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Master Baiter Joined: 11 Jul 2011 Posts: 229

Because this is a general forum section I decided to start this thread.

How do you guys manage to get girls in general and when your out at night?

Do you have any tips to share?

Do you have succes with women?

I have read some seduction litterature and they seem to be alot of bullshit.

Posted: Sun Aug 21, 2011 12:15 am

I can hardly wait for our female members to chime in and point out the obvious: there are no formulas, magic pickup lines, tricks, tips, or any secret methods.

In my humble opinion, the only way to attract women is to be yourself. If a woman isn't attracted to the real you, then she's not for you. The right person is out there, but if you rely on any tricks or games, that relationship is doomed and you're just wasting time.

Master Baiter Joined: 11 Jul 2011 Posts: 229

(Edit to remove redundant full requote of above post -- we can see it there ^^^^^) - JF

That's what I have always thought but still get confused why it's so much material out there.

Posted: Sun Aug 21, 2011 12:38 am

The reason there's so much material out there is because there's money to be made. Whether it's a spammer selling a secret plan, or bottles of "pheromones", or just a magazine publishing a load of crap about attracting a woman, they're all making money.

Master Baiter Joined: 11 Jul 2011 Posts: 229

I have noticed that but some guys are more successful with women than others?

Posted: Sun Aug 21, 2011 1:46 am

I will probably regret asking this.

What do you define as "successful"?

It looks to me like you are not asking how to have a successful relationship, but you are asking how to be superficially physical with a naive woman who would fall for some game playing.

I DO think this would be a GREAT project for an enterprising lad. Get him to write the book for you. Twisted Evil

Posted: Sun Aug 21, 2011 5:33 am

I recommend that you think about things that you like to do, hobbies etc. and then figure out where you're going to meet like-minded woman.
Kindness, politeness, and a good sense of humour are always noticeable and appreciated by the opposite sex.
Here's one tip that was pointed out to me a long time ago... Really good looking people are often thought to be unattainable, and therefore not asked out very much. Look around and you'll notice an average looking girl with an extremely handsome guy or a stunningly beautiful woman with an average looking man. Be friendly, ask woman that you meet about themselves, and get a conversation going, wherever you are. Maybe she's not available, or the sparks don't fly, but she might become a good friend or have some friends for you to meet.

Wonderful and wise Juan Freizwidatt posted...

Quote:

In my humble opinion, the only way to attract women is to be yourself. If a woman isn't attracted to the real you, then she's not for you. The right person is out there, but if you rely on any tricks or games, that relationship is doomed and you're just wasting time.

Absolutely true!!!

Posted: Sun Aug 21, 2011 6:46 am

The best advice I can give is not go out at night with the sole aim of finding someone or picking anyone up. Going out with the intention of just enjoying yourself and having a good time with your friends, is more likely to get you noticed.

Women are not aliens you know. They want the same things out of life as you do. Wink

Posted: Sun Aug 21, 2011 10:54 am

^ unfortunately for me... thats quite literally true... they also want women Wink

Posted: Sun Aug 21, 2011 11:04 am

Windypops wrote:

Women are not aliens you know

Try this chatup line. "You must be an alien. You're out of this world!"
Works every time. Wink

This line is also guaranteed to work... "Get your coat love. You've pulled" Laughing

Baiting Guru Joined: 19 Apr 2007 Posts: 3123

I smacked my future wife on the rump, winked and asked if she fancied a drink.... guaranteed first time, every time. Very Happy

Posted: Sun Aug 21, 2011 11:10 am

The easiest way to attract the opposite sex (and some of the same sex) is to be me.

Unfortunately, that position is taken so you're going to have to work a lot harder.

Master Baiter Joined: 11 Jul 2011 Posts: 229

ParaNoid wrote:

I will probably regret asking this.

What do you define as "successful"?

It looks to me like you are not asking how to have a successful relationship, but you are asking how to be superficially physical with a naive woman who would fall for some game playing.

