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Posted: Mon Aug 11, 2008 6:49 pm

Well, I had my first IM chat with a scammer (well, the first since I started baiting). Most of our initial emails were back and forth about the fact that I can’t use YIM (I really can’t), and he couldn’t figure out how to get into MSN Messenger. I had to send him the instructions twice.

This morning, I got this:

V1ctor: hi
Emi1y: Hello
V1ctor: good morning
Emi1y: Same to you
Emi1y: How are you?
V1ctor: am kool
V1ctor: how is your night?
Emi1y: It was good. And yours?
V1ctor: it ok
V1ctor: so where are you right now ?
Emi1y: I am in my office.
V1ctor: ok that is kool
V1ctor: well am in the office too
Emi1y: I have an appointment in about 45 minutes
Emi1y: What do you do?
V1ctor: well am just trying to send a mail to a business associate
Emi1y: What business are you in?
V1ctor: well am into lumber business
Emi1y: What kind of lumber?
V1ctor: i own the business myself
Emi1y: Cool
V1ctor: retail
Emi1y: No - I mean, what kind of wood?
V1ctor: i import them and sell them off in large quatities
Emi1y: Ah, I see.
Emi1y: So, if I wanted to put bamboo floors in my home, you could get some for me?
V1ctor: so can you tell me more about your work ?
V1ctor: yeah but bamboo is not good while cant you use teak ? [hasn’t he heard that bamboo is good for the environment?]
Emi1y: I help people prepare for public speaking and for things like job interviews.
Emi1y: Bamboo is the best, my decorator tells me.
Emi1y: I helped a man prepare for proposing to his girlfriend once
V1ctor: ok that is kool
V1ctor: is the job lucrative ?
Emi1y: It pays very well. I charge quite a bit per hour, because my clients are wealthy.
Emi1y: They include top executives, and even politicians.
V1ctor: well that is really good
V1ctor: well tell me more about it
Emi1y: I like the work. I start with a person who is afraid to speak in front of people, and in the end they get standing ovations.
Emi1y: They are happy to pay my fees with such results.
Emi1y: Several of my politician-clients say they were elected because they came to me first.
V1ctor: lol
V1ctor: well that is very good
V1ctor: so yoiu own the business yourself ?
Emi1y: I work with the local high school, too, but I don't charge them for it.
Emi1y: Yes, I am the owner, and I don't have any employees - it's just me.
V1ctor: oh that is kool
V1ctor: so do you have your own office ?
Emi1y: Yes. I rent an office in a building in downtown Amherst
V1ctor: ok that is pretty kool
V1ctor: so tell me more about your relationship stautes
Emi1y: I am a widow. I lost my husband 5 years ago to cancer.
Emi1y: We were high school sweethearts and married right out of college.
Emi1y: How about you?
V1ctor: that is really good
V1ctor: well am a widowed too but my late wife died 2 years ago in an auto accident
Emi1y: Oh, I'm sorry to hear that.
Emi1y: That must have been terrible for you.
V1ctor: well is sad for me because we started very young
V1ctor: yeah it is but have put that behind me and have move on
Emi1y: Yes. Life goes on, even if we just want to hide from it.
Emi1y: That's why I'm trying to meet people again.
V1ctor: so have you date anyone after your husband death?
Emi1y: No. Not yet. I had to grieve for a while, and then I thought my son and daughter would not want me to.
Emi1y: But they both told me they just want me to be happy.
V1ctor: well that is good
V1ctor: how old are your children?
Emi1y: D1ck is 30, and H0lly is 23
V1ctor: ok
V1ctor: well mine is still very young
V1ctor: she is 15 years old
Emi1y: Oh. What is her name?
V1ctor: she is laura by name
Emi1y: She must have been very upset to lose her mother.
V1ctor: well she was but she want me to have another woman
V1ctor: she too want a step mom
V1ctor: she need a motherly help
Emi1y: Yes, at 15 she needs a mother to guide her.
V1ctor: yeah
Emi1y: A father is good, but you don't think like a woman.
V1ctor: you are right
Emi1y: Where do you live?
V1ctor: well i live in nyack new york
V1ctor: what about you ?
Emi1y: Amherst, Mass.
V1ctor: what ?
V1ctor: are you there ?
Emi1y: Amherst, Massachusetts
V1ctor: ok i got it
Emi1y: It's a lovely area. I grew up here.
V1ctor: so you have been there all your live ?
V1ctor: life?
Emi1y: Except for when I went to college.
V1ctor: ok what college do you go ?
Emi1y: Wellesley.
Emi1y: What about you? Have you lived in Nyack long?
V1ctor: i went to columbia unversity
V1ctor: no
V1ctor: well am not an american
Emi1y: That's a good school. What did you get your degree in?
Emi1y: You're not? Where are you from?
V1ctor: am a brazilian but i came here to study
V1ctor: have been living in the state for 20 years now
Emi1y: Ah. I forget - what's your native language?
V1ctor: carlos
Emi1y: ???
V1ctor: carlos
V1ctor: that is my native name
V1ctor: but am V1ctor carlos adams [Funny, he told me his name was V1ctor Stephen]
Emi1y: But what language?
V1ctor: that is my full name
V1ctor: i speak portugese that is my native language
Emi1y: Ah, right.
V1ctor: but am into more english
Emi1y: Was your wife also from Brazil?
V1ctor: no she is a american
V1ctor: she is a white woman
Emi1y: You do quite well with the English.
Emi1y: What did you study at Columbia?
V1ctor: civil engineering
V1ctor: yeah am very good in english
Emi1y: Oh. I'm impressed. That's a difficult thing to learn.
Emi1y: I was never very good at math and stuff.
V1ctor: lol
V1ctor: well maths is my area of specialization [and “maths” is British, not American]
Emi1y: My husband never let me try to fix anything at home - I'd just make it worse.
Emi1y: Now I have to get my son in to fix things.
V1ctor: lol
V1ctor: so do you live with your children ?
Emi1y: No. They are both married. I am a grandmother!
V1ctor: lol that is nice and pretty good
Emi1y: I still live in the home I had with my husband.
V1ctor: ok
V1ctor: well i live alone too with my daughter
Emi1y: What grade will your daughter be in this year?
V1ctor: she will be in grade six in high school [huh? In what school system?]
V1ctor: she as a fast education and she is very brillant
Emi1y: Ah. She must be very intelligent.
Emi1y: Does she know where she wants to go to college?
V1ctor: yeah she want to be a nurse so am ecouraging her about it
Emi1y: That's good that she knows what she wants.
Emi1y: I wanted to be a journalist when I was in high school.
Emi1y: Now I help new TV reporters learn how to interview people.
V1ctor: do you like journalism ?
Emi1y: I much prefer what I'm doing.
V1ctor: ok
Emi1y: I did learn how to do research, though. And I really like that.
V1ctor: that is good
V1ctor: well i work in a construction company when i graduate from high school
V1ctor: college [Did he forget he told me he went to college?]
V1ctor: sorry
Emi1y: How did you get into business?
V1ctor: for 11 years before i left the job for my own business
Emi1y: I was lucky. I had contacts through my parents, and had my first client before I even graduated.
V1ctor: well i like business from my youth age because when i was young i sell candy and chocolate with my own money
Emi1y: You must do well at it, then.
V1ctor: yeah i do
Emi1y: V1ctor, I'm sorry, but ny next client just walked in the door. I must go now.
V1ctor: ok talk to you later
Emi1y: OK, Bye for now.
V1ctor: i will leave my im on so you can buzz me when you are through
Emi1y: OK, but it might be late, because I also have a dinner engagement.
V1ctor: ok no problem
Emi1y: Talk to you later
V1ctor: talk to you later and have a nice day
Emi1y: Thanks, you too

I am not sure if he knew what time it was in Massachusetts. He said “good morning,” and it was afternoon in MA. It was morning to me, but it would have been evening to him, as he is in Nigeria. (I checked the IPs on his earlier emails.)

Posted: Mon Aug 11, 2008 8:42 pm

Well done, warm him up slowly, forget about his mistakes (college) he might warn real victims this way. Just create a bond and some common points of interest, the romance can come later when he is sure you're real. Wink

Have fun

Posted: Mon Aug 11, 2008 9:12 pm

I'm trying a different tack on this one. My first (and still ongoing) bait went to love almost immediately, and then almost immediately into the money issue. I'm trying to keep it going, though.

This one, I'm just going to ease into the love part. Besides, he claims to be in the US now, so I figure he's going to have to travel before he asks for money, and that should take a little time - probably not until he's good and sure that I'm hooked (even though it will really be him that's hooked).

I confess - I really like baiting. I was almost afraid to get into it, but the deeper I get, the more I like it.

I'm writing romantic fiction! Very Happy

Posted: Mon Aug 11, 2008 9:55 pm

Very nice trophy there Titania and for your first IM chat I thought you did quite well Wink

Elite Baiter Joined: 11 Jul 2007 Posts: 1979

LOL, there goes another virgin frontier. Wait until you get to phone calls! I'll warn ya, lads are big on phone sex. That language is easier for them. You have to say no and hang up on them immediately to get them to drop the subject - unless you're like Wayne and want to record them using bananas.

Posted: Mon Aug 11, 2008 10:50 pm

Well, since I am baiting as a straight woman, I don't think I'd like to even HEAR them using bananas - much less record them. Very Happy

I really have to get one of those cheap phones and the pay-as-you-go cards.

Posted: Mon Aug 11, 2008 10:55 pm

You did brilliantly. Really well done Very Happy

My first time I was totally creeped out after. You quickly learn that however bad they make you feel, play it right and you can make it 10X worse for them Twisted Evil

Posted: Mon Aug 11, 2008 10:56 pm

That is something I have been considering myself, if / when you do keep in mind that the lad should do the calling whenever possible, it is a nice feeling knowing they are paying for the privelidge of being baited by phone Laughing

Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 12:14 am

A bit of glurge from Victor, with a few points in contradiction to what he told me in chat.

