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Kabuto Sama
Master of Master Baiters
Joined: 28 Jun 2006
Posts: 577
Location: In Pula pe Bega
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Mon Oct 20, 2008 11:10 pm |
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I tell you this so can you understand my special relation with my grandparents... She and grandpa raised me. My parents were busy with their jobs, in the typical Stahanovist Communist style.
I was literate at 6. Grandpa teached me arithmethics. He yelled at me sometimes, but never hit me. Grandma, instead ) was with physical corrections. Some slap, some beating with nettles, and a lot of yelling.
But only when I deserved it. Otherwise, she was like a mother hen.
And then, after I matured a bit, she supported me any way she could.
You can understand what a great loss it is to me.
And following her stroke on 2nd of August, it hurt me a lot to see her uncapacitated... That very active woman became half paralyzed and with slurred speech. And what hurt most is there was nothing I could do for her.
I guess that is one of the things we feel bad about... We failed our loved ones. I failed to help her. I failed to see her a day before her final stroke.
I failed... I did not failed him, but I failed her...
Tomorrow they will meet again, after 13 years. |
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OL BOY NA SMALL TIN REMAIN CRAZ FOR ENTER YOUR MATTER OH , IBI LIKE SAY DEM COME ADD SMALL AFRICAN INSURANCE NAIM COME MAKE YOU SEE SMALL ROAD SHA.
ANY HOW I GO CATCH U FOR ANOTHER CORNER AGAIN MR WADADA!
your father is a pig and your mother is a bicth.you are a bastad and you will die young.you shold ask your father where you bastad came from.South Africa is not for white.someday we will kill you all whites in africa and in south africa.up Zulu. -- the angry Zulu lad
you are a foolish Man that is why people like you dont achive good things in Life forget it if do not want to jelp this young Man
Asshole! - angry ghanaian "barrister" |
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Nanny Ogg
Baiting Guru
Joined: 19 Mar 2007
Posts: 2628
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Tue Oct 21, 2008 10:43 am |
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Kabuto
There is nothing you could have done about your grandmothers stroke
Please don't think you have failed.
The pain of your loss may not go away but it will lessen in time. |
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Kabuto Sama
Master of Master Baiters
Joined: 28 Jun 2006
Posts: 577
Location: In Pula pe Bega
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Tue Oct 21, 2008 9:27 pm |
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It is done... The priest came to our house by 2 PM, initiated the services, then we moved to the church, then to the cemetary.
We buried her next to my grandfather and several meters from her brother,
close to a big old Italian Stone Pine. :sigh:
Then it was the memorial dinner, attended by 50-60 people (family, friends, neighbors).
This is it. Nothing will ever be the same. I have no more grandparents. |
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OL BOY NA SMALL TIN REMAIN CRAZ FOR ENTER YOUR MATTER OH , IBI LIKE SAY DEM COME ADD SMALL AFRICAN INSURANCE NAIM COME MAKE YOU SEE SMALL ROAD SHA.
ANY HOW I GO CATCH U FOR ANOTHER CORNER AGAIN MR WADADA!
your father is a pig and your mother is a bicth.you are a bastad and you will die young.you shold ask your father where you bastad came from.South Africa is not for white.someday we will kill you all whites in africa and in south africa.up Zulu. -- the angry Zulu lad
you are a foolish Man that is why people like you dont achive good things in Life forget it if do not want to jelp this young Man
Asshole! - angry ghanaian "barrister" |
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midnitedriver
Not quite a Newb
Joined: 14 Apr 2008
Posts: 76
Location: anywhere
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Fri Oct 24, 2008 1:47 pm |
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my condolences as well, ill send up a prayer for your family |
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lotta
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Joined: 08 Jun 2005
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Location: 2 Speckled Cct Springfield Lakes QLD 4300
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Fri Oct 24, 2008 6:42 pm |
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I'm so very sorry for your loss, Kabuto. |
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Catcher In The Lie
Master of Master Baiters
Joined: 22 Sep 2008
Posts: 877
Location: 404 Yellow Brick Road
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Sat Oct 25, 2008 12:38 am |
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Kabuto Sama,
I don't know you, but I do know your pain. I'm lifting you up in my thoughts and prayers. So very sorry... |
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Reaper
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Joined: 06 May 2007
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Sat Oct 25, 2008 12:55 am |
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I feel for you, man. I'm the same. Hang in there. |
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Eight
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Joined: 11 Sep 2004
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sheboppe
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Joined: 10 Dec 2004
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Location: United States
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Sat Oct 25, 2008 7:51 pm |
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My condolences to you and your family Kabuto. |
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