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yes i got your mail Derrick

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Hello Derrick,
pleased to meet you and i understand the pictures you sent, they are cool.
my name is Tobi and i am very new to internet dating and i can say you are the first person i will be giving a shot and i hope if we like one another we can both take down our profiles from the site and work on a future together.
Well i am currently in Africa region doing my Masters Project training on zoology.i am specializing in different kinds of animals... i study in sanctuary and i am here for my Project training,i want to become a zoologist and explore the different kinds of animals in the world, i figured after that i could go back to United States and work in a national park, i will become a fully deployed zoologist as soon as i finished my final exam (masters)...i am here in Africa to study more about animals from the level of the cell, through tissues and whole animals, to the level of communities or ecosystems. below are just a few of these areas that are taught at Rhodes..I'll like to know more about you.. and see where we can go from here .... Look forward to have a nice chat with you..have a nice day..see ya

(After reading the above, I could not help but think of TMs soundboard thing about one minute)

Good morning Tobi! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. Thank you for your mail and for letting me be the man that you allowed the chance to capture your attention. I must say that you are very impressive and have chosen a great career. Man has spent too many years destroy the environment and it's wildllife and it is great to have people doing their best to fix it again. Humans are a rather strange lot to want to hunt beautiful animals just for trophies. It is one thing to hunt for food but man does not seem to view it that way.

I would really appreciate it if you would send pictures when you write back. It would be nice to know who I am communicating with by face.

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thanks Derrick,
yes you are right but i love to make things change, to make corrections and to improve life... i hope you are fine and cool... i am just doing what i know how to do well... make life better

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Hello again Tobi! It is nice knowing someone that really cares and chooses to impact the planet. I think a lot of people would say that we impact the planet but they say it's in a bad way. Funny thing is that if we stopped what we do, they would throw a fit because they would not be able to drive their vehicles and might have to resort back to horse and buggy days. They would complain then too.

I hope you are having a great night. Sweet dreams!

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Yes, thanks..

I do not understand this wasted mail. That is all you can say? I don't think you are serious.

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Must I force myself to say nonsense? Must I talk when I don't know what to say? If you think I am not serious, I'll say thanks...

Good morning Tobi. I hope you are well and enjoying the day. I don't know what to make of you. It is impossible to learn anything about you if you tell me nothing. You just don't seem to be looking for a husband with this.

Have a nice day

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Well, I am looking for love but you haven't been asking me questions or even talking much.
I need a man to love me, care for me, always willing to know my needs and how to take care of them, I want a man that loves like a man, know is willing to show his love beyond just talking and talking, I like physical things that makes me feel hopeful that my heart has been owned by someone, someone who can sense when I am not happy.
My fear is to spend everyday talking to a man and falling in love bit by bit and someday when I need him he disappears, if I am going to love a man and trust him to help me manage all the fortunes that my grandparents left behind for me, I must be convinced that he is worthy and can do just the same for me.

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I really cannot say that I understand your thinking. It seemed you were interested at first then changed your mind and saying as little as possible. Is it really that bad to get to know someone and seeing if they might be that person. I do not care anything about your money, I have my own. I want a wife but not a silent one. I cannot know you if you treat me that way.

We are in the very early stages of our relationship, or whatever this may be called, and there is so much more for us to know of the other. Being silent now makes no sense dear.

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Hello my love,
i don't know what else to say, i told you i am new to this and you are a man, a man talks more, i don't like long mails cos i think when a mail is too long it looses it's message, and you have not said anything about you in your last 3 messages either, but just complaining about me, i think if you truly want me and want to meet me in person someday, then you have to understand that i am a little shy and don't like to be too forward as i am still new to this internet dating, meeting one on one would have been more convenient for me but as it is now, let's stop the arguments and just get it straight, what would you like to learn more about me? i will like to know more about your likes and dislikes.
as for me i like sincerity, humility, open hearts, trust in a relationship, ability to take risks for one another, fight for one another, not telling people about my relationship and making spouse/boyfriend the only adviser in my relationship as he is the one i love and he can't mislead me against himself, i love a visible relationship like exchange of gifts as to make it feel real.
i dislike lies, empty promises, games, quitters, a man that tells his friend the list thing about his relationship as he is not man enough, arrogance, selfishness, and lack of trust.
tell me more about you and sorry about my silence.. i humbly apologies and also sorry for the very long email

Good morning my lady! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. I am very happy to read your mail this morning and to see that you have opened up a bit about yourself. Thank you for that.