Quote:

A friend is someone who will always be there when everyone else fails
Though miles may lie between us, we're never far apart, for friendship doesn't count the miles, it's measured by the heart
A true friend walks in when the whole world walks out
Stars are like friends; there's always some around, you just need to find your favorite one
The Mile: People come into our lives and walk with us a mile, and then because of circumstance they only stay a while. They serve a need within the days that move so quickly by, and then are gone beyond our reach, we often wonder why. God only knows the reason that we meet and share a smile, why people come into our lives and walk with us a mile.
A special friend is a blessing that you should treasure with all your heart
Our Friendship: A two way road to a perfect love.The Genesis Of a Million Miles Start Definatelly with a Step, and The Step To a Better Relationship Does Start with Friendship.i want To Start a Friendship That will Lead To Long Term Relationship That Stand No Error I`m a Widowed , a widowed Of 5yrs [He told me 2 years in chat] , i have a Growing Daughter(Whose Picture Is Over There ) and My Work Is Blooming , My Job Is Still in It Infancy , But I`m Really Moving Up with It , I Retired as an Investment and Financial analyst Few Years ago [He said construction work/civil engineer in chat] , and i Started a New Personal Carrier 8 Years ago , Presently i`m Into International tRADING of goods, buy and sell, [I suppose being in the lumber business counts?]
Just Know That Continuity will Secure a Better Connection between us.
VICTOR STEPHEN [This guy doesn’t practice what he preaches]

Quote:

Victor,

Thank you for that sweet email. You do have a way with words.

Unfortunately, there was no picture of your daughter attached. I really would like to see what she looks like.

I would certainly like to get to know you better and possibly become friends. That's the best way to build any kind of relationship, isn't it?

I enjoyed our chat today. I hope we can talk again.

Emily

Had a chat with him this afternoon. I forgot to save the first few minutes, before he just disappeared. Then he came back, but after almost an hour my computer froze :yikes:

and I lost the chat. I did manage to capture the end of it. (Note to self, learn how to make MSN Messenger archive chats.)

Emi1y: Sorry - my computer just froze up. Had to turn it off and back on again.
V1ctor: ok
V1ctor: buzz me when you get online
Emi1y: I'm back
V1ctor: you are welcome
V1ctor: i have send the pic
Emi1y: OK, thank you.
Emi1y: Did you get mine?
V1ctor: when are you sending your own pc?
Emi1y: I sent it already. Didn't you get it?
Emi1y: Two of your pics are too small for me to see properly.
V1ctor: ohh
V1ctor: do u se my daughter pic
Emi1y: I can see that it's a girl, but it's too small to see properly.
Emi1y: I have old eyes. lol
V1ctor: i dont why the pic are small
Emi1y: The second one - of you in the suit - is a good size.
Emi1y: And you are a nice-looking man.
V1ctor: i dont know why the pic are small for you to se
V1ctor: wow you are pretty
Emi1y: Thank you
V1ctor: i love your pic
Emi1y: A friend took that a little while ago.
V1ctor: do you have more pic to send to me?
V1ctor: do you have alot of friend?
Emi1y: I have some more pics, but I like to send them a little at a time.
Emi1y: I have a fair number of friends. I grew up in this town, so I have known people for a long time.
V1ctor: i dont have any friend ...............a friend that i tust disapoint me unexpectedly
Emi1y: Oh, I'm sorry to hear that.
Emi1y: You have no other friends at all?
V1ctor: i dont believe in any friend my daughter is my friend and my wife this time around
Emi1y: Life would be so flat and dull without friends.
V1ctor: i dont want make any friend this time becos what a friend have done to me it hurt my soul .............can you imagine i gave my friend $50.000 to gave it to my client in spain ........i cant believe what he do with the money
Emi1y: What did he do?
V1ctor: he run alway with the money since 2005 i cant find him any moner
Emi1y: That'
V1ctor: more
Emi1y: That's terrible!
Emi1y: Did you tell the police?
V1ctor: so that is what make me deside not to have any friend
Emi1y: Well, you can have friends without doing money transactions.
V1ctor: well i inform police they did get it so i have to forget about
Emi1y: I don't mix business and friendship.
V1ctor: well i thank god for my life
Emi1y: My son is a judge, and he says people are always coming before him because they've loaned a friend money and the friend didn't pay it back.
Emi1y: Now one person has lost both money and friendship.
V1ctor: ohh can you se what im talking about?
Emi1y: I can see why you are discouraged.
V1ctor: they some friend that is good and some bad
Emi1y: But you can have friends without letting money into the mix.
V1ctor: i understand you
Emi1y: It's not good to have no friends at all.
Emi1y: Does Kelly have friends?
V1ctor: before any friend i will have to pray before getting new friend
Emi1y: That's always a good way to begin anything.
V1ctor: yes
Emi1y: Good that she has friends. Just be sure to tell her to be careful with her money.
V1ctor: i think she is still young i cant encourage her not to have friend .......she will deside what she want and what she hate
V1ctor: lol
Emi1y: Well, no, you don't want to tell her not to have friends - just teach her to be wise about money.
V1ctor: i think she have learn a lesson from me she will not be selfish lady
Emi1y: That's good.
V1ctor: good
V1ctor: tell me do u work from home?
Emi1y: I do some work from home, but I rent an office downtown as well.
Emi1y: I am at home right now.
V1ctor: ok
V1ctor: do you have computer in your office
Emi1y: Of course!
V1ctor: ok
Emi1y: It's how I keep in touch with my clients, and how I keep track of my financial things.
Emi1y: But I'm often not in the office. Many times I go to my clients.
V1ctor: One Of The Greatext Thing in Life Is Our ability To Derive Maximum Joy and Pleasure at Work and Equally at Home
Emi1y: That's so true.
V1ctor: i Love My Work and all The Good Thinjgs That The Lord Has Done For Me
Emi1y: Oh, my, look at the time! My son will be here at any moment to watch the Olympics with me.
Emi1y: And I have to get snacks ready.
V1ctor: ok
Emi1y: It's been very nice chatting with you, Victor.
V1ctor: do you want to leave?
Emi1y: Please say hello to Kelly for me.
V1ctor: ok
Emi1y: I have to. My son is coming over, and we will be watching the Olympics until it's time to go to bed.
V1ctor: what is your full name?
Emi1y: Emily Geisel
V1ctor: good
V1ctor: i will talk to tomorrow right?
Emi1y: Well, I'm going out of town for the weekend, and I might not have internet access where I'm going.
V1ctor: what is your phone number so that i can gav e you a call when im online
Emi1y: I will have my laptop, but I don't know if the hotel has internet.
V1ctor: how many days are you going spend there?
Emi1y: My phone isn't working right now - my cell. My grandson dropped it in the water.
Emi1y: I'll be back on Sunday late afternoon.
V1ctor: ok
Emi1y: I really must go, Victor. If I don't talk to you before, I'll be here on Sunday. Good night!
V1ctor: when are you going there?
Emi1y: tomorrow morning
V1ctor: ok
Emi1y: Very early.
V1ctor: where are you travel to?
Emi1y: San Diego
V1ctor: ok

The first (lost) part of the chat included paragraphs on his personality that he cut and pasted from some website. And he told me first that his daughter is named Laura, then changed it to Kelly. Now she’s named Laura Kelly.

The pics he sent: One was big enough to see, but blurry. The others were thumbnails, too small to see much. So, not worth posting.

I presume the $50,000 loss is going to lead up to the scam, but I plan to throw that right back in his face – never trust a friend with money. Evil or Very Mad

ETA: DAMN! I just did a trace on the header of the email he sent with the pics:

Quote:

Delivered-To: [email protected]
Received: by 10.181.27.1 with SMTP id e1cs79732bkj;
Tue, 12 Aug 2008 16:14:57 -0700 (PDT)
Received: by 10.150.57.5 with SMTP id f5mr9981955yba.152.1218582895516;
Tue, 12 Aug 2008 16:14:55 -0700 (PDT)
Return-Path: <[email protected]>
Received: from n10.bullet.re3.yahoo.com (n10.bullet.re3.yahoo.com [68.142.237.123])
by mx.google.com with SMTP id a68si3292080rnc.12.2008.08.12.16.14.53;
Tue, 12 Aug 2008 16:14:55 -0700 (PDT)
Received-SPF: pass (google.com: domain of [email protected] designates 68.142.237.123 as permitted sender) client-ip=68.142.237.123;
DomainKey-Status: good (test mode)
Authentication-Results: mx.google.com; spf=pass (google.com: domain of [email protected] designates 68.142.237.123 as permitted sender) [email protected]; domainkeys=pass (test mode) [email protected]
Received: from [68.142.237.88] by n10.bullet.re3.yahoo.com with NNFMP; 12 Aug 2008 23:14:53 -0000
Received: from [216.252.111.167] by t4.bullet.re3.yahoo.com with NNFMP; 12 Aug 2008 23:14:53 -0000
Received: from [127.0.0.1] by omp102.mail.re3.yahoo.com with NNFMP; 12 Aug 2008 23:14:53 -0000
X-Yahoo-Newman-Property: ymail-3
X-Yahoo-Newman-Id: [email protected]
Received: (qmail 46337 invoked by uid 60001); 12 Aug 2008 23:14:53 -0000

DomainKey-Signature: Deleted Page Blowout [BB]

Received: from [208.78.63.215] by web57307.mail.re1.yahoo.com via HTTP; Tue, 12 Aug 2008 16:14:53 PDT
X-Mailer: YahooMailWebService/0.7.218
Date: Tue, 12 Aug 2008 16:14:53 -0700 (PDT)
From: Victor Stephen <[email protected]>
Subject: my pic and kelly
To: [email protected]
MIME-Version: 1.0
Content-Type: multipart/mixed; boundary="0-1957304135-1218582893=:45293"
Message-ID: <[email protected]>

and it came back to Chantilly, VA, USA.

I thought sure he was in Nigeria! But he says he's in Nyack, NY, and he's got all the signs of a scammer. Confused

Not quite a Newb Joined: 28 Apr 2007 Posts: 65

I looked up the IP below the blue highlighted line in the headers you posted, which is 208.78.63.215. When I used the http://headertool.apelord.com/headers website mentioned in the FAQs, it comes back to Nigeria. Check it out.

You KNOW this guy is in Nigeria. It's completely obvious. I keep wondering if this isn't OBL's lad who says he's not scamming anymore!

Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 2:46 am

I am sure OBL could check the headers to see if they are the same Wink

That said, we have learnt that Wahab is not the only dumb lad in Nigeria Laughing

Elite Baiter Joined: 11 Jul 2007 Posts: 1979

Actually that's not an IP that's been associated with my Wahab, but I too have been getting the same squirrely results with apelord as of late. It's getting quite frustrating.

I have found more interesting stuff by clicking on the Urgentmessage.org button. That will pull up known scam emails originating from the IP address you've searched.

Your Victor's chat does seem a bit like my Wahab's, but I've been keeping him awful busy as of late. I don't see where he'd have much time to chat elsewhere, but I suppose anything is possible.

Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 11:54 am

Thanks for finding the Nigerian Connection. Smile

I knew he was a scammer - he has all the earmarks, and the chats have confirmed it for me. I was just taken aback by the results I got.

I have the weekend off - I really am going to San Diego, but only for tonight and tomorrow. But I'm busy Friday, and going to a wedding on Saturday. V1ctor will just have to twiddle his thumbs. Razz

Posted: Fri Aug 15, 2008 10:25 pm

I put V1ctor on a “diet” – I had to go out of town for a couple of days, but I told him it was for the whole weekend. It’s amazing the power I have over scammers. Would that I had the same power over real men. Oh yeah, and I told him my 2-year-old nephew dropped my phone in the water, so I don’t have one right now.

Quote:

i just woke up finish my moening prayer ...Good Morning!I'm just dropping into say,"I hope you have
a wonderful day!"May your morning be sunny side up,your afternoon bright too.May the whole daybring good news. hope you have wonderful morning . when are you travel ? i miss you talking to you.
stay bless.

Quote:

hi how was your trip ? hope everything is okey where you are? i miss you so much...You are the one I've always wished for. i think of you every seconds , You are the best thing that has ever happened to me ,I never thought that I would ever meet someone as special as you,I love each and every moment I share with you.
you are my thought ...i cant wait to meet you when you back from your trip..have wonderfull night.
stay bless. [rose emoticon]

Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2008 2:36 am

V1ctor must have high hopes for Emi1y (and her $$$). She told him she would be gone until Sunday evening, and on Saturday morning this appeared in her inbox.

Quote:

hi how was your trip ..... hope all is well with you ? i cant wait to chat with you tomorrow evening when you come back i miss talking to you .
stay bless.

Emi1y responded breezily.

Quote:

V1ctor,

I'm back in Amherst after a whirlwind weekend in San Diego. The friend who invited me said she had something special planned. It certainly was special - a wedding! She and her fiance each invited one friend to witness their marriage on the beach on Saturday. It was so romantic and special. To think that she had invited me from clear across the country to come and be her bridesmaid!

In the days before the wedding we did stuff that tourists in San Diego do. We went to the Zoo, and I saw the pandas. They are so cute, even if they are huge. We also went on a tour in a bus that turned into a boat and went into the harbor. That was fun!

The groom's friend is a Navy Admiral, about ready to retire. He's widowed, too, and I think my friend was trying a bit of match-making. Admiral Frank is a very good-looking man, and he was so polite and respectful, but I'm not ready to say any one man is the man for me. I did tell him he could email me, though. He may need my services, after all, as he goes looking for work once he's retired. [It’s always good to have another character waiting in the wings]

The traffic there was terrible! Everywhere we went was so crowded with tourists and locals. The roads have bumps going down the middle so you stay in the proper lane. I think they're called Trump's Bumps. [I know what they really are] When we changed lanes they made the ride a little rough.

I hope you had a great weekend. I look forward to our next chat, although I'm not sure when I'll be available. I have a very full day tomorrow, making up for the business I missed last week.

Talk to you soon,
Emi1y

And the minute I turned on my Messenger –

Quote:

V1ctor: hello
V1ctor: are you there?
V1ctor: you are welcome
Emi1y: Hi
V1ctor: i got the message you said to me
V1ctor: how is your trip i miss you so much
Emi1y: Thank you
Emi1y: Did you have a good weekend?
V1ctor: yes
V1ctor: i think of you everyday
Emi1y: Aw, thank you
V1ctor: do you think of me Emi1y
V1ctor: you are my thought
Emi1y: I do think of you. I could see you were thinking of me, because you wrote me twice.
V1ctor: i miss you that is why i wrote
Emi1y: I wondered if you have ever been to San Diego?
V1ctor: ohh i wish i should go with you when you are going
Emi1y: It might have been fun to have you along
V1ctor: tell me what do you do today ?
Emi1y: I flew home. It's a five-hour flight, plus the difference in time zones.
Emi1y: And then I had to drive back home from Boston
Emi1y: I'm very tired, but I took the time to send you a little email.
V1ctor: what do you eat when you fisrt get to to san diego?
Emi1y: LOL - I had a burger and salad.
V1ctor: good
V1ctor: and what?
Emi1y: We went out to a very nice seafood place the next night, though. And I had sea bass.
V1ctor: wow
V1ctor: wiah im there with you Emi1y
Emi1y: Another night we had steak that my friend grilled in her back yard.
Emi1y: We went to the beach, but not in the water. It was too cold.
V1ctor: good how is everrything there?
Emi1y: Here? In Amherst? Much as it was when I left, except for the work I didn't do while I was gone.
V1ctor: ok
V1ctor: i want you know that you in my thought since when i have start talking to you
Emi1y: That's very sweet, V1ctor
Emi1y: I didn't know I had that much power over men.
Emi1y: Although Admiral Frank seemed quite smitten.
V1ctor: HOW IS YOU SON EMI1Y?
Emi1y: He's fine.
V1ctor: good
Emi1y: How is Kelly?
V1ctor: she is fine i told her much about you
Emi1y: That's nice. I hope she doesn't mine that we are chatting.
Emi1y: Sometimes young girls get funny notions about their mom being replaced.
V1ctor: no she happy that im talikng you online
Emi1y: Good.
Emi1y: Is she looking forward to going back to school?
V1ctor: yes
Emi1y: Do you know what courses she will be taking?
V1ctor: lol
V1ctor: she said that she will go for nurse couse
Emi1y: OK
V1ctor: are you there?
Emi1y: Yes
Emi1y: What's the weather been like there this weekend?
V1ctor: well eveything is alright every wre cool
Emi1y: That's good. I don't like it when it's hot.
Emi1y: It's still very warm here, even this late in the evening.
V1ctor: i dont like everywere hot i love cool area
Emi1y: It's lovely in San Diego - it was quite cool in the evening and early morning, and warm but not hot during the day.
V1ctor: good
Emi1y: My friends were trying to talk me into moving there.
V1ctor: where did she living?
Emi1y: They live in San Diego, near the beach.
Emi1y: But I don't know - all my family is here in Amherst
V1ctor: tell me how many of you living there?
Emi1y: Well, my son and his wife, my daughter and her husband, my son's little boy, and two brothers and their wives, and some of their children.
Emi1y: My parents have retired to Florida.
V1ctor: where are you ?
Emi1y: Amherst, Massachusetts
V1ctor: i thought you said you live alone before?
Emi1y: I live alone, but my family live nearby.
V1ctor: ok
V1ctor: can you tell me more about you again
Emi1y: Goodness - what do you want to know?
V1ctor: everything again
Emi1y: Like - I grew up in Amherst, went to Wellesley College, and got my Masters in Communication at UMass Amherst.
V1ctor: good
Emi1y: I'm a life-coach. I help people prepare for public speaking engagements, job interviews, and other public functions.
V1ctor: i know this before
Emi1y: Well, what else do you want to know?
Emi1y: I'll be happy to answer any question you have.
V1ctor: even i was bided for what contract in UK I always have been pray toward the contract i should be the lucky winner
Emi1y: And were you the winner?
V1ctor: ?
Emi1y: Did you win the contract?
V1ctor: no im just contest for it
Emi1y: What is the contract for?
V1ctor: they want meet to surpply them goods
V1ctor: im not the only person that is bid for the contract will uptoo 15people from difrent country
Emi1y: Well, I hope you get it. I'm sure you'll do good things for them.
V1ctor: well im just praying it for the contract
Emi1y: I'm sure you will.
Emi1y: Keep a positive attitude. They will see that in you.'
V1ctor: amen
Emi1y: Getting ahead in your profession is a combination of ability and attitude.
Emi1y: One without the other will not always get you very far.
Emi1y: Sorry - that's what I tell my clients all the time.
V1ctor: Emi1y you told me that you will send more of you pic to me
Emi1y: LOL - ou don't forget much, do you?
V1ctor: lol
Emi1y: I'll do that tomorrow morning. I'm too tired to do it tonight.
V1ctor: is ok
V1ctor: tell me where have you travel to be for except san diego
V1ctor: have you travel abroad before?
Emi1y: I spent a summer traveling through Europe when I was in college.
Emi1y: I went to London, Paris, Rome, Florence, Venice, Zurich, and Amsterdam.
V1ctor: good
Emi1y: And I've been on Caribbean cruises several times.
Emi1y: How about you? Have you done much travelling?
V1ctor: do you watch the olympic game in san diego
Emi1y: No. The hotel had very bad TV reception. I listened for news about it, though.
V1ctor: well i have trave to japan once and saouth african brazil my home town
V1ctor: lol
Emi1y: Did you like Japan? I've thought about going there.
V1ctor: it has belong when i visit there
V1ctor: i think is a nice plce to be
Emi1y: Did you enjoy the food?
V1ctor: well i love it
Emi1y: Have you travelled much in the US?
V1ctor: the fisrt time will chat online kelly saw our conversation and she ask me who are you
Emi1y: LOL What did you tell her?
V1ctor: i told her that you are my friend .........i show her your pic she in interested in you as i do intersted in you
Emi1y: That's sweet. Would she like to email me? I could maybe talk to her about stuff her father wouldn't know how to talk about.
V1ctor: that is good ideal i will tell her to do so
Emi1y: tell her to use my gmail address, though. I don't check the hotmail address often - it's just for my chat program.
V1ctor: you have not gave me your email adress
Emi1y: It's [email protected]
V1ctor: i just get it now
Emi1y: OK. I'll love Kelly, I'm sure.
Emi1y: She sounds like an intelligent girl.
V1ctor: thank you Emi1y
V1ctor: were are you now are you in the bed room ?
Emi1y: No. I'm in my home office.
V1ctor: ok
Emi1y: It used to be the children's play room, and it's still decorated with children's colors and pictures.
V1ctor: i think you get kelly pic last time i send my pic to you?
Emi1y: Yes, but the pic was very small and I couldn't see it well.
V1ctor: ohh
V1ctor: tell me what is your favourite colour?
Emi1y: Mauve - it's kind of pink and grey with a little blue in it.
V1ctor: wow i love blue colour
V1ctor: is my favourite colour
Emi1y: Blue is nice, too.
V1ctor: good colour
Emi1y: I like blue jeans
V1ctor: that is the colour that my late wife like when she is alife
Emi1y: Oh. My late husband said it was his favorite, too, but I think that was just because I have blue eyes.
V1ctor: blue is nice colour
V1ctor: what is type of car do you drive?
Emi1y: I have a Toyota Prius - a hybrid.
Emi1y: What about you?
V1ctor: wow
V1ctor: i drive Toyota solara
Emi1y: I like to conserve energy. Good for economy and good for the environment.
V1ctor: i love energy food
Emi1y: What kind of food do you call energy food?
V1ctor: vegitable
Emi1y: Oh. OK. I eat a lot of fruits and vegetables. Well, not a lot, but much of what I eat is fruits and vegetables.
V1ctor: good
Emi1y: Natural foods.
V1ctor: what the colour of your car?
Emi1y: Dark red
V1ctor: my car colour is blue colour
Emi1y: LOL - of course it is! Your favorite color
V1ctor: can you imagine my favourite colour is blue
V1ctor: lol
Emi1y: It's good to stick to something you like.
V1ctor: that is good
Emi1y: Does Kelly like blue?
V1ctor: ohhhhhhhhh
V1ctor: yes of couse
V1ctor: that is her favourite colour
Emi1y: That's good.
V1ctor: have you eat today?
Emi1y: I had a little something when I got home. My day was strange because it was three hours shorter than usual.
Emi1y: I had a sandwich in San Diego, a snack on the airplane, and a small salad when I got home.
V1ctor: who will you meet home when you get home?
Emi1y: I am home. My cat Molly was here.
Emi1y: My son looked after her while I was gone.
V1ctor: ohh i dont like lonlyness
V1ctor: i dont want be lonly anymore
Emi1y: I'm not lonely. And after raising two lively children, it's sometimes nice to be alone.
V1ctor: [heart emoticon – which Emi1y ignored]
Emi1y: I do miss the companionship of my husband, though.
V1ctor: i think i miss my late wife ............i will never forget her she a wowan of respect i respect her so much
Emi1y: I wouldn't expect you to. I'm sure you loved her very much, and her loss must have been a great blow to you.
V1ctor: she always encourage me
Emi1y: That's good. My husband was always on my side, too.
V1ctor: well i have to forget the past and lookforword for something good
Emi1y: Yes, I'm sure she would want you to do that.
V1ctor: The Way Forward To Better Life Is To Be More Focus and Determined, [copy-and-paste, and he’s used it before]
Emi1y: So true.
V1ctor: and you hope your husband will like you to do the same huh?
Emi1y: Yes. He would not want me to stay unhappy and alone.
V1ctor: What would make me decide to have a second date would be to have shared some of the same interests with you
Emi1y: That is important.
V1ctor: You know so we can actually have something to do while were out
Emi1y: What do you like to do?
V1ctor: It makes the relationship exciting, and keeps your mind on something instead of worrying about
V1ctor: if' all the time.I'd go on a second date if he is funny, and able to carry on an intellectual conversation
Emi1y: That's important to me.
V1ctor: I would feel very comfortable being around you if you really want me
Emi1y: I would like to get to know you better. After three chats, I think we could get along well.
V1ctor: yes
V1ctor: i believein continuty secure better connection
Emi1y: That's true.
V1ctor: I think the second date should come if you click with the guy/girl. If there is a conversation that lasts longer than 5 minutes, and he/she doesn't say, 'Um really?
Emi1y: Oh, I really dislike that! I'm always telling my clients that if they want to say something like that, they should keep their mouth closed.
V1ctor: you mean you hate second dating?
Emi1y: Good heavens, no!
Emi1y: I mean that I hate people who say "um" or "er" or other nonsense words just to fill in the silence.
V1ctor: lol i can undersatnd you
V1ctor:
Emi1y: After all, I majored in Communications
Emi1y: V1ctor, it is getting late. I am very tired, and I should go to bed so I can be ready to go to work tomorrow.
V1ctor: ohh
Emi1y: I have enjoyed our chat. I hope we can chat again soon.
V1ctor: what is the time say overethere
Emi1y: It's almost 10:00
V1ctor: the same thing here [Yes, V1ctor, New York and Massachusetts are in the same time zone]
Emi1y: Yes.
V1ctor: what is your schedule for tomorrow?
Emi1y: I will be busy with clients most of the day. And I will be having dinner with my daughter in the evening.
V1ctor: what time are you coming back from work?
Emi1y: I'm afraid I will probably go straight from work to my daughter's. I have to catch up on what I didn't do over the weekend.
V1ctor: i understand you
V1ctor: but tell me when will come onine?
V1ctor: online
Emi1y: I can't promise anything before Tuesday afternoon at about 4:00
V1ctor: ok
Emi1y: Oh, dear - no - I have a doctor appointment Tuesday afternoon in Boston.[RL commitment]
V1ctor: can i talk to you when you at work?
Emi1y: If I'm in my office and there is not a client with me.
V1ctor: ok
Emi1y: If I'm available I'll open my chat program. Otherwise I won't.
V1ctor: i will be online to afterning so i can talk to you
Emi1y: OK.
V1ctor: so are you saying that will can chat tomorrow?
Emi1y: I don't know, V1ctor. I haven't checked my messages at work.
V1ctor: ok
Emi1y: I will have to see what is going on when I get to the office.
V1ctor: well that will should be tusday?
Emi1y: I don't know. I know I have to go to Boston to the doctor in the afternoon, and I usually have dinner with some college friends when I go.
V1ctor: ok tell me what is ur schedule for next week then .......when are you going be available to talk to me
V1ctor: i will be so worry if i did`t talk to you
Emi1y: The first time I can promise to be available is Wednesday around noon. I usually block that time out and refuse to take business calls.
V1ctor: ok
V1ctor: well i tell kelly to send you message on your gmail
Emi1y: I look forward to hearing from her.
V1ctor: ok
Emi1y: And I promise I will answer her mails quickly.
V1ctor: ok
V1ctor: i will tell her to do fast
Emi1y: OK.
V1ctor: she just go to bed now
V1ctor: i will miss talking to you
Emi1y: I really have to go, V1ctor. I am so tired.
V1ctor: you always in my thought
Emi1y: I will try to send you an email at least.
V1ctor: ok
V1ctor: have lovely dream
Emi1y: Good-night.
V1ctor: sleep tight
Emi1y: You, too. Sleep well.
V1ctor: im lookigforword to read you mail
Emi1y: OK.
Emi1y: Bye
V1ctor: good night
V1ctor: dream of me
Emi1y: LOL - I just might do that!
V1ctor: lol
V1ctor: god bless you
V1ctor: and bless your children
V1ctor: have a wanderful dream
V1ctor: i cant stop thinking of you
Emi1y: And God bless you and Kelly
V1ctor: amen
Emi1y: I will pray for you to get that contract.

Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2008 4:44 am

Titania, excellent work at engaging this lad in chat. If I am reading things correctly, he is claiming to be in New York and your character is in Boston. If this is correct, a suggestion is to use your supposedly same time zone to your advantage. Become very busy at work and be unable to chat during business hours, have the IT department block access to all chat programs from company computers, or any problem you can create will work. You will only be available at home after 8 pm so it will be 1 am in Nigeria (I think it is a 5 hour time differences between EST and Nigeria). Do not be available early in the morning. He will have to go along with it or expose his lie about being in New York. The stories created to get out these kinds of situations can be amusing. Being on the West Coast of the US, I had one lad awake at 2-3 am several times a week. He fell asleep on me a few times.

Another opportunity he gave you was being specific about his car (Toyota Solara). Find a detail that an owner should know and ask a question about it. Perhaps one of your friends is having a problem with the AC or stereo system and ask for his advice. It fun to which the twitching start when he can't intelligently respond or has to lie. If he ignores the question, keeping coming back to it. You can even make something up since it is highly unlikely he has that car.

Catching a lad in a lie becomes very useful. You can use to it continuously question their honesty after that point. They are forced to make an extra effort to prove they are telling the truth. Wait for the right time to expose a lie since you don't want the lad to twig on you. Also, make sure it does not educate the lad.

You're doing great. You are softening him up for some pain which is always a good thing.

Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2008 1:34 pm

Good chat Titania,

What's with him and asking about food? next time he asks about food tell him you had caviat and smokered salmon on crackers or some other non existant exotic dish and be sure to tell him how much it cost you to feed your clients, lads just love hearing about how much money you have blown (as I enjoy hearing about my wifes shopping adventures) Wink

As PRS suggested getting him to chat when it is very late at night will only add to his frustration and require him to think even harder.

Telling him you have expensive business lunches with clients followed by a touch of shopping for a new hambag should be a good excuse, show him the 3 you purchased and ask him to pick his favourite, obviously dont include a blue one Laughing

Not meaning to sound critical but try to get him to do more typing, when you ask him questions, make him answer them, copy and paste the question until he answers if you need to, this should help to minimise your time spent and increase his, this should help to make any other chat he has going more diffciult while giving you more time to tend to some other pets or read some of my educational posts elsewhere Wink

(sorry, I couldn't resist that one Laughing

)

Another area where you can misinform is about the weather, being on the other side of the world I have no idea what the weather was like there and either has he (I presume its allmost Autumn........ sorry, fall) so the weather is most likely mixed at the moment giving you a perfect oportunity, so when he asks tell him the opposite within reason of course, remember he may well have another chat going and feeding him misinformation about the weather may help him to slip up in any other chats he has going

I could be wrong but him asking about where you were may have been leading to some erotic talk, you did do well to avoid the subject but his desire to do this will most likely increase in time, this is something you will eventually face, when it does come up (no pun intended), only do what your comfortable with, tell him what that is and deliver a mild slap and ignore him for a minute or 2 every time he raises the subject again

Over all, well done, in no time at all you will be giving me the chat advice Embarassed

Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2008 2:53 pm

Thanks for the advice, PRS and Murry.

