I'm so sad

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Posted: Tue May 08, 2007 2:26 am

Really, I am so very sad.
My Lad turned into my lover after only three emails. We were starting to get pretty hot and heavy. I even made plans with Eliza D. to do her sexy phone thing with him so we could both try to get a few good trophy pics but I never got the chance to give him her number.
He didn't write today. I may have lost him. Crying or Very sad

I am going to try to bait him from another addy and move on but this one was my first, he lasted a whole month and did not ever get around to asking me for money. Question

That's gotta be some kinda special, doesn't it ?
I was trying to get him to confess to who and what he was. I thought I was being subtle but I guess I stepped a little too hard.
This laddy boy even managed to find a way to email me on weekends. I was also starting to get two or three emails per day (& one on Sat & even Sun) I truly believed that this one had great safari potential amongst other things and now it may all be gone. Crying or Very sad

I really need some group love and support over this one please.
It almost feels like I've lost my favorite snot rag or maybe even dropped my icecream cone onto a plate that had no sprinkles . I know it has only been a day but I was getting so used to seeing at least two emails by this time on a Monday.
I guess this is another reinforcement to the fact that you just can't trust a lad. Crying or Very sad

Posted: Tue May 08, 2007 2:38 am

how do you know you have lost the bait ? Cool

lads are somewhat funny. One they are her the next they are gone only to come back. so dont worry send him an E-card. Laughing

Posted: Tue May 08, 2007 2:42 am

Never underestimate the power of an e-card!! Lads love them

Edit: the ones that open them

Posted: Tue May 08, 2007 2:44 am

Don't worry, he'll be back.

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Don't feel badly about it. Today, this dork (or at least I thought he was just a dork) that had been annoyingly IM'ing me for over a year with general run of the mill BS just out of the blue started asking for money for his new "investment opportunity". Rolling Eyes

I was a little thrown off by it, and since I was on a personal account I just blew him off.

Now that is what I call patience! Razz

Either that or he has absolutely no idea what the hell he's doing. All you can do is try to approach them from another angle and see if they bite.

Posted: Tue May 08, 2007 3:28 am

I didn't even think of an e-card. I will go and try to find asuitable one just for him.
He needs to understand, if he doesn't give me the attention I want I can go crazy maybe even kill myself Rolling Eyes

I never planned on doing a lover thing so I'm not sure how to handle it.
I think psycho, mannic depressive b!tch is a good mix but I want to ease into it. Maybe I'll add a split personality too. I can't wait till I mix my booze and pills and have all my personalities gang up on him.
I hope I didn't lose him Twisted Evil

because I haven't gotten to any of the fun stuff yet. So far it's all been ego building puke

I need to keep him long enough to tare it down.

Posted: Tue May 08, 2007 3:47 am

I'm sure your lad isn't gone...probably trying to scrape his pennies together for more ccafe time to talk to you.

An ecard is a good idea or an email saying I miss you, where are you, why are you ignoring me, don't you love me anymore, are you ok, OMG at least let me know you are ok, i'm going out of my mind worrying about what's happened to you, etc. My lover ignored me on May Day and I wrote him that type of email and he spent 2 or three emails making me feel all warm & cozy. Then we promptly got back to doing it & me ignoring any rare mention of the deal Laughing

Now he's writing my character's friend who's also in love w/ him that he can't betray me w/ me but the slow pace of things is making him crazy...but he told the first me it was me that was making him crazy w/ desire...what a liar, I thought he really loved me Evil or Very Mad

Now he's mad about the accountant saying I need an audit, so I've written a nice slap to him which I'll give him on Wed night and then I'm off to Barbados for a long weekend Twisted Evil

He has the 2nd me to keep him company though.

Posted: Tue May 08, 2007 4:36 am

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I think psycho, mannic depressive b!tch

There's plenty of expertise around here for that Confused

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