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Fat Old Catt
Master Baiter
Joined: 01 May 2007
Posts: 147
Location: Basking on a sunlit patio
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Mon Jun 04, 2007 4:25 am |
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I've been told that sometimes, due to something in my writing style which I apparently don't notice, people think that for some reason I am offended or I'm being brusque, when I myself am not, nor am I trying to sound brusque. Quite often when this happens, I had no idea people were taking what I was writing the wrong way, and getting their feelings hurt. I personally don't realize when I'm giving off that impression until some people say stuff like, "I didn't mean to offend you" and I have no idea that they thought I was offended.
Has anyone else been in a situation when you just didn't realize how you sounded and wound up making someone think you were mad at them when you weren't, or something like that? |
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SamV
Baiting Guru
Joined: 10 Oct 2003
Posts: 2968
Location: U. S. of frickin' A., Baby!
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Mon Jun 04, 2007 4:27 am |
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I can't believe you would write something like that. I'm giving you a warning. |
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Fat Old Catt
Master Baiter
Joined: 01 May 2007
Posts: 147
Location: Basking on a sunlit patio
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Mon Jun 04, 2007 4:43 am |
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Boy did I walk into THAT one. |
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SamV
Baiting Guru
Joined: 10 Oct 2003
Posts: 2968
Location: U. S. of frickin' A., Baby!
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Mon Jun 04, 2007 4:46 am |
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Unfortunately, I can't find the button that slaps "WARNED" on you. I could suspend you, but that might be taking the joke a bit too far. |
_________________ WHY DID YOU GIVE ME ANOTHER PERSONS TELEPHONE NUMBER TO CALL YOU. THE
MAN YOU GAVE HIS NUMBER IS A NIGERIAN WHY???
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B. A. Ware
*** BANNED ***
Joined: 14 Apr 2007
Posts: 1828
Location: I've fallen and I can't reach my beer.
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Mon Jun 04, 2007 5:15 am |
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uh, I'm not sure but I might have done it to you. |
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Ima Baeder
Baiting Guru
Joined: 03 May 2007
Posts: 18313
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Mon Jun 04, 2007 5:58 am |
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Since there is no tone of voice in type. . . . just overuse the happy emoticons like I do. |
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battery
Master of Master Baiters
Joined: 31 May 2005
Posts: 930
Location: a wonderful yet shit place to live
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Mon Jun 04, 2007 7:24 am |
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Sometimes (sighs wearily and rolls eyeballs) I find (tut's loudly) that I sometimes (mutters under breath: for fuck's sake) give people that impression too. |
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Don
Baiting Guru
Joined: 25 May 2004
Posts: 3045
Location: Italy, 87.2.222.132
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Mon Jun 04, 2007 7:38 am |
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Welcome to the club, mate. Keep up the good work and remember our secret handshake! |
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Zorro
419Eater is my life
Joined: 01 Feb 2007
Posts: 377
Location: In levitation
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Mon Jun 04, 2007 10:01 am |
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FAT OLD CAT, you ... you .... you .... &*^%$**(&&*( |
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B.L.Z. Bubb
Dudley Dooright
Joined: 23 Feb 2005
Posts: 723
Location: Dreaming of the Eater Ladies
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Mon Jun 04, 2007 10:12 am |
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You're all ba$7ards...
Sorry, what was this thread about?
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Malleus
Not quite a Newb
Joined: 17 May 2007
Posts: 76
Location: In my top secret hideout
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Mon Jun 04, 2007 10:20 am |
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As long as they know you're in charge, why even worry about the opinions of those beneath you? |
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Tommo Shanter
Baiting Guru
Joined: 13 Jan 2006
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Mon Jun 04, 2007 10:46 am |
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That's what emoticon's were invented for. |
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Corona
Baiting Guru
Joined: 21 Sep 2006
Posts: 8809
Location: On ya left!
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Mon Jun 04, 2007 10:57 am |
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I have deleted, edited, overused emoticons, mods delete, mods fix (thanks ) and you are as norm as myself.
I think I've said it before that I need all the help that I can get.
That's what I like about this facility. The Docs and nurses have always been so nice about it.
I now slap lads and have learned to be a better person with everyone else.
I have always liked me, now I love me. |
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Stoker Thompson
419Eater is my life
Joined: 11 Apr 2007
Posts: 271
Location: Out There.