I wondered about the food questions, too. He did seem impressed with the sea bass - even more so than the steak. The bit about "energy food" puzzled me, as it followed my remarks about saving energy - after quite a long pause. My guess was that he had no idea what I was talking about and had to come up with something that sounded like it connected.

It's going to be interesting to see how he makes himself sound like a 15-year-old girl.

BTW, it was 6-7 pm PDT (9-10 EDT) when I was chatting with him, which makes it very early am in Nigeria. So maybe this mugu has his own computer? Or does he work the night shift at the cafe?

Posted: Thu Aug 21, 2008 4:11 pm

I kept my word not to be available for chat (RL intervened), but V1ctor was lonely for his Emi1y.

Quote:

what up Emi1y [what up?!?!?!? Love the foray into Americanese] how are you doing overthere .i login to my yahoo hot mail i cant find you online ..........i miss you ..

So Emi1y had to explain why she was still unavailable (last-minute RL appointment)

Quote:

V1ctor,

It's so sweet of you to keep writing when I have not written much. I am in need of some sweetness right now.

Do you remember that I said I was going to the doctor in Boston? Well, he wanted to do a lot of tests, and so I have had to spend the night in a hotel here. I have come to the business center in the hotel to catch up on my emails. I thought I should let you know what's going on.

V1ctor, the doctor won't tell me what he thinks might be wrong with me, because he doesn't want me worrying about something that may not be true. But he's scheduled a lot of tests, and that is worry enough to set me wondering. Is it cancer? Is it something really awful that I'll have to live with for the rest of my life? I don't feel bad, not ill or anything, and no pain. It's just some numbers in my routine blood tests were not to his liking, and he wants to find out why. He's really a good doctor and treats me like a sister, so I know he's just being very careful, but I really do wish I knew what he thinks might be wrong.

V1ctor, if you are a praying man, please keep me in your prayers. I should be back home tomorrow, and I might have some answers by then. But the doctor says some of the tests take quite some time to get results. I will be a nervous wreck until then.

I haven't heard from Kelly yet. Is she doing well? Have you taken her shopping for her new clothes for school? I have heard that the Nyack public schools are among the best in the country. Which high school is she going to?

Thank you for keeping contact even while I'm distracted.

Emi1y

V1ctor has apparently been reading horoscopes for inspiration.

Quote:

hi baby, how is your night hope all is well with you,i think you will back home today ? how is your health ?you need to be strog Don't be prey to doubt and hesitation when it comes to love matters. Life is too short and this love opportunity which you have at present is a precious one Your love life is heading for a three star period and you should already feel things picking up. Believe in yourself and others will respect your needs and limits.You are right to be looking for something deep and meaningful, but try not to get too serious about things, or you could end up missing out on some great fun,There is no use denying the love that is in your heart, and you will find that by accepting that feeling, you will make peace with yourself and with others, i want you know i cant stop thinking of you i pray for you in my morning devotion , you are my thought , hope everything will be fine with you ....i cant wait to chat with you today.....

So Emi1y is finally available for a chat again and lets V1ctor know how her time in Boston went.

Quote:

V1ctor,

Thank you for those comforting words. Yes, I returned home late last night, and I am taking it easy today. Some of the tests were rather difficult to go through, and I am very tired. The doctor looked happier at the end of the day than he had the day before. He told me I have nothing terrible to fear, but there may have to be some further medication or even surgery in the future. But I have nothing fatal - I won't die anytime soon. There's just something not right inside me that will need some adjustment. I do feel less afraid and worried now.

Tuesday evening I went to dinner with friends, as I usually do when I'm in Boston. We went to Legal Sea Foods, and I ordered Sea Scallops En Croute. But I was so worried that the normally delicious morsels just tasted like cardboard and glue. Such a shame, because LSF does that dish so perfectly.

I also thank you for your prayers. I'm sure they helped me feel calm and upbeat during the tests. It's good to know there is someone who cares about you enough to pray for you.

I'm sure Kelly will find a great school, and if she's anything like her father, she will make friends quickly and become popular. Just tell her to smile a lot, and remind her to be nice to everyone, even the unpopular girls. That will be the way to be well-liked by everyone. I expect to hear that she is at the top of her class soon.

I will be at my home computer most of the day today. I am turning on my chat program now. I do look forward to chatting with you.

Emi1y

Posted: Fri Aug 22, 2008 12:14 am

Two hours – we chatted for two hours. I finally had to make up an excuse to log off. I was getting bored.

Quote:

V1ctor: hello
V1ctor: how are doing Emi1y?
Emi1y: Hello
Emi1y: I am well.
Emi1y: Amd you?
V1ctor: how is your day? hope all is well with you
V1ctor: im cool
Emi1y: My day is going well. I have been resting most of the time.
V1ctor: i m iss you Emi1y
V1ctor: wow
V1ctor: i wish im resting like you
Emi1y: I'm sorry I wasn't able to chat the past few days.
Emi1y: I didn't expect to be detained in Boston. I thought I'd be back Tuesday evening.
V1ctor: i understand i got your message you send to me
Emi1y: I've had to cancel several meetings with clients, but they were very nice about it.
V1ctor: ok
Emi1y: And I'll be back at work tomorrow, probably work through the weekend as well.
Emi1y: I missed our chats, too. It's a bright spot in my day.
V1ctor: where are you now?
Emi1y: In my home office.
V1ctor: what do you do today? hope everything is fine with you ..........i always thinking about you since when you have stoping to me
Emi1y: I have mostly been resting, catching up on emails with friends, and talking with my son and daughter
V1ctor: tell me do you talk to alot of friend online .....do you date someone online ?
Emi1y: I talk with clients online sometimes, and with my children, but I am not dating anyone at the moment,
V1ctor: good ....tell me do you still longin to machdoctor? [we didn’t meet on matchdoctor]
Emi1y: No, I haven't been there recently
V1ctor: good
Emi1y: I wasn't impressed with most of the men who contacted me there, anyway. Well, except for you.
Emi1y: And do you chat with a lot of women online? [Hey, if he can ask, so can I]
V1ctor: ohhh no
Emi1y: That's good.
Emi1y: So where are you right now?
V1ctor: i want you to do me favour can you dlete your profile from the site and focus on our friendship and se were is going to lead us too
V1ctor: im at home chating with you Emi1y
Emi1y: I will put my profile on hold.
Emi1y: That way no one will be able to see it.
V1ctor: ok
Emi1y: And will you do the same?
V1ctor: what is your password and user name so that i can delete my own and delete your [Oh, no you don’t buster!]
Emi1y: V1ctor, I never give my password to anyone!
Emi1y: And I won't start now.
Emi1y: My husband never even asked for my password to my bank account or my email.
V1ctor: i just want help you to delete it im not say u should gave me your special password
Emi1y: I will take care of it myself.
V1ctor: ok
V1ctor: tell me what do you do today?
Emi1y: I've told you already.
V1ctor: ok
Emi1y: ][;'l]
Emi1y: Sorry - kitten on the keys [actually, I dropped something]
V1ctor: tell me do you think of me since i have stop talikng to you?
Emi1y: Yes, I have thought about you.
V1ctor: really?
Emi1y: I wished I could chat the past few days, and was sad that I couldn't
V1ctor: ohh
V1ctor: what do you eat today.........?
Emi1y: Well, I had a small omelet for breakfast, with cheese.
Emi1y: And I had a PBJ for lunch, and I'll be having a Cobb salad for supper.
Emi1y: I have also eaten some strawberries and an apple.
V1ctor: good
V1ctor: where is you pet?
Emi1y: How about you? What have you eaten today?
Emi1y: Molly is sitting on the floor at my feet. She wanted to see what I was doing, and jumped into my lap.
V1ctor: lol
V1ctor: what is name?
Emi1y: Molly.
V1ctor: molly
Emi1y: She's a Maine Coon cat - very large.
V1ctor: wow that good
V1ctor: how old is she?
Emi1y: She's only about 3 years old.
V1ctor: wow
Emi1y: Still very active and playful.
V1ctor: that is good .........i wish to meet her
Emi1y: Well, maybe sometime you will get to meet her. She's a very friendly cat.
Emi1y: Do you have any pets?
V1ctor: i show your message to kelly this morning she feel so excited that you wrote
V1ctor: well i dont have pet
Emi1y: That's too bad. I'm sure Kelly would like a cat or a dog. I'm glad she was happy to see my message.
V1ctor: yes ....she like cat ..she happy to se your message that you send to me
V1ctor: how many of you at home right now?
Emi1y: Just me and Molly.
V1ctor: how big is your house?
Emi1y: Four bedrooms, three bathrooms, kitchen, living room, family room, and office.
V1ctor: were are your children did you go to there house today?
Emi1y: Large enough for our family when the children were still at home.
V1ctor: ohh new you are living alone with molly
Emi1y: Yes, since my husband passed away.
V1ctor: i dont want remain lonly baby that is why i keep connected with you i want the friendship to lead to seriously relationship that will not have any error
Emi1y: I would like that kind of relationship, too.
Emi1y: And it would be nice if you were the one I had it with.
V1ctor: i was living alone before i take kelly back to state .........she live with my sister after her mother passaway
Emi1y: I'm glad that she is with you now.
V1ctor: tell me have you close the account from 4ppl ...i want youur account close so that our frienship can strong and tight
Emi1y: I will do that.
V1ctor: ok
V1ctor: when are yiu going close it? [insistant b@stard]
Emi1y: When we are through chatting today.
V1ctor: ok
V1ctor: well i want you to know that true Love comes from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith
Emi1y: That is true
V1ctor: you told me that you will send more of you pic ........you have not send it
V1ctor: Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen
Emi1y: I'm sorry about the pics
V1ctor: There are three things that remain - faith, hope, and love - and the greatest of these is love
V1ctor: i want to love again .i dont want remain widow in my life
Emi1y: That's one of my favorite passages.
Emi1y: It was read at my wedding.
V1ctor: can you tell much about you childhood ........how did you contact you late husband when he was young man?
Emi1y: My husband and I grew up together. He lived just a few houses away, and he would walk me to school every day.
Emi1y: When we were in high school, we began going on dates with other couples, and then we started going steady.
V1ctor: good
Emi1y: Then when we were in college, I went to a girls' college and he went to Harvard, but we wrote every day.
Emi1y: And when we graduated, we married.
V1ctor: wow
Emi1y: How did you meet your late wife?
V1ctor: that is great
V1ctor: well i meet my late wife at spain
Emi1y: Were you visiting there on business? And was she Spanish?
V1ctor: on my way to big resturant .........for lunch .......business trip that what was 17years ago
Emi1y: And was she Spanish?
V1ctor: she a very nice woman .she so care, love honest ..........well she a spanish lady /
V1ctor: she was born and rase in spain before i took her to state
Emi1y: Kelly must be a real beauty, with you as her father and a lovely spanish lady for a mother. I couldn't see her picture very well. It was too small.
V1ctor: that is my only good daughter she so pretty beautiful and pround of her
Emi1y: I will be happy to meet her.
V1ctor: that is good ....i wish you ware here with me when i told her that you wrote me a message .....she happy that wrote message ...and she ask me that will you married and care for her as your daughter?
Emi1y: Well, if this leads to marriage, of course I will welcome her into my home and my heart as my daughter.
V1ctor: wow that great ......i believe and trust that it will lead to serious relationship that will not have any error in future .i want the best for you
Emi1y: And I want the best for you and Kelly. She is new to the USA, and she will need someone to talk to.
Emi1y: She needs a mother in her life.
V1ctor: yes .......i pray that everything will work out for us
V1ctor: hope your children will happy for you . if they se you in second relationship .........
Emi1y: They encouraged me to start looking again. They want me happy.
V1ctor: wow
Emi1y: What do you think about becoming a grandfather?
V1ctor: i will like to meet them if you get married to me? wow that great i will feel confortable and so happy be came grandfather
V1ctor: tell me what do feel be came my daughter mom
Emi1y: Quattro is a darling little boy - just 2 years old.
Emi1y: I spoil him dreadfully.
V1ctor: Quattro [He’s never heard that name before, I’m sure]
Emi1y: He is Edward Dickinson Geisel the Fourth, so we call him Quattro.
V1ctor: she or he
Emi1y: His father, grandfather, and great-grandfather all have the same name.
V1ctor: wow good name
Emi1y: It is a family name
V1ctor: how is work today? [How many times is he going to ask this?]
Emi1y: I didn't do much work.
Emi1y: I have a lot of clients to see tomorrow.
Emi1y: How has your work been going
V1ctor: well i recieve call from UK about the countrat that im bided for ....they keep asure me that it may posiible that i will win the contrat
V1ctor: i pray everything will fine ........
Emi1y: Oh, I hope you do!
Emi1y: That would be wonderful for you.
V1ctor: it will be great job for me if i win the contrat .....
Emi1y: Yes. I will pray for that to happen.
Emi1y: But how long will it be before you find out?
V1ctor: well the contract will be aword for the winner on 30 this mouth
Emi1y: I will pray especially for you on that day.
V1ctor: thank you
Emi1y: What will happen if you get the contract?
V1ctor: tell me will u be a woman of my heart ......this contract wat about $600.000 ......it will be my plesure if they aword it for me
Emi1y: I will be happy to continue getting to know you. I have begun to have good feelings about you.
Emi1y: I don't know if I'm ready to make a solid commitment yet, but if things continue as they are, I think we will be good together.
Emi1y: What is the contract for?
V1ctor: yes ......contrat base my bussiness they need someone that they will trust ..........that can supply them goods like cocoa and caffee
Emi1y: Oh, is that the business you are in?
V1ctor: yes
V1ctor: that what i base on i do supply
Emi1y: Where do they come from?
V1ctor: from UK ..but they have agent in state i contact there agent here in state ..........sometime they link me with me UK Their headquater
Emi1y: Where do the cocoa and coffee come from?
V1ctor: i have not no yet .......if i want supply i do go china sometimes or brazil to supply [You don’t know where the goods you deal in come from?]
Emi1y: Ah, I see.
V1ctor: if possible i win the contract they will darect me to best place to get the goods for them
Emi1y: Well, that's good.
Emi1y: My favorite cocoa is Swiss.
V1ctor: do you like coffee?
Emi1y: I don't drink it much, and only decaf. Caffiene is not good.
V1ctor: ohh
Emi1y: At my age, I must keep myself in good health.
V1ctor: tell me how long have you been in this your work carrier? you need someone beside you that will hold you tight .......as i also want too
Emi1y: I began my career just after college.
Emi1y: How long have you been doing your work?
V1ctor: this my 8years spending in trading buy and sell
Emi1y: What did you do before that?
V1ctor: I Retired as an Investment and Financial analyst
Emi1y: Do you like this better?
V1ctor: yes
Emi1y: Why is it better?
V1ctor: becos i dont privacy when working . i need to free and be my man .....
Emi1y: Ah. I see.
Emi1y: Do you work in an office in Nyack?
V1ctor: i work from house
Emi1y: I guess with the type of work you do you don't have many employees?
V1ctor: i dont employer people for my job ..
V1ctor: i work for my self
Emi1y: That's the best way to be. I don't have employees either. I do all my own accounting and letters.
Emi1y: I don't want an employee making things bad with a client.
V1ctor: yes .i dont need anyinterrort to my job
Emi1y: I work when I need to, I don't have to punch a clock.
V1ctor: tell me do you make every week ?
Emi1y: Do I make what?
V1ctor: i mean do you make alot of money in your work .......?
Emi1y: I make a very good living.
V1ctor: that is great
Emi1y: And you? [If he can ask, so can I]
V1ctor: well i make good living too .......im man of my self
Emi1y: That's good to know.
Emi1y: Now that Kelly is living with you, do you cook good meals for her?
V1ctor: yes i cook for my self and for kelly
Emi1y: What are you having for supper tonight?
V1ctor: i learn how to cook when i was a child .........my mom teach me how to cook
Emi1y: What are you having for supper tonight?
V1ctor: well fried rice that is what kelly said she want to eat
Emi1y: Plenty of vegetables, I hope?
Emi1y: And lean meat?
V1ctor: chicken
Emi1y: That's good
V1ctor: what do you have for supper tonight too?
Emi1y: Cobb salad.
Emi1y: My housekeeper is fixing it now.
V1ctor: wow i love salad
Emi1y: Yes. Salads are good for you.
V1ctor: what is your favourte food?
Emi1y: Smoked Salmon with a Lizette Sauce. [I have no idea what Lizette Sauce is – I just made that up]
Emi1y: And yours?
V1ctor: i most tell u ........posta and salad
Emi1y: What kind of sauce? Tomato or white?
V1ctor: tintomato
Emi1y: Ah. There are some wonderful Italian places in Boston.
Emi1y: I could gain pounds just smelling the wonderful smells there
V1ctor: ok
V1ctor: brb
Emi1y: Are there any good restaurants in Nyack?
V1ctor: im back
Emi1y: Oh, were you away?
V1ctor: yes alot
Emi1y: How big is Nyack?
Emi1y: I don't think I've ever been there.
V1ctor: ohh nyack is nice place to be
Emi1y: How big?
V1ctor: just averrage
Emi1y: Average for what?
Emi1y: Is it a big city, a small town?
V1ctor: not too big city [Properly vague. FYI, Nyack is a village just outside NYC]
Emi1y: Are you in upstate New York?
V1ctor: yes
Emi1y: Oh. Near Cornell?
V1ctor: at the middle ........
Emi1y: OK.
Emi1y: My housekeeper just told me my supper is ready, and she will not serve me here in the office. [Emi1y’s housekeeper is a tyrant]
Emi1y: I must go and eat it in the dining room.
V1ctor: ok
Emi1y: She insists on being very formal.
V1ctor: when are you coimng back here?
Emi1y: I don't know. My son may come over to watch the Olympics with me.
Emi1y: He likes doing that.
V1ctor: how mints are you going spend in dinning room?
Emi1y: Probably a half hour, and then the Olympics start.
V1ctor: did your son live close to you?
Emi1y: He lives just a few streets over.
V1ctor: ok
V1ctor: he do nomarlly come down to your house everyday to visite you right?
Emi1y: Yes. We are very close.
Emi1y: Sometimes he brings his wife and son.
Emi1y: But sometimes he likes to get away from the noise of a little boy running around and shouting.
V1ctor: how old he is?
Emi1y: My son? He's 30
V1ctor: ok
V1ctor: tell me when are you going to delete you account from 4ppl ? [Again he asks!]
Emi1y: As soon as we log off here.
Emi1y: Have you deleted yours?
V1ctor: ok
V1ctor: The few hours I spend with you are worth the thousand hours I spend without you
Emi1y: That's sweet.
Emi1y: I enjoy the time I spend with you, too.
V1ctor: May the Lord make your love increase and overflow for each other and for everyone else [Gag me!]
Emi1y: Thank you.
Emi1y: I will be praying for you to get that contract.
Emi1y: And for Kelly to make some new friends in her new home.
V1ctor: So they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, no human being must separate
Emi1y: V1ctor, I really must go. My housekeeper is threatening to turn off the computer.
V1ctor: im here waiting for you okey?
Emi1y: Ok.
Emi1y: I will be online tomorrow.
Emi1y: Good night.
V1ctor: you are not coming back any huh? [Hell no! Two hours in a day is enough!]
Emi1y: I think not tonight. I'll probably fall asleep in front of the TV.
V1ctor: can i have your phone number so that i call you when i get online tomorrow
V1ctor: ok
Emi1y: I can't give out my number right now. My phone is still broken.
Emi1y: I only have my work phone, and I never use that for personal calls.
V1ctor: can i call you true it?
Emi1y: No, I just said I never use it for personal calls. It's because of taxes.
Emi1y: If I am online, I will know when you come online.
V1ctor: well i will talk to you tomorrow ......you just go for dinner ..i will talk to you tomorrow is another great day as today is great day for our female soccer team beat brazil in the final
Emi1y: Oh, that's good. I'll look for that on the broadcast tonight.
Emi1y: Good-night, V1ctor.
V1ctor: ok Emi1y

I did go on 4ppl and hide the profile. V1ctor just may take it into his head to go there and check. Besides I have several lads going at once now (at least 4), and I don’t know if I can handle many more than that. V1ctor is very high-maintenance.

Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 12:15 am

Emi1y resisted – really, she did. But somehow she ended a 3-hour chat engaged to V1ctor. I have edited some of the more boring parts out. It became a little surreal when “Kelly” came online for a little bit.

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V1ctor: hello
Emi1y: Hello
V1ctor: how are you doing ? hope all is well with you this weekend?
Emi1y: Everything is great
Emi1y: How is everything in Nyack?
V1ctor: you toldme that you will be online in the morning time today ....i cant se you when i came online
Emi1y: I had to go shopping.
V1ctor: well everything fine ........kelly send her regard to you......she said how are you doing overthere to day?
Emi1y: I told you my phone was broken. My son and I went to the electronics store to get a new one. [I did get a new phone – an anonymous Tracphone, so he can call me if he wants to. But I’m not telling him the number until he asks.]
V1ctor: ok
Emi1y: It has to charge and be set up with the phone company, but it should be ready by Monday.
V1ctor: when are you going to get new phone?
Emi1y: I have the phone, but the number won't be available until Monday
V1ctor: do you read the mail i send to you this morning?
Emi1y: I didn't see one from you this morning. Let me check right now.

There followed a discussion on why I didn’t get the mail, and he re-sent it. Here it is:

Quote:

good morning,how is your night hope you do slept well I slept well and went for an early prayer walk this morning. I prayed specifically for us yesterday that God would be centre of everything that we do and if it is his will that i will continue to put him first always, but if not i wouldn't get carried away with emotions. You see i promised God on a number of occasions that if i didn't get all that i wanted in life that i would still love him and serve him and i meant it. In this kind of a situation everything can go so fast and i just want to ensure that a strong foundation is set for any future relationship. I Wondered If Our Heart Desires and Intention Could Be The Same and Equal, For all That i want is a Perfect Friendship That will Lead To a Better Relationship That will Count No Error , where Both Of Us and The Other Member Of The Family will Be Happy and Rejoice all The Time,im lookingforword to chat with you and tell u more what i want in relationship.have a great weekend.
stay bless

back to the conversation

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Emi1y: Did you get my message that I sent late last night? [I sent an email at what would have been midnight in Amherst, telling him about a retirement dinner party I attended, complete with pic of Emi1y in a gown.]
V1ctor: yes i got it that is why i send you good morning note thos morning
Emi1y: Did you like my picture?
V1ctor: yes i thrill for the pic when i saw it this morning.......
V1ctor: i understand what you wrote in the massage .....tell me how do you tell you friend that i send my regard to him.? you most be a funny woman
V1ctor: i was lauching when i ready your mail this morning
Emi1y: Yes, I say some funny things sometimes.
V1ctor: well the mail was coming out from my heart to you.........you are my thought my message was writeing from my7 spirit
Emi1y: I'm touched and honored that you think of me in that way.
V1ctor: yes i hope you do think of me the way you are my heart ?
Emi1y: I am beginning to like you more and more - it may be turning into love.
Emi1y: I know that I enjoy receiving mail from you, and I enjoy chatting with you.
V1ctor: that is what i want
Emi1y: Thoughts of you are coming to me at odd times.
V1ctor: i want the likeness to turn to serioues relationship that will lead us to higher level in future ......
Emi1y: That would be wonderful, wouldn't it?
Emi1y: I have turned down several requests for dates from some very eligible men. I want to concentrate on V1ctor for now.
V1ctor: that will be great if you accept me as your man ......i dont want to remain widow in my life that is why i keep contacting you .......you are the best woman my spirit want
Emi1y: Why, thank you, V1ctor!
Emi1y: You seem to be the kind of man I want and need in my life.
V1ctor: really?
Emi1y: Yes. You are intelligent, you are a serious businessman, and a devoted father.
Emi1y: What more could I want?
V1ctor: tell me do you talk to another man online ,i want to know the trust .i want you to be honest to me and i also should clever man i want trust you and you also trust me
Emi1y: I am not talking with any other man online.
V1ctor: good ......dont angry if ask you on reasonable question i just want be honest to you
Emi1y: I hope you are not talking with other women?
V1ctor: no i dont talk another woman ........you are the only woman i meet in 4ppl ......even i was wander how i contact you ..........i feel so excited meet a woman like you
Emi1y: Well, I'm glad we found each other.
V1ctor: thank god
Emi1y: Yes. I see his hand in this.

Now the conversation turned to God – simple stuff, not worthy of immortalizing here. And then he brought up his daughter.

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V1ctor: she ask me that what are will cahting for i told will are just friend......she now said huuuuuuuuuuuu
V1ctor: i ask what that mean why do you sound like that
Emi1y: She's a teenager - they sound like that.
V1ctor: she like you .she said she wish you to be her mom
Emi1y: Oh, that's so sweet!
Emi1y: I'd really like to get to know her better.
V1ctor: she is here with me..........
Emi1y: Hi, Kelly!
V1ctor: hi ma
Emi1y: Are you enjoying being in the USA? I heard you just recently moved here.
V1ctor: let me hangup talk to her
Emi1y: OK
V1ctor: hi
V1ctor: this is kelly
Emi1y: Hi, Kelly. I'm glad to meet you.
V1ctor: ty ma
Emi1y: Your dad is so proud of you.
V1ctor: that is my dad
V1ctor: he have been telling me about something about ....ma are my father girlfriend .......he show me your pic ths morning with molly cat i love cat
Emi1y: I'm glad you do. There's something special about people who love cats.
V1ctor: ok
V1ctor: dad back here talk to him [I imagine he couldn’t keep up the pretense of being a 15-year-old girl any longer]
Emi1y: OK, sweetie. Bye!
V1ctor: im here Emni1y i miss you
Emi1y: She is a really sweet girl, but I think a little shy?
V1ctor: she is my gold daughter as i always said ........i love her i dont want any bad thing to happen to her
Emi1y: No - of course not.
V1ctor: i want to gave her good home traning
Emi1y: Yes, definitely.
V1ctor: to remain you i recieve phone call from UK this moprning about the buziness deal that that i was bided for they told me that meeting will be calling for all the contestace
Emi1y: When?
V1ctor: that will be tueday in new york here in there breach here
Emi1y: Oh, that's good!
Emi1y: I hope you get the contract.
V1ctor: well it has not yet aword for any body
Emi1y: I'm sure they'll tell you something at the meeting, though.
V1ctor: the contract will be aword for 2person
Emi1y: Oh?
V1ctor: im the only man that from the state ...the rest of the contestance come another country some are italy, spain china
V1ctor: e.t.c
Emi1y: Wow - they're looking all over then.
V1ctor: yes ..but i believe in my self and i believe in christ the contract will be aword for me and another man
Emi1y: Well, I have been praying for you.
V1ctor: thank you darling
V1ctor: tell me what do you do today?
Emi1y: I went to the store, bought groceries and a phone. What did you do?
V1ctor: well i dont do any special than thinking about you
Emi1y: Well, that's a pleasant thing to know
V1ctor: how is molly?
V1ctor: do u take molly with you when you are going for shopping darling?
Emi1y: No, dear, Molly stays in the house. She does not go outside at all. Except for when I take her to the vet.
V1ctor: good how many of you that go for shopping ? or you go alone?
Emi1y: My son went with me, because he knows more about phones than I do. He got me a good dea.
Emi1y: deal
V1ctor: ok
V1ctor: how is your son ? you have not tell me his name since will have staeted talking [Well, yes I did, but you’ve forgotten]
Emi1y: His name is D1ck - E. D1ckinson Geisel III. He's named after his father and grandfather.
V1ctor: is my plesure to know his name ....
Emi1y: I like to say he's my favorite son. Of course, he's my only son.
V1ctor: lol
V1ctor: how old is he
V1ctor: ?
Emi1y: He's 30
V1ctor: good
Emi1y: He's married and the father of my grandson.
V1ctor: ok
V1ctor: i think i will know this when will in good relationship?
Emi1y: Yes, you will meet him and his family, and my daughter and her new husband.
V1ctor: good darling it will be great day meeting them in person
Emi1y: I'm sure they will like you.
V1ctor: really?
V1ctor: have u tell them about?.........
Emi1y: I've told them that I am chatting with a man.
Emi1y: I haven't told them many details.
V1ctor: ohh what did they said when you said you ware chating with man online?
Emi1y: They just want me to be happy.
Emi1y: My son wants to be sure it's safe, though.
V1ctor: well that is what want for ........
Emi1y: Don't be surprised if you get an email from him one day asking you for all kinds of information.
Emi1y: He's a judge, and he doesn't trus anyone.
V1ctor: ohh
Emi1y: It's OK - he doesn't think I'm foolish or anything, he just feels that since my husband died it's his job to keep me safe
V1ctor: do you tell him to mail me?
Emi1y: No. I haven't given him your address yet.
Emi1y: If we become very serious, he may ask for it though.
V1ctor: ok
V1ctor: i believe evrything will workout soon ....
Emi1y: My daughter, Elizabeth, may ask for Kelly's address. She is a high school teacher and loves talking with teenaged girls.
V1ctor: i understand you darling ........but kelly have not have one now
V1ctor: how old is Elizabeth?
Emi1y: Oh, I'm sure she'll beg you for one to keep in contact with all her friends.
Emi1y: Elizabeth is 23
Emi1y: She just got married last summer.
V1ctor: ok
V1ctor: that is great ..........

Boring section on Emi1y describing her work.