I DO think this would be a GREAT project for an enterprising lad. Get him to write the book for you. Twisted Evil

My idea was not to game them but how to manage to get sexy women as I already have some normal looking female friends so I'm interested in the other.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21158

Without knowing you, personally, it would be hard to say where the flaws are. I'm a butt-ugly individual, but I have had my share of women I consider beautiful. I still prefer the types with a personality and a brain over the physical beauties!

Baiting Guru Joined: 29 Jan 2008 Posts: 2531 Location: AU

El Nombre wrote:

^ unfortunately for me... thats quite literally true... they also want women Wink

so you try and pick up in lesbian bars to?

I have been a lesbian all my life but fartina gives some great advice.
from 30 years ok 33 years on this planet i think it is a matter of finding someone with (not necessarily the same but) similar interests to yourself.
then to confuse you more. opposites do attract.

Try a PM to NORA she is on the prowl Wink

Posted: Sun Aug 21, 2011 1:37 pm

EU321 wrote:

...how to manage to get sexy women as I already have some normal looking female friends so I'm interested in the other.

'Get' sexy women? 'Had' normal women?

Geez!

This topic/question is annoying and if I wasn't laughing at the stupidity of it, it would make me really mad. ANY guy that is out looking to 'get' 'sexy' women since they have already had their fill of the 'normal' ones deserves a kick in the balls.

And I would be willing to bet my last dollar that you ain't that 'sexy' looking yourself. I bet you are pretty 'normal'. So why should a 'sexy' woman be interested in YOU? What do you have to offer her that is so damn great she should look twice?

Evil or Very Mad

Baiting Guru Joined: 29 Jan 2008 Posts: 2531 Location: AU

kick me in the balls dora
Very Happy

so hard yet your avatar is so innocent

Posted: Sun Aug 21, 2011 1:45 pm

^^^ I got better plans for your balls. Laughing

Baiting Guru Joined: 29 Jan 2008 Posts: 2531 Location: AU

too small cant read don't care

see this is an important lesson my friend.

do not play their games. they will only make you succumb to thier bidding

Posted: Sun Aug 21, 2011 2:05 pm

^^^ Oh baby. You know how I love it when you succumb. Very Happy

Posted: Sun Aug 21, 2011 2:10 pm

Quote:

see this is an important lesson my friend.

Even more important lesson: if you'd actually do play Dora's game you'd have a far more interesting outcome. Try it. Wink

Posted: Sun Aug 21, 2011 2:16 pm

Bring your laptop to the club/tavern with you (and a custom t-shirt with the saying "Mugu, gon chop ya dolla!").

This will effectively act a filter to immediately remove those who do not share your interests and will not understand the real you.

I also find that randomly tearing your shirt off like Lou Farrigno during his old timey Hulk transformations does the same thing (be sure to keep spares close at hand, partial nudity could get one removed from public venue).

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21158

Quote:

partial nudity could get one removed from public venue

You must be hanging out in the wrong clubs badger!

Master Baiter Joined: 11 Jul 2011 Posts: 229

DoraTheExplorer wrote:

EU321 wrote:

...how to manage to get sexy women as I already have some normal looking female friends so I'm interested in the other.

'Get' sexy women? 'Had' normal women?

Geez!

This topic/question is annoying and if I wasn't laughing at the stupidity of it, it would make me really mad. ANY guy that is out looking to 'get' 'sexy' women since they have already had their fill of the 'normal' ones deserves a kick in the balls.

And I would be willing to bet my last dollar that you ain't that 'sexy' looking yourself. I bet you are pretty 'normal'. So why should a 'sexy' woman be interested in YOU? What do you have to offer her that is so damn great she should look twice?

Evil or Very Mad

You misunderstood it.

Posted: Sun Aug 21, 2011 3:24 pm

I find the best way to attract 'sexy' women is to demonstrate that you know the difference between your and you're. They also appreciate it if you recognize that the term a lot is two separate words.

As they say, 60% of the time it works every time.

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