys. It is nice that she did that with her vacation time though. She was forced to take the time off or lose it.

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Hello Honey,
How are you doing your self?I am doing okay here,am not over working,I know I need to be healthy for my self and you as well.
I got another mail from mom ,and am very happy the way we are communication with each other,I have observered that she really love and care about you a lot.You are really blessed to have a wonderful mom .
Now i just can`t wait to came to USA to meet you all.
I will surely kiss mom for you because i do that every night before i go to bed,so now a days i have to kiss her twice,one for you and one for me(smile)
I Love you Derrick,i just can`t wait to meet you .

I am so glad to know that you and mom are getting along very well. I was afraid she might scare you away before I even got you here. Has she been nagging at you about babies and all that just yet? That is usually where she starts. She is not shy and she will talk your leg off.

Thank you for kissing mom for me baby! Please don't stop at 2 kisses though. She needs many more than that! She is just like my mother in my heart. Our family is very loving, very affectionate and very open. I hope she will not just think me some crazy man when I finally meet her and treat her the same as my own mom. I consider her to be already.

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Hello Mom,How are you doing?I hope you atre doing okay ,,I should have emailed you yesterday,because i was on ,but it was late and i was very tired as well,so I ended up emailing Derrick only and desided to email you today.
You haven`t asked anything wrong Mom and okay with everything you have asked me so far.
My mother is very serious about me making babies and also the one I will stay with the rest of my life.i told her Derrick and i are very sure about each other,,so she`s now Happy and willing to support very well.
I hope every thing is going on well with you and the rest of the family ,I love you soo much Mom.
I leave you with much love and hugs .

Hello my sweet baby! Please do not be upset that you were tired and did not write me before now. I would much rather know that you chose to sleep than to hurt yourself again. I am not that important dear and you will be putting up with me for the rest of my life unless my kids put me in the old folks home. I know they won't do that though baby so don't get upset with Derrick for that. Darrin and Tracy have already said I could come stay with them.

I am so happy to know that your mother supports the 2 of you and I want you to know that I do also. You are a very sweet girl and you make my baby very happy. He loves you baby! Just between you and me though, he is sometimes a naughty boy. All he does is work. I think you can straighten him out and make him start coming home to his family like he should.

Please give my best to your mother honey. I am so glad Derrick has finally found an angel!

Love you my dear
You are every mothers dream
Hugs and kisses

And to Derrick

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Hello Derrick,how are you doing ?sorry for the delay,i came on to see 2 emails from you and your mom.
Like you know work is going on so i don`t get enough time for even some personal things.I don`t get time for you as well but I try to check on you the least chance i get.In all I am very grateful to have some one like you who really understands the situation.
How is work going at your side?Hope everything is okay there.
Honestly Derrick,Mom was talking to me about you just this last Monday,It is Amazing,she called me to talk to ask me if i was ready to make babies.
She got to know that i don`t have any problem of making babies even if it goes to the extend of me being a house wife to take care of the kids at home,,but now her problem is men a now a days,no generosity,so she just have to be sure her only lovely daughter doesn`t goes into any other bad guy again.So she asked me if I am really sure about you .Mom told me that was the last time she was going to ask me that..She wants to be sure once and for all.
After all the declaration i made about you that i was sure about you,She continued told me that she was sorry she haven`t started yet with the errant i asked her to make for me since am always busy with work,I am talking about my travelling processing to come to USA..She told me that she haven`t start with any thing because she needed to know how strong we love each other before contacting any travel and tour or even the Embazy.
Derrick,i think that was a very good thing mom did,to know if am ready for babies and also if we really love and want each other.
I have made up my mind in this,I really love you and want to start up a new and a better life with you.
It seems you and mom are very interested in babies,that`s not bad..I am ready to make babies with the one i love and want to be with for the rest of my life.
Mom said she is now okay,she now knows want she needed to know and promised to start with my travelling things Monday.
Derrick i think i have to ask you this .Are you sure you really Love and want me as you always say?I believe you do but i still have to know from you because i told mom we both love each other and are ready for each other as well.
I have to respond to your mom as well,but It`s late and am very tired,i will tomorrow.Say hi to her for me in case she ask of me.
I love you both but much love to goes to you my Darling,Big kisses and hugs.
Take care.

