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Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21158

I thought this one had slipped away from me. I finally get a reply a week after writing to him.

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Hello Derrick, thanks for taking out the time to write me and yes your message did come through(smiles)..now tell me more about yourself and guess that will be a good start in pursuit to know each other a lot better. keep well and i look forward in reading again from you.
warm regards,

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Thanks for your email Derrick and also for telling me about yourself,can see you are a very detailed person and that is one uncompromising feature i look out for in my ideal man,i have never seen distance as a barrier in a decent relationship and i don't think it would bother me ,so before we go further, i would want to know if it won't bother you, will it? ok, here goes little about myself,I used to work as a Nurse at a HOSPITAL here in Capetown,i worked in the ICU (INTENSIVE CARE UNIT) I've been divorced a couple of years now, i have a daughter, in the past I've tried dating but never found a real and honest man till now,hence i was forced into joining the dating site to possibly try my luck.I love reading, cooking, movies and mostly i love walking by the beach side holding hands(smiles). my past marriage was a very terrible and abusive one, i was forced at a tender age by my late father to marry the son of his very close and trusted friend,due to my naivety and also for the fact that i grew up with a dad that makes a bossy decision ,so i blindly fell for it and i was really hurt and burnt,it was really traumatic and i had to file for a divorce upon my fathers death. They say what does not kill you makes you definitely stronger, so i would say my failed and traumatic marriage was a big lesson and i am still on the rebound and very careful to open up my heart to love and men,but i do hope i'm guided aright by my heart and not my head this time. after my divorce i had to go through so much all alone with my daughter and it lead me into so many unwanted situations I had to take a huge loan to personally take care of my daugther through her studies and i was so glad i did that,even though life hasn't been that rosy till now, but i can boldly say it was worth it, as my daughter is forever and eternally grateful to me for all am doing for her,she is my world anyway,she is my first love and best friend.guess i have told you a whole lot about myself and my interesting life,now i would really love to know you better and see how things unfolds. do you have more pictures of yourself?,i suppose we have a huge time difference but really not sure how many hours it is, so will sign off by saying keep well and look forward to reading again from you.
Warmest Regards,

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21158

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Hey dear, was really lovely reading from you,was a little confuse where you said to have met useless people on the site, mind if i ask what you mean by that?, thanks for the compliments...they were so heart warming and reading from you always gives me a sense of excitement which to me means a good connection...hope to read again from you.
warm regards,

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Hello Derrick, trust you're doing great..haven't been on a good health for sometime now hence my reason for not being able to respond to your message , but i feel much better now and only got back to my normal daily routine today so i felt is very important that i write you first...otherwise how have you been?
Hugs,

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21158

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Hello dear...am doing very great..much better now and lots of thanks for your concern, you have no idea how much it means to know that someone cares...you really did put a smile on a my face with your mail...I just had a break down that resulted from stress, but am much better now...so tell me more about you..where are you really based? Tell me more about your kids..do they still live with you? Just gets more interesting in knowing you and it gives me such a warmth feeling...hope you feel same way too....enjoy your week end dear and hope to read again from you..
Hugs,

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21158

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Hello Derrick, i must confess that as we get along everyday the thoughts of you gradually sinks into my heart and i get more attached...i really hope i know what am doing this time(smiles)..sure will tell you more about me but then again i need to ask if the distance doesn't mean anything to you? for it doesn't like i said in my previous emails to you...i believe what really matters most is the desire and passion for two people to be together and once there is love i always know everything else becomes possible....am sure your daughter will be spoiled by you being the only one(smiles)...would you mind if i ask for more pictures of you? i hope not..just excites me to see more, that's all (hahaha)..i really have a great feelings that you're a good man....trust your week end went well...mine was just same like usual, home with my daughter watching rented dvd's......got to sign off now....
HuGS,

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21158

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Hello dear, how are you today?i really missed reading from you.....would you want us to chat over the phone? thanks for the photo.....you really look nice on it...