I do dislike liars, users, cheaters and lazy people. These are all absolutes to me. As for what I might like in a person it really takes knowing them before you see the good or bad qualities in them. After seeing these things in a person, one can then decide whether they are able to tolerate all of those qualities.

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hello dear,
How are you today and it feels so good to read from you too, but i hope you understand that i am not into long distance relationship, i don't believe talking from distance will bring us any close but taking a bold step of planning to with and giving it all the mutual trust required... i would really like to meet a serious minded lover like you someday soon.
your baby

Hello again Tobi! I must say that I had no idea you were this beautiful. I do not think I understand why you began talking with me, knowing our distance, if you do not believe in this. You are in school and cannot go anywhere just yet. I could fly to see you but it will take some arranging and I would need your help setting up arrangement for my accommodations there. I am just guessing that it may be frowned upon for you and I to stay together over the nights.

Please tell me your thoughts on this.

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Hello love,
good to wake up this morning and to read from you again, makes me feel i have found true love and care from someone who can't wait to read and reply my mail as well, shows he truly wants me and needs me and thanks for your compliment on the picture.
yes, i would have loved to have you around and particularly now that i will be having holiday starting from next week but i can't keep you around as the school doesn't permit that and how can I help you with setting up arrangement for accommodation here? how long do you intend to stay, how much is your budget too so I can see if i can help you get a good one close to where i can always reach you. Let me know when you plan to come so that i won't have to travel, How i wish the fare is not much to come to u.

Good morning my dear! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. You are very correct that I enjoy reading your mails and writing to you. It is the only form of communication we have available to us at this time so we must take advantage of it. It is better than being alone with nobody to love or care us.

It would take me some time to make all of the arrangements to make a visit to you and I would need your advice as to the amount of money I should have available for a month or so there. I have no idea what things cost there. I do need to hire someone to do my job while I am away though.

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wow! i hope you won't loose your job if you leave, i don't want that to happen as i don't want to be a bad luck to u... i really can't say how much you will be needing yet but i can look in to it for you but i think where you need to stay now is what really matters and it would have been better during my 3 weeks holiday... i so wished i have saved enough, it would have been cheaper and easier for us both, do you live alone now?

My dear, I would not lose my job. I own my business. If you would prefer to come here then we need to decide whether you would feel safe staying in my home with me. I do live all alone. At this particular time I rarely ever go home. My job requires me to be here at all times and I do have another home that I lease for my work. I can move it from one job to another as needed.

I guess if you wanted to come here I can still take the time off and show you around here.

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oh sorry love,
Fine, i would have loved to come since it's safe and cheaper considering your Job but still i can't afford it so i will suggest you come and let me know your plans but i can help u get accommodation here if you choose to come depending on your taste or type of preferred accommodation. I am a very noble and loyal woman, i like the man to make most of the decisions and i suggest ideas if you know what i mean.

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In that case, I guess I need to find a person to take over my work while I am away. No sense setting any plans into place until that part is done. Could you possibly find out what a nice hotel room might cost for a month? Or maybe you know of something that would be nicer. If it is to be a hotel please assure they have nice rooms and a jacuzzi.

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Hello dear,
OK, there is a place around that is very cool, you could rent for a month and it's not expensive, $1500 for a month if i go talk to them myself and you could do it yourself for $2000 if you want and it's cool but i could help you get an Hotel details if you want.
how are you today love and how is work? i hope business is going on smooth and you have not been over-stressing yourself.

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Good morning beautiful! I hope you are well and enjoying the weekend. I am doing great and not working real hard at this minute. I did have my maid come out Friday with a new mop and entry rug.

The mud out here has been quite messy lately and my mop was not doing a real good job of cleaning it up any more. It was streaking instead of cleaning. I always try to keep a clean house so that she only takes an hour or so to clean everything when she comes out.