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V1ctor: i think you will introduce me to the job when get married darling?
Emi1y: LOL, I
V1ctor: is not funny
Emi1y: I'll probably coach you in how to say your vows properly.
V1ctor: can you tell me how much you make pay mouth? [Nosey little b@stard, isn’t he?]
Emi1y: Well, I make about $3,000 per week, so that is about $12,000 per month.
Emi1y: Now you must tell me how much you make, dear.
V1ctor: ok
V1ctor: well my buziness depend [on how much he can scam out of his victims each day.]......i dont make money pay week or mouth ....my work is an agrement work ......
Emi1y: How much in a year, usually?
V1ctor: i make good moeny in my buziness ....not a years , it depend how i got deal ........
Emi1y: OK. I guess ...
Emi1y: But not very much information.
V1ctor: sometime i make 40,000 in one deal
V1ctor: like the contract im bided for now if is possible i win ...it wat more than 70,000 as my own profit
Emi1y: Well, that's a good profit.
V1ctor: yes
Emi1y: And you have many deals going all the time?
V1ctor: yes
V1ctor: well im telling you this becos you are so special to me i dont tell any body ....how i make my deal ...i think i want to share my heart with you i dont want keep anything from you
Emi1y: That's special, dear.
Emi1y: I feel much the same way.
V1ctor: i want to honest to you .....i want you trust me and i will trust you too i dont want any missunderstand between you and me .....i want the best for you in life
Emi1y: I'm happy to hear that, darling. I will not be dishonest with you either.
V1ctor: thank you ....
V1ctor: what do you eat today darling? [Here comes the food issue again – what is it with V1ctor and food?]
Emi1y: I had waffles for breakfast, with half a grapefruit. Then we had a lovely salad at a restaurant for lunch.
V1ctor: ok
Emi1y: My son and his family will be here soon, and he will grill steaks and potatoes for supper.
V1ctor: ok darling .......
Emi1y: What have you eaten?
V1ctor: well i hate bread and egg in the morning time
V1ctor: darling i want you keep our conversation to secrit ..i dont want you share it with anyone
Emi1y: V1ctor, I would not share our conversations with anyone - they are private!
V1ctor: that good darling ......i want you know that my daughter need you she want you to be mom she have worry me to tell you that will you married me [And there it is – who proposed, V1ctor or Kelly?]
V1ctor: ?
Emi1y: Oh, that's just so sweet! Are you proposing? Or is Kelly?
V1ctor: not only my daughter i want you to married me i need you in my life ...i want you to be the woman of my life i want spend the rest of my life
Emi1y: Oh, V1ctor! I'm honored! Yes! I'll marry you. [I’m gonna have to wash my hands, my keyboard, my monitor, and my eyeballs after this]
V1ctor: i will do anything to make you great as woman .....im telling you this from my heart my spirit need you ..
Emi1y: Oh, and my heart is so full with love for you.
V1ctor: my spirit test me to married you .....i want to love you in the good time and the best time , i want spend the rest of my life with you i promise to be there for
V1ctor: u
Emi1y: Oh, V1ctor. I promise I will love you truly and for always.
V1ctor: really? tell me the real thing
Emi1y: I will be a true wife to you and a loving mother to Kelly.
Emi1y: I will work beside you to make our home loving and happy.
V1ctor: tell me will you care for my daughter ? tell me dont lie to me i hate lie do you really want to accept me as your lover
Emi1y: My lover, my friend, my husband, my other half. and Kelly will be my daughter as if I had given birth to her.
V1ctor: in the good time and the bad time will you be daughter mother she really want spend her life with you
Emi1y: I will be loving, kind, and generous with her. But I will be firm also, as a mother should.
V1ctor: wow that great ........you dont how i feel so excited here im full of joy and so glad to hear that from you ........no body have ever se such of this words to me before since i have lose my wife
V1ctor: you will feel confortable around i promise you
Emi1y: I have never felt like this about anyone since my husband passed away.
Emi1y: You mean the world to me, you and Kelly.
V1ctor: i want render my life for you...hold me tight according your words
Emi1y: I want to spend my evenings held in your arms, and to wake up each morning to your kiss.
V1ctor: im man of words ..i hate making promise that i will never fullfil ........tell me you will never let me down ? tell me you will never let me ashame ,?tell me you will love my daughter ? i want us to live in great family i want us to live peace and unity V1ctor: you are best for woma n for me and for my daughter , i wish you should se how i feel so glad here .......
Emi1y: Oh, my dear V1ctor. I will be your true and honest wife for all time. I will make you proud, and I will be the mother Kelly needs.
Emi1y: My heart is singing.
V1ctor: wow
V1ctor: i promise you i will never hurt your feelings ,i want to shere everything about with you you are great woman that i have ever meet ..
Emi1y: Oh, thank you, V1ctor.
Emi1y: Will you tell Kelly she will have a mother again?
V1ctor: i will tell darling she has going to bed resting
Emi1y: Oh, thank you dear [I’m not sure, but I think we’re married now!]
Emi1y: I must go soon as well. My son and family will be here soon.
Emi1y: My son should be here any minute.
V1ctor: ok darling
Emi1y: It will take some time to get the grill going and the steaks cooked, but he likes company while he's cooking.
Emi1y: And I love to play with my grandson.
V1ctor: i love that darling
Emi1y: He's just at the age where he wants to pull Molly's tail, and she doesn't like that much.
Emi1y: Oh, I hear the doorbell. I must run.
V1ctor: lol
Emi1y: I love you, my darling. I will dream sweetly tonight.
V1ctor: who are the door darling?
Emi1y: My son and his family.
V1ctor: infact today is most great day .....for me that i will hear this from woamn she love me ..i have not here this since when i lose kelly mom
V1ctor: do you want to leave?
Emi1y: I must my dearest. If I don't, my son will see what we're talking about.
Emi1y: Sweet dreams, my best friend and lover.
V1ctor: so tell when he is going back home?
V1ctor: how long is it going spend with you?
Emi1y: It will be late, dear, and I must get up early for church.
Emi1y: I will be home early afternoon tomorrow.
Emi1y: Or possibly later, if we go to dinner with friends from church.
V1ctor: i wish to talk to you again before you go bed darling
Emi1y: I will try to log on at about 11:00, then.
V1ctor: ok
Emi1y: But only for a short time.
V1ctor: i will expecting you ok?
V1ctor: ok
Emi1y: I need my beauty sleep.
Emi1y: Yes - 11:00
V1ctor: ok darling you are my thought i think of you
Emi1y: Thank you, my dear.
V1ctor: talk to 11.00 darling love
Emi1y: Love to you and Kelly.
Emi1y: Good-bye for now.
V1ctor: sigout

I have to keep telling myself that I signed on for this kind of thing, but it is sometimes hard to pretend to be in this much love. What would possess a woman to become engaged to a man she’s only met online, and for such a short time? Especially a woman as intelligent and business-like as Emi1y?

Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 12:48 am

Titania,
Congratulations on your engagement!! I do hope you will invite me to the wedding. Laughing

I laughed so hard when you said you had to clean everything after talking to him!! I've felt that way after a long YIM with one of my lads.

As for the love part, it will turn into the "I need money from you" soon.
That's when the fun starts for me anyway.

Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 2:35 am

I'm expecting that this contract with a UK company will lead to a "trip" to London, and who knows where from there. All kinds of horrible disasters can befall the unwary business traveller. Very Happy

I have another chat scheduled with him tonight, and he will be informed that both my daughter and my daughter-in-law have just discovered they're pregnant. He's going to be a grandfather again - twice over. Kelly should be over the moon.

Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 10:24 pm

Could someone please interpret the IPs on this? I’m pretty sure he’s on the night shift in Nigeria, but I keep getting a US location, and he says he uses Netrider Service, which is a US service.

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Delivered-To: [email protected]
Received: by 10.180.244.5 with SMTP id r5cs111652bkh;
Sun, 24 Aug 2008 05:52:45 -0700 (PDT)
Received: by 10.70.56.13 with SMTP id e13mr4496987wxa.77.1219582364739;
Sun, 24 Aug 2008 05:52:44 -0700 (PDT)
Return-Path: <[email protected]>
Received: from n10.bullet.re3.yahoo.com (n10.bullet.re3.yahoo.com [68.142.237.123])
by mx.google.com with SMTP id i36si14497541wxd.0.2008.08.24.05.52.43;
Sun, 24 Aug 2008 05:52:44 -0700 (PDT)
Received-SPF: pass (google.com: domain of [email protected] designates 68.142.237.123 as permitted sender) client-ip=68.142.237.123;
DomainKey-Status: good (test mode)
Authentication-Results: mx.google.com; spf=pass (google.com: domain of [email protected] designates 68.142.237.123 as permitted sender) [email protected]; domainkeys=pass (test mode) [email protected]
Received: from [68.142.237.88] by n10.bullet.re3.yahoo.com with NNFMP; 24 Aug 2008 12:52:43 -0000
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Received: from [127.0.0.1] by omp105.mail.re3.yahoo.com with NNFMP; 24 Aug 2008 12:52:43 -0000
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X-YMail-OSG:
Received: from [208.78.59.198] by web57306.mail.re1.yahoo.com via HTTP; Sun, 24 Aug 2008 05:52:42 PDT
X-Mailer: YahooMailWebService/0.7.218.2
Date: Sun, 24 Aug 2008 05:52:42 -0700 (PDT)
From: Victor Stephen <[email protected]>
Reply-To: [email protected]
Subject: good morning
To: [email protected]
MIME-Version: 1.0
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Given the fact that he has proposed marriage to me (well, my character) in fairly short order, and many other indications of being a scammer, I believe he is one. Among other things, he seems awfully interested in my financial status, including how much of my late husband’s estate other members of the family inherited. He alternates between words of love and promise (borrowed from other sources – his grasp of English improves dramatically at such times) and questions about my finances. Can’t imagine a man who is really in love vibrating like that.

Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 3:56 am

Well done Titania!

208.78.59.198 gives me Canada which has loads of scammers. Did he give you a phone number?

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Juch-Tech Inc JUCHTECH (NET-208-78-56-0-1)
208.78.56.0 - 208.78.63.255
Xicom Technology Canada Limited JTI-XICOMCA-59 (NET-208-78-59-0-1)

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