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Hello Mom,
I am very happy to know that Derrick really Loves me,Honestly am blessed to know this fact especially from you.You know Derrick enough so you really know what you are telling me.I love you Mom and thank you .
I told my mother that we do communicate with each other and in fact i told her how sweet and loving you are to me,so she now have no fear of the kind of person and family i will be going into,she is very sure now,that i won`t go into any other troubles again concerning dating.
She asked me to say hi to you for her.
I can`t wait to give you a big hug Mom.Take care.

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Good evening my wonderful queen! I hope you and mom are fantastic and enjoying the day there. You know I never get upset about how long it takes to get mail back from you. This is not a race to see who mails who faster than the other. I know that you and I are building that one very special relationship that will last forever.

I am a little sad that mom did not look into things before now but I think I can understand why. It must be so difficult for her to want to let you go and face the world with me here. I actually applaud what she has done with the hesitation and the talk.

I want you to understand me very well here, babies are not my top priority, you are. I am not even going to think of it until you and I have bee together for some time and our marriage is rock solid. Our babies, if we are blessed with them, will be raised in a home with 2 very loving parents.

Please tell mom that I love her dearly and I am not about to give her any unloved grand babies to spoil. I have to spoil my baby first. She will have very lovely children when we are ready for that.

Let me state this loud and clear for you to read my angel. I ABSOLUTELY LOVE, WANT, NEED AND ADORE YOU! PLEASE COME TO ME AND STAND WITH ME THROUGH LIFE!

I love you so much my treasure!
Please kiss mom for me and thank her!
She has brought my love to me!

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Hello Sweetheart,
I miss you a lot and can`t really imagine how happy we will both be together.You are right Dear,we will make babies when we are ready for them that`s when our marriage and love life is very solid,there we will usually go and visit your mom and the rest of the family.
I think that was the best time for my mom to to verify if we really love each other,I got to realized some thing very important too as well.I am now very sure you love me Derrick.I Promise to give out my all,I will stand with you through life Honey.
As the saying goes,action speaks lauded than words so you just have to wait for me to come to USA that`s all.
I know it`s not a race of who emails each other first but it`s always my wish to respond to you on time rather that to delay,it`s good to know that you and your mom both understands my work and appreciate the little time i get for you.
Mom and I are doing great,How are you doing your self?I hope everything is okay with you and work as well.
Please take good care of your self for me Derrick I really Love you .

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Hello baby. I am so happy to see your mail again. I am sorry to see that you needed me to tell you that Derrick really loves you darling. I am not sure about the communications between you 2 but it seems he is not opening up to you baby. I am sorry for that. I will have a talk with him about this.

He is always very kind to ladies but he is also guarded at times. I just have to tell him it is okay to let your wife see that you are not only big and tough but can also show vulnerabilities and emotions. I will try to help you there baby but I think you have already brought a lot of that out of him all by yourself. You are just what my boy needs.

Honey, I do not know anything of your dating in the past. It is none of my business. Your mother knows you better than I do so she knows what she is saying to you. She sounds just as sweet and smart as my baby said she is. Please give her my best wishes. I can tell Derrick really loves her.

Please take care of yourself honey and get your rest. I love you so much for making my baby happy! You are so good for him!

Hugs and kisses
Mom

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Hello again Mom,
You shouldn`t be sorry,I just didn`t expect to hear that from you.So i was happy and very proud my Man`s mom told me that even if i know,you know how we women are..I already know Derrick Loves me but i wish he could be more open to me than how he is to me now.I truly love Derrick,I know some fat guys are also equally very romantic.I know he can be very emotional i figured that out my own way.Love is not about the personality,my Mom once told me that some years ago,True love is what matters.
It`s good to see this great relationship between us all.apart from Derrick and I,You are in this as well as my mom,that`s Lovely,we will make a very big and wonderful family together.I will surely give my mom your best wishes.
No need for you to thank me mom,we both really makes each other happy.
Take care Mom.
Hugs and kisses.

