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Hello I'm New here! Joined: 20 Jul 2008 Posts: 6

Dave Moon: hey whats up girl
ashanti scott: YES WHY?
Dave Moon: no, the answer is "hello"
ashanti scott: hello
ashanti scott: hehehe
Dave Moon: ahha
Dave Moon: thats pretty funny
Dave Moon: how are you
ashanti scott: im fine
ashanti scott: you?
Dave Moon: im good, i just went to the 7-11 up the street and won a scratch off ticket so im doing good
Dave Moon: im 29 male from virginia by the way
ashanti scott: how much lolx
ashanti scott: good for you
Dave Moon: only 1000 but thats not bad
ashanti scott: aww.. good for you..?
Dave Moon: yes
ashanti scott: so can u help me for something?
Dave Moon: where you from again, i know i talked to you on a dating site but i dont remember everything about you
ashanti scott: canada
Dave Moon: oh i love canadians
ashanti scott: well .. hmmm
Dave Moon: and how old are you
Dave Moon: hold on i can just go look at your profile, hang tight sweety
ashanti scott: ok
ashanti scott: 21
Dave Moon: i cant find it oh well, im sure you are a beautiful young lady
Dave Moon: what part of canada do you hail
ashanti scott: victoria bc canada
Dave Moon: oh wow so you know about the "ganja"
Dave Moon: haha
ashanti scott: ?
Dave Moon: in bc
Dave Moon: british colombia
Dave Moon: right
Dave Moon: /
ashanti scott: yes
Dave Moon: ?
ashanti scott: yes
Dave Moon: the ganja
ashanti scott: huh?
Dave Moon: i thought you guys were very tolerant there
Dave Moon: the "green tea"
ashanti scott: well sorry
Dave Moon: "weed"
Dave Moon: anyways
Dave Moon: no biggie
Dave Moon: im not in to that kind of thing
Dave Moon: i like for people to be level headed
ashanti scott: ok
Dave Moon: i think you are probaly more level headed than most americans
Dave Moon: tell me about yourself
ashanti scott: hmmm
ashanti scott: dont you see my pic
Dave Moon: i couldnt get on the site b/c it was taking forever to load
Dave Moon: on 4ppl right/
ashanti scott: aahh
ashanti scott: here?
Dave Moon: no
Dave Moon: there
ashanti scott: its easy here
Dave Moon: ok cool how
Dave Moon: yeah i would much rather see what you look like rather than know what you are all about
Dave Moon: he he
ashanti scott: lolx
ashanti scott: yeah ryt
Dave Moon: how can i see your pic
Dave Moon: i only have one pic of me but ill share if you share
ashanti scott: lolx
ashanti scott: hmm
ashanti scott: wait
ashanti scott: see me
Dave Moon: no
ashanti scott: hmm
Dave Moon: oh wow you are very pretty
ashanti scott: well thanks alot
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Dave Moon: i dont know if i can meet up to your standards
ashanti scott: huh?
ashanti scott: why
Dave Moon: b/c you are so attractive
Dave Moon: i dont think i am that attractive
ashanti scott: huh?
ashanti scott: so?
Dave Moon: oh wow thats very cool of you
ashanti scott: yes it is
Dave Moon: omg omg
Dave Moon: i just found out that i won 50 thousand instead of 1 thousand, there was this other box that i didnt scratch that made me win more
Dave Moon: now i can pay back some college loans
ashanti scott: lolx can u pay mine?
Dave Moon: haha i wish, i have been so poor for 2 weeks, now this, i am so happy
ashanti scott: u can ..lolx
Dave Moon: i can
ashanti scott: how?
ashanti scott: can uy send something here
ashanti scott: hehehe
Dave Moon: you are hysterical
Dave Moon:
ashanti scott: nope
Dave Moon: funny that is
Dave Moon: i like your sense of humor is what im saying
ashanti scott: hahah
ashanti scott: thanks
Dave Moon: i think we would make a good couple if we could ever meet
ashanti scott: yes
BUZZ!!!
Dave Moon: sorry had to answer the doorbell
ashanti scott: ok