I would have to defer to your judgement on the house you know about. For 1500 a month it better be very nice. I don't mind the cost as long as it is not some overpriced junk. Is it furnished dear?

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Hey baby,
it's good to read from you again. Well, the house is not bad but there are other ones but just more expensive and offers more facilities, i don't know what your budget is but anyone you choose, i can help you go make the plans and arrangement and make sure all is in shape before your arrival and i will just give you the keys as soon as you arrive... one is 2,500 and the other is $4000 but they are so lovely and all furnished.

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Good morning beautiful! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. Honey, I will be gone most of the day. I have 2 doctor appointments. One in the morning and one in the afternoon. I get to walk around being radioactive again. Oh what fun.

I have to get things arranged here before I bother with that but at least I know what is available.

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Hello dear,
it's good to read from you again and i understand you quite well but i have to let you know that i am on my break now and that is why i am discussing this with you cos i know if you come after my holiday is over, you may have just little time to see me and may not be very cool for you.

Good morning my angel! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. It was late last night when I finally got back. They started me on a thyroid medication yesterday. This really sucks. I can only take it in the morning, with water and can have nothing for 90 minutes before or after this pill. I will have to go back in 6 weeks for another blood test. I missed you so much yesterday baby! I wish you had been with me, I could have really used a shoulder to lean on.

I understand that you are on your break baby but there is no way I could get everything arranged on this short notice. I have to hire someone to work, get my visa and passport and arrange travel. We really need to plan this for a different time.

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Ok, no problem... I would hve just come myself since I only just need a return ticket, I missed you so much too that I almost tot you left, maybe I should just pick my things tomorrow and go visit Nigeria and Benin too as others.
I hope you're feeling better now baby, please don't overstress yourself for my sake, it's ok now if we can't see now, I just wanted to make the feelings more real if we could see, talk, hold hands and spend some quality time together next to each other. Take some pictures together and more... But I understand... I love you dear

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Hello my love! I would really love for us to come together and share very special memories but I am afraid it must wait for a different break in your schedule. I can assure you that what I feel for you is very real and if the occasion presents itself for me I will share them freely.

If you should choose to visit another part of the country, at least I do not feel as though you are just sitting and waiting for my arrival rather than enjoying your break. i am always going to be here for you when you are able to write again.

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Ok baby, I understand you very well, afterall nothing can work between 2 lovers if they don't learn to be Understanding, tolerant, loyal, dedicated, committed, desiring, wanting loving.
For you baby, I am this humble lover cos I can see humility and love in you as well.
Baby, maybe I will have to travel to other parts too if you permit me, we'll be visiting, Sudan, Nigeria and Benin or just 2 of the 3.
But I'll always be here to communicated with you... I just hope you don't stay too far away from responding as I don't enjoy keeping friends and now you're the only one I can talk to.
Your baby,

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Good morning my love! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. I do see all of these wonderful qualities in you. We have not known one another for a long time but we have learned much about each other in this time.

Please, do not feel as though you should ask my permission to travel about. It is your vacation and you should enjoy it in any way you choose. I would never want to stop you from enjoying your time off. I hope you will share some photos with me as you travel.

I will always be right here to communicate with you babe. I am not able to sit at the computer all day but I check my mails a couple of times a day as I sit to do my reports.

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Good morning baby,
How was your night? Did u dream bout us being together? I hope you wake up healthy today, please don't overstress yourself for me at work today, I am glad I tried internet dating and found such a man like you to call mine.

Good morning my love! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. If I were to tell you of my dreams baby, you might think me a naughty man. They are very nice ones though. I would never have thought I could find a girl like you on the computer. I am glad that we were both there at the same time.

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Baby, it's so good to read from you... I just arrived Nigeria, it's so under developed with the look of things but I can see too many black and beautiful people all around, nice and friendly, I love you baby... Hope to read from u again.

Good morning my baby! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. I can't say I know much about Nigeria but it is nice that you seem to be enjoying yourself and the people. Maybe you will share pictures with me of your travels one day. Have fun and enjoy your vacation.