And Derrick

Good morning my lovely queen! I hope you and mom are well and enjoying the day. We will go visit mom any time you like honey and you will have the car to do that if you choose and I am not home yet. Mom is getting up there in age and it is good that you will want to spend time with her too baby. Tracy, Darrin and the kids are often with her and she loves the company.

I hope you will not be upset with me but I have asked Darrin to go haul one of my extra vehicles home for one of the boys. Roy and Ray are both old enough to drive now but they are sharing one car together. I am not using the pickup and I know it is a very solid vehicle. Nothing fancy but will get him anywhere he wants to go.

Of course mom and I understand your work baby and we both worry about you. Mom is almost 70 and still works and you know my job already. Speaking of mom, she called me earlier baby and chewed me out. Apparently I have not made it very clear to you just how much you mean to me. I am very sorry for that and I will strive to do better. You are everything I have ever wanted in life baby.

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Hello Derrick,
I miss you a lot,It really amazed me,just after responding to Mom`s email,the internet just flew away,I came on to see both mails(from you and mom)I was about to email you too,but it was rather unfortunate.
Am happy i got the change today,the internet is working.
How are you really doing??I hope you are doing okay as well as family and work as well.But with your mom,you know since we are together,that means she`s my mom too as well,so i know i can go visit my mom anytime i want to.
Honey why will i be upset with you if you give them the car???It`s good to let them handle one of them,they are grown ups now i guess.
In all i just wish the Best for you all,,You really have a wonderful Mother.I really adore her,Please take good care of her for me and go visit her more often too as well Honey,that`s the normal thing,I feel you don`t do that much because of your Work.
You are everything I have ever wanted in life too Derrick,that means we are really meant to be.
I love you A lot.Big kisses and hugs Dear.

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How's this for a mess of a story? He wrote mom back on the 17th but I did not check that one until today. Apparently my notifier only checks a few of my addresses for me.

My lovely baby girl. I know I do not have to say this to you but when our babies fail in life, it is a reflection on us. As mothers we always feel we have not done everything possible for our kids. I know you understand this as a woman and your mother may even feel the same way. I am sure she does when she sees you upset baby.

Honey, I am going to tell you why Derrick is a rather guarded person. Please keep this between you and I. I married one horrible man when Derrick was young. He abused myself and Derrick on a regular basis. One night, when derrick was still very young, my husband came home drunk and began to beat me and the baby that he had fathered. Derrick, woke up in the midst of this with all of the yelling. He ran from his bed to the kitchen and picked up a steak fork. He ran in to save me and stabbed him. He got another severe beating for doing that but it was the very last straw for me to see things were not good. He is very protective of women and babies.

I felt like such a horrible mom that I had let that man abuse not only Derrick but my other boys and myself as well. He absolutely hated Derrick. After Derrick stabbed him, I had to have my brother go to the police and explain the situation. My baby was on nerve medicines at 6 years old because of that.

I am sorry to dump all of this on you here baby. I feel I need to because I don't think he would ever say this to you. I failed my baby, I do not want him to fail you.

I love you baby!
Please give my love to your mom
Mom

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Hello Mom,
How are you doing?Hope you are doing okay.Honestly That was the main reason why my mother have waited to be sure before she starts to help me with the errant concerning my travelling processing.She did wanted to see her only daughter to be in a relationship where there isn`t peace and real love.She didnt want any bad reflection on her.
I am very sorry to hear that Mom,but all the same thank you very much for telling me,I promise to keep it between the two of us.
I once said to Derrick,"i have already made up my mind "That mean I Love him No matter what.
I don`t love his past life,but his present and futher life and besides he really care.
You are such a wonderful woman Madam Edna.Please take care i can`t wait to give you also a big hug.

Good morning my lovely daughter! I hope you and your mother are fine. I am sorry it has taken me so long to mail you again baby. Somehow your mail ended up in my spam file and I had not checked it for a while. I am very sorry!

I don't think your mother to be wrong to want only the best for you dear. It shows that she cares for you very much. I know that Derrick has not shown you very well exactly how good of a man he can be and I have chewed him out but good for it. I hope he will improve with your help. I can guarantee that you would never have to worry of Derrick abusing you physically or verbally. He was brought up to respect women and if I think for one second he even thought of doing such a thing I would spank his bottom blue.