ashanti scott: what does the doorbell said?lolx
Dave Moon: hahah
ashanti scott: hehhge
ashanti scott: hehe
ashanti scott: i make you laugh ..lol
Dave Moon: yes you sure do, and many others im sure
ashanti scott: thanks
Dave Moon: im makin a gin and vodka drink
Dave Moon: ew
ashanti scott: aww
Dave Moon: im gonna get drunk
Dave Moon: i deserve it, hard week at work
ashanti scott: yes it is..
ashanti scott: hmm
Dave Moon: whattcha doin
ashanti scott: well.. findin someone who can help me
ashanti scott: make me owe a money..
Dave Moon: what do you mean
ashanti scott: i need it to send some money to the phil...
Dave Moon: reall what for
ashanti scott: my mother is there....
ashanti scott: shes on the hospital,,,,,
Dave Moon: why on earth would she go there
ashanti scott: need badly an operation...
ashanti scott: some of our relatives are living there
Dave Moon: what operation
ashanti scott: heart operation
Dave Moon: i am a heart surgeon, maybe i could go there to help
ashanti scott: its really needed asap
ashanti scott: really..
ashanti scott: ok help me
Dave Moon: well i barely know you, but i will preform surgery at a very discounted rate, only you pay to get me on the plane
ashanti scott: i dont have money thats why im searhin people who can help me
Dave Moon: ok i pay for plane myself
Dave Moon: i can be there in 4 days, i really want to help
ashanti scott: well thank you
Dave Moon: let me check on something
ashanti scott: ok
Dave Moon: earliest flight i can get is 4 weeks
ashanti scott: oohh..
ashanti scott: too bad,,
Dave Moon: i still want to help...but how
ashanti scott: can u just send me something u have there? if its ok to you?
ashanti scott: ?
Dave Moon: what are you asking for
ashanti scott: to be frank...
ashanti scott: i badly need money.............
Dave Moon: how much
ashanti scott: $200 if its ok
Dave Moon: what's 200 dollars going to get you.....it's not enough for surgery
ashanti scott: .. no its not enough but i will try to look and ask help from the other,,, because.. what you have there and what have youve been given is really a big help........
Dave Moon: i'm willing to help....i'll send a check or money order to you.....where do i send it to
ashanti scott: are you really sure...?
ashanti scott: thank you so much....
ashanti scott: u can send it to me cousins name.. if its ok to you?
Dave Moon: it's ok, but why your cousin....why not you
ashanti scott: because my paper here is not acceptable ... to validate or accept it .. its better to send it to a filipina name
Dave Moon: where does your cousin live
ashanti scott: here...
ashanti scott: should i give to you her address
ashanti scott: i mean in the philippines
Dave Moon: where are you at right now again?
ashanti scott: right now..?
Dave Moon: yes
ashanti scott: im from canada....
ashanti scott: but il soon to be there...
Dave Moon: what paper isn't acceptable
ashanti scott: my papers...
ashanti scott: and my mom need the operation badly ryt now.. thats why i need to go thre asap.. but i need to find money here.....
Dave Moon: what's your cousin's name and address
ashanti scott: her name is joana marie de torres
ashanti scott: her address is banlic cabuyao laguna
ashanti scott: can i get ur info too...
Dave Moon: i'll send on one condition...you prove that you really need the money for your mom and that our relationship is real
ashanti scott: well.. do u think i need to do this just for fun?
ashanti scott: i am true to you.. u just need to trust me really..
ashanti scott: my mother need my help and your help so badly thats why im doing this... for her... and just for her....
ashanti scott has signed back in. (7/26/2008 11:19 PM)