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Mon Jun 04, 2007 11:13 am |
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"Fat Old Cattmy writing style which I apparently don't notice, people think that for some reason I am offended or I'm being brusque, |
Well I find that when I need to get the point across;
WRITING ALL IN CAPS IS A VERY VERY VERY GOOD WAY TO CONVOY THE PURPORT OF MISSIVES. |
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Inspector Gadget
Angel of unrealistic meetings
Joined: 20 Feb 2007
Posts: 6259
Location: Trumpton
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Mon Jun 04, 2007 12:30 pm |
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Has anyone else been in a situation when you just didn't realize how you sounded and wound up making someone think you were mad at them when you weren't, or something like that? |
Yes, twice. |
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Dionysius
Elite Baiter
Joined: 24 Mar 2004
Posts: 1639
Location: 61 Cockle St, Llareggub
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Mon Jun 04, 2007 1:18 pm |
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wokabo
Master of Master Baiters
Joined: 23 Sep 2004
Posts: 825
Location: best beer country in onomatopoeia world
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Mon Jun 04, 2007 1:46 pm |
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mrsbean
Elite Baiter
Joined: 06 Oct 2004
Posts: 1775
Location: North of the Rio Grande, South of Alaska
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Mon Jun 04, 2007 2:13 pm |
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It sometimes depends on your normal warmness/fuzziness levels and who you're dealing with, I find. For example, most of the people in my department tend to be very warm and fuzzy and friendly, even when we say "no" to people. We often apologize and take the time to explain why we can't do something, or offer an altrnative, even when saying no to incredibly stupid requests. By contrast, our network guy is a bit more to the point and less apologetic. He's in no way rude or brusque, yet, some people will interpret that as him "biting their head off". Mind, there's one lady here who seems determined to be offended by all of us regardless of what we do or say. She calls me to relay messages to the network guy...
I once wrote her a very lengthy email explaining, in detail, why I could easily fix one problem she reported myself, but not a similar one, which involved Support for the product. Why? Because, silly me, I thought she actually wanted to know, since she asked me why I could fix one, not the other. She interpreted the fact that I had answered her question in detail as me being offended, rather than me being a fast typist and very detail oriented in troubleshooting mode. I guess the question was rhetorical or something...
Try being less brief. Or sign all your emails with "Hugs 'n' kisses". |
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Radden
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Joined: 26 Mar 2005
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Mon Jun 04, 2007 2:16 pm |
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Yes, many times.. In real life and on forums. You catch someone having a bad day and you're going to pay for it . You can also say something, while looking at the person, and you can see their eye brows instantly go up like it offends them.. So that's when you quickly change the subject to porn.
The other way around too, sometimes I say something rude, and everyone thinks I'm joking (real life, and forums). |
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Harry Bawls
Elite Baiter
Joined: 19 Oct 2006
Posts: 1310
Location: Somewhere, nowhere, everywhere
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Mon Jun 04, 2007 3:00 pm |
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I can honestly say that I have NEVER offended anyone................. |
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Saint Arnold
Elite Baiter
Joined: 26 Sep 2006
Posts: 1261
Location: By the kegerator
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Mon Jun 04, 2007 4:28 pm |
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^^^^ me neither. At least not within the past few minutes.
Although I really offended someone on Friday morning. He deserved it, plus it gave him an excuse to drink more heavily on Friday night.
I do have to say that I'm pretty offended that the topic has even come up. |
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Shiver Metimbers
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Joined: 30 Sep 2003
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Mon Jun 04, 2007 4:49 pm |
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I offend a lot of people by simply breathing |
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Eight
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Joined: 11 Sep 2004
Posts: 8710
Location: UK
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Mon Jun 04, 2007 6:03 pm |
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I know the problem, FOC, and have done the same, equally unawares. My writing style can switch into formal/business mode sometimes, and that can agitate people or give the wrong impression. I think that there's a cultural thing at play here as well. Whilst I don't want to generalise too much, us Brits tend to be a little more reserved than our American cousins. There's a risk that Brits may sound somewhat flat next to more fulsome expressions of praise or congratulations from the US people, when we are as impressed as them, but post about it differently. |
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Reprob8
DIGITALIS MAXIMUS
Joined: 20 Sep 2004
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Location: At the Pharmacy
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Mon Jun 04, 2007 6:04 pm |
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Nope, I've always offended people on purpose. |
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Radden
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Joined: 26 Mar 2005
Posts: 1267
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Mon Jun 04, 2007 6:36 pm |
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@Eight - such as the british calling me a wanker? Doesn't that mean that I am doing an awesome job at wanking (does that mean writing?)
Yes, I actually know what the term wanker means.. damn it! |
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