Thank you for keeping this to yourself baby. I do not know for sure if Derrick even remembers this as he was so young when it happened and I am kind of worried to say anything of it and hurt him.

I love you my daughter
Please give my best to your mother
Mom

And Derrick

Good morning my lovely queen! I hope you and mom are well and enjoying the day. You know I always worry of you overworking yourself but I am always glad to see your mail again baby. I do understand that things will happen beyond our controls but I am always thinking of you.

Of course she is your mom too baby. That is exactly what she likes for you to feel. She is a very sweet woman and I am so lucky to have her. I never had a father so I really hold mom high on her own pedestal. She has done everything for us through the years.

I am glad you are not upset about me giving the pickup to the boys. I think Darrin and Tracy will be glad that their rates will not be real high having both of the boys driving and the truck had no real trade in value so they may as well have it. We still have many more but not for kids.

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Hello Honey,Sorry again for the delay in responds,You already know why,Honey,same tihng work,work,work,but this time,one of the hotels called me to help,they were have a lot of orders.Am always grateful you understand my work.
Things will by all means change when i come to you.I wont spend my whole time working,,Family is important,If am not with you I will be with your mother often because am familiar with her,but with the rest of the family they will be comfortable with me as time goes on,You know how lovely I am(smile)
How are you really doing my love?I miss you.
Yes Derrick,Honestly you really have a lovely mother who really thinks about you and wants only the best for you,that`s exactly what my mother also does.That what expected from mothers.Some mothers are not that caring and loving,I guess we are both lucky we have Great mothers.
I don`t see the need of me being upset just for giving the boys one truck..You really should know more about me for now,Am not those kind of girls Derrick,My mother gave me a good training.I am grateful with the little that I have,that`s why I am very serious with work.
You really have to wait till I come Derrick,that way you will really know that kind of person that i am .
Please take care,kiss mom for me,it`s been a while i heard from her.
I Love and miss you Dear..KISSES

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Hello Mom,I miss you.No need to be sorry,you know i sometimes delay due to the nature of my work,and this time you delayed because my mail ended up in spam so you didn`t see it on time,that`s not no Biggie Mom,,what matters is that you are doing okay,,that was my prayer..I am relieved,now that you emailed,that means you are doing okay.We are fine here as well.
I told Derrick how blessed we are both to have sweet and loving mothers who really think of us.You and my mom have things in common,,Derrick and i have good training thanks to you Our Loving Mothers.Now a days most men and woman don`t have good training and characters,so their home and marriages,some times even their businesses fall apart..Fortunately Derrick and I have very good training one of the important things when it comes to Dating.
I love Derrick alot so i wont do anything to hurt or make him feel bad.I will continue to keep my promise Mom.
Please takecare of your self Mom...HUGS.

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Good morning my treasure! I hope you and mom are well and enjoying the day there. The reason that I understand your work so well is that I work much the same way as you but I rarely ever go home. Both of us will be changing when you get home. I will hire another person to take half of my workload. I can be home with my lovely wife at nights and every other weekend. Even on the weekends that I will work you may come with me if you like.

Honey, it is great that you want to spend time with mom. She loves the company. Tracy and the kids are there often as well so you will be able to get to know her too. She is a very sweet girl too so I know you will get along well with her too.They already know about you and are curious to get to know you.

Honey, I did not mean to make you think bad of me for asking about the truck. I was very sure you would not be upset but I am no longer alone in this life so I must consult with my lady on things too. I already know you are sweet and kind but we are couple and your say is important.

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Hello My Love,it`s always great to receieve a email from you ,How are you really doing Honey?Yes Dear,I know things will change when i come to you ,,i know you will get enough time for me.It`s good that Tracy and the kids know about me ,and curious to know me..That means we will all be happy together as one family.
Like i said ,i will be with mom more often because i know she will like to be with me.
Yes again Derrick,We are blessed to have sweet mothers which seems to be a rare thing in these times.
I Love you Derrick,I miss you .
Take care of your self Honey.Big Kisses and Hugs.