ashanti scott: ?
Dave Moon: send a picture to me of you holding up a sign that says you love me
Dave Moon: thats all i ask
Dave Moon: my name is dave moon
ashanti scott: now?
ashanti scott: i dont have a cam here.. how can i do that?
Dave Moon: yes....the sooner you send me a pic...the sooner i'll send the money
ashanti scott: i dont have a cam here.. how can i do that?
Dave Moon: you don't have a web cam or camera
ashanti scott: i dont have.. i sell my mobile phone now and some of my stuff just to send money there.. how am i suppose to do that? im sorry..
ashanti scott: well.. im sorry.. im happy u want to help but wth out the favor u ask i think u dont want to help... i understand that....
Dave Moon: i'll send 500 dollars....for the proof
ashanti scott: are you sure?
ashanti scott: but i cant do what ur askin me to do now?
Dave Moon: yes mos def
Dave Moon: do it when you can
ashanti scott: ok.. but u know i cant now.. is it ok?
Dave Moon: read above
ashanti scott: u know i cant.. read it to..
Dave Moon: send it when you can
ashanti scott: i can send it but not now.........
ashanti scott: ok?
Dave Moon: whenever you can
ashanti scott: ur goin to wait for it than to help my mom?
Dave Moon: yes....do show the proof you and of our love
ashanti scott: well.. u really dont want to help me
ashanti scott: thats all i can say..
ashanti scott: u just help for benefits
Dave Moon: dont get me started young lady, if you need help i will give you help, if you are so fucking selfish that you canno take a picture to get 500 dollars then i dont think our relationshipe will work
Dave Moon: brb going to use the bathroom, number 2
ashanti scott: but cant u undertsand that i dont have a cam here...... or web.. how can i suppose to do that
Dave Moon: yes i fully understand that but you must understand that as a medical doctor , a cardiologist, i am not going to send money to someone that cannot prove that they are legit
ashanti scott: okie
Dave Moon: so we are in aggreeance
ashanti scott: i understand it...
Dave Moon: take your time in getting the informaition i requested, it can be anyone in the picture as long as tey are holding up somting with my name no it
ashanti scott: but agree wth it ryt now
Dave Moon: on
Dave Moon: i agree
ashanti scott: i want and badly need your help
Dave Moon: i know and i badly want to help
ashanti scott: but cant prove anything to u...
ashanti scott: and thats the worst thing on it
Dave Moon: you will be able to
Dave Moon: canada is full of ways to fufill your needs
ashanti scott: but im not that reproductive to fullfill my needs
Dave Moon: forget about the money for just a minute
Dave Moon: do you love me
ashanti scott: want the truth..?
Dave Moon: always beotch
ashanti scott: im starting to like you from the moment i talk to u
Dave Moon: ok well good, im in to you
ashanti scott: so?
Dave Moon: so call me
ashanti scott: how can i call you?
Dave Moon: telephone
ashanti scott: i use to have a mobile,, so i dont have a tel....
Dave Moon: pay phone
ashanti scott: but now.. idont have any of it?
Dave Moon: pay phone
ashanti scott: what for?
Dave Moon: skype
ashanti scott: huh?
Dave Moon: you dumbass
Dave Moon: use a payphone:_
Dave Moon:
ashanti scott: im not a dumbass!!
Dave Moon: lol
ashanti scott: ?
Dave Moon: its an american thing
ashanti scott: ok
Dave Moon: is what you say when you want to have relations with a woman
ashanti scott: ok..
ashanti scott: but u know what i need now..
ashanti scott: we can talk about it after my moms operation
Dave Moon: you are pissing me off, are you trying to scam me or something, all i need is a picture
ashanti scott: i can give you a pic..
Dave Moon: with.....
Dave Moon: a sign that says i love you dave
Dave Moon: moon
ashanti scott: thats the prob
Dave Moon: no your moms health is the problem, the pic is an easy solution
Dave Moon: ass *DELETED*
Dave Moon: as in ascutifer
Dave Moon: meaning please appease me
ashanti scott: dave moon.. iwant to do that.. but i cant
ashanti scott: thres too may problems occur
BUZZ!!!
ashanti scott: dave moon.. iwant to do that.. but i cant
ashanti scott: dave moon.. iwant to do that.. but i cant
ashanti scott: thres too may problems occur
Dave Moon: the the cost of a picture you could get 500 bones
ashanti scott: i can give you a pic but wth out "david moon i love you"
Dave Moon: ok
Dave Moon: cant you even photoshop it to look real?
ashanti scott: huh?
Dave Moon: your photo to make it say dave moon i love you
Dave Moon: photoshop i mena
ashanti scott: u want that?
Dave Moon: yea ill take what i can get
ashanti scott: i havent installe yet a photoshop...
Dave Moon: Paintbrush?
ashanti scott: okie

Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 4:39 am

Help to do what? You're doing fine, just don't lower your standards, we need a real picture here with sign. Twisted Evil

Hello I'm New here! Joined: 20 Jul 2008 Posts: 6

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Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 5:39 am

Albino,

Congratulations on your YIM chat, and picture trophy!!

Good job!

Scarlett

Hello I'm New here! Joined: 20 Jul 2008 Posts: 6

Well im gonna have to make sure to get the real deal. It did make me laugh though. Ill keep you posted

Not quite a Newb Joined: 03 Jul 2008 Posts: 78

Something you can hit her with to get a real pic. Tell her everyone knows someone with a digital camera, have a friend take the pic. Also, everyone knows someone with a camera in their cell phone. Same thing. If those two fail, ask her if she is in an internet cafe. If she is, tell her to rent a webcam, or have the pic taken there. If she is not in a cafe, tell her to go to one. If that fails, tell her to stop someplace that takes passport photos and have the pic taken there, and that they will give her a digital copy as well as an actual photograph, so she can send the digital one to you.

Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 11:53 am

Nice chat log, unfortunately, those chat logs are the only trophy you are likely to get seeing as though the lad obviously does not have access to the actual girl and his photoshop skills are seriously lacking.

Dont push too hard as you may lose your beloved but the right amount of persistence could result in him getting somebody else to do a better job of the picture for you.

Dont be too worried but, a nice long chat log is better than a photoshop anyday Wink

Hello I'm New here! Joined: 20 Jul 2008 Posts: 6

Thanks for all the suggestions, I think that there may be some hope in getting a real pic. She/he has been kinda pushy so I had to put her in her place, she seemed compliant after that, but we'll see. I don't want to go overboard and lose her/him but I feel like most everything I say goes over her head. What do you guys think, be ruthless or go slow with it? Oh and I will condense the conversations after this one, I know its a bunch of crap.

ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:08:46 AM): <ding>
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:20:32 AM): told u to wait for me
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:29:52 AM): your back..
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:29:57 AM): yeah i remember that
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:29:59 AM): so whats the good news?
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:30:01 AM): its very late here
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:30:04 AM): oh
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:30:09 AM): oohh
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:30:10 AM): i went and got the money order
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:30:19 AM):
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:30:35 AM): okie,, can i get it now,, thank you so much dave
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:30:49 AM): no worries
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:31:01 AM): thank you
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:31:32 AM): oh did you fix your pic for me
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:31:55 AM): oohh.. i forgot.. u told me its ok?
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:32:40 AM): yeah its ok just want it white background and the side not to have color on it, it looks like you pressed the fill button and it colored the side of the pic
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:33:13 AM): yes .. i done that..
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:33:33 AM): sorry
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:33:42 AM): well just give it to me tomorrow or something
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:33:55 AM): okie i will dave..
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:34:02 AM): no worries
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:34:42 AM): just mail the mail order to that address from above
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:35:10 AM): so can i get now the control number so i can say it to my cousin for my moms operation?
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:35:20 AM): whre do u send it?
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:35:31 AM): whats a control number
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:35:44 AM): i mean do u used western union or other stuff?
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:36:04 AM): i told you i did a money order
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:36:11 AM): ok...
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:36:16 AM): its like a check
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:36:17 AM): thank you
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:36:38 AM): but how long wll it takes to receive by my cousin?
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:36:48 AM): so just mail it to the above address
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:37:03 AM): i dont know
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:37:27 AM): ok..
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:37:55 AM): thank you dave,,,
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:38:07 AM): i hope my cousin receie it asap
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:38:30 AM): the address you gave me is bogus
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:38:37 AM): there are no numbers in it
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:38:59 AM): bogus?
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:39:05 AM): as in
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:39:08 AM): it wont work
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:39:16 AM): ther are no numbers
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:39:20 AM): so u werent able to send it?
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:39:42 AM): do you know what a money order is?
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:39:56 AM): i really dont know
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:39:59 AM): i need to put it in an envelope and send it
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:40:09 AM): i thot ur goin to send it by western unio
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:40:18 AM): union*
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:40:39 AM): why would you think that?
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:41:09 AM): because thats the easier nd fastest way to send money
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:41:41 AM): have you been reading our conversation? there was absolutely NO MENTION OF WESTERN UNION
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:41:48 AM): im pissed now
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:42:10 AM): im sorry.. ithot u know that...
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:42:45 AM): you werent even reading, ill talk to you some other time, its like you are reading in a different language im going to bed
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:43:01 AM): huh?
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:43:16 AM): you didnt read anything i wrote
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:43:29 AM): i thougth u know were to send it.. because u said your goin to do it
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:43:35 AM): i read it
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:43:37 AM): why would i just assume you ment western union
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:43:51 AM): i need the address to send the check
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:43:58 AM): because i thought you know that thing
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:44:16 AM): 52 banlic cabuyao laguna
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:44:26 AM): yeah i know thats what scammers use, i thought you wanted real help, i went to the store and got a money order
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:44:51 AM): i really needed it u know that
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:45:45 AM): im going to bed
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:46:02 AM): ok as u wsh..
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:46:08 AM): talk to you later
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:46:11 AM): bye
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:46:14 AM): i thought............
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:46:16 AM): ok
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:46:21 AM): il try
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:46:33 AM): try what
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:46:42 AM): to be online
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:47:36 AM): dave... for one last message pls do really help me,,
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:48:05 AM): pls try to send it to my cousins address
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:48:21 AM): using western union...
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:48:34 AM): same address... sane name..
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:48:36 AM): pls
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:48:44 AM): i already got the money by money order if you even mention western union again i will never speak to you again
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:48:56 AM): ok.. im sorry
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:49:42 AM): goodnyt dave......................
Dave Moon (7/27/2008 2:49:50 AM): nite
ashanti scott (7/27/2008 2:49:59 AM): god bless you

Posted: Mon Jul 28, 2008 3:31 pm

You may be trying for too much too soon. Also, it sounds like you're dealing with a Pinay, not a lad. (technically Lads are West African) It took me three weeks to get a photo out of my lad, and I think that's shorter than average. Once they've invested a certain amount of time into you, they're more willing to invest more. One thing you could do is ask for a picture of someone in the Philippines, like her mother that needs surgery, or one of her Filipina friends.

What may have been more effective is to say you would send it, and that you were just about to send it, and then maybe a problem came up. Maybe the Western Union people are telling you not to send it. Maybe they want to make sure you have seen a picture of the person that you know is real? Maybe you are a terrible liar, and can't lie to the Western Union people? The possibilities are endless!

Hello I'm New here! Joined: 20 Jul 2008 Posts: 6

Yes I am certainly dealing with a Pinay, Ill have to edit that out. Yeah I may have rushed things a bit being that I was so excited to get going with this one. I may still be able to drag it out for a while tho. I tried the money order thing in hopes of getting a physical address, after all they need to be able to receive the order. But she didn't even know what a money order was and she is supposed to be from Canada. I love that my sarcasm goes way over my Pinay's head.

No need for the full quote. Wink

TS

Posted: Tue Jul 29, 2008 1:50 am

The name they use for picking up the money is often a real name, cousin, friend, or even the person you are chatting with. (ony with Filipinas)

Make sure you post it publicly...as well as any cell phone number they give, address, EMAIL addresses.

Get them to email you some more pics....
check the headers anyway.

Demand to see the face on cam....record it.

Even the ones using fake pics will sometimes show a different face on cam.

They are not used to being busted/outted.

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