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If you still there love, please hold on while I compose a message to send to u ok, so u can read it now.

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Hello Baby,
i am so worried about two things right now and they make me feel so sad, one is that you hard communicate with me which makes me feel like this isn't getting any serious and that maybe you only think of me once in a while and the other is that i can't access my account from here and now i am kinda stranded with the look of things... i can't buy stuff or have fun with others. i miss you so much and i feel if you feel the same way love, you should be staying this long to write me.
i love you loads baby, can't wait to feel your touch.

Honey, I am confused by your mail. I am not in front of my computer all the time. If you feel that is a problem then I will thank you for your time and stop writing. I am at work not on a vacation. I am not sure how that appears to you to be not serious. Sorry if you feel that way. I hope you find what you are looking for. Best of luck to you and I hope you enjoy your vacation!

Derrick

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you know how to dump and hurt a lady... enjoy

Good morning Toby! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. I did not want to dump you dear but you seem to think I am somehow not serious because I don't sit at the computer all day waiting for you to mail. I am not enjoying anything now and I do miss talking with you but if you are thinking I am not serious then there really was no point in continuing. Maybe you chose the wrong words to me but I am not here to play. I hope you had a great vacation.

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yes, but a delay as well, I will be here a little longer, how have you been? how's work and everyone over there, I am here loving this course... Enjoy the rest of your day dear

Hello again dear! I was not sure if I would read back from you. I guess you could say I have been fine but very lonely and not real happy since we stopped talking.

Work has been going pretty well. No bad things that were not expected yet. We did have a hail storm Friday that beat my pickup up pretty good and got one of my fleet cars as well. It broke the windshield and dented it also. He was driving down the highway when the storm hit so I am lucky he did not get hurt.

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Sorry about the damages the storm caused, I have been lonely really but I just kept wondering why... aside the storm and the damages, what other things happened but positively? how much did u miss me?

Honey, you do not need to be sorry for what nature does on her own. The positive in that is that my roustabout pusher was not injured. My truck was just sitting here but he was driving. A lot of things have not gone well lately but that is just the way things happen in life. My brothers wife has been down with heart trouble and their oldest son ended up in the ER a few days ago from a skateboarding accident that busted his chin wide open.

You were not the only one left trying to figure out what was wrong that we parted the way we did. It was eating away at me this whole time. I know my feelings for you but you telling me that was something I could not understand at all.

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hello, sorry about the accident, I hope he is beeter now, I am so tired of being this lonely... I am not even happy that the lawyer still has what belongs to me cos I am not married yet, what's happening in your life? are u planning to get married or still not ready yet, missed talking to u

Good afternoon! I am a bit confused by your mail. I am looking for a wife to settle down with and make a family. I don't know why this is even a question. I have missed you very much and it is nice that we are talking again. Why would you ask me if I am still not ready? Have you bee talking with someone else? You certainly did not read that from me.

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well, I haven't been talking to someone else, I just said that cos I am tired of being so lonely and having to someone to touch, hold hands with when the feelings arise.
I hope all is fine.

Good morning my lady! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. That makes sense to me now. We are both lonely and tired of it and to ell you the truth, it would be great to have someone to hold and touch.

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hello dear,
I am glad you are feeling the same thing as well, hope all is fine... I want more than a hand to hold, I want love, care and more... I want to wake up next to a lover that is crazy about me.

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I would truly enjoy waking up with you in my arms and I know with some effort we can possibly achieve this. I don't think it is wise to rush anything though. We need to take our time and assure we are ready to be together forever. I am not here looking for a lover only. I want it all. Sorry if I sound bad here but if I want someone to just have sex with, there is no real relationship and it would not last. I hope you can understand my thoughts here baby.

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so, u just want us to be sex mates? to live apart or together?

Baby, I think you misunderstand me here. I want to be married to the woman I make love to. I do not want any sex mates.

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Oh, I am happy now, I was so scared..lol, so how are you today? it's good to red from you again.

Good morning dear! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. I did not mean to scare you my lady. Although I will be happy to be your lover, that will only happen if we should decide to marry. I want to come home to the woman I love every single night and have someone to share everything with.

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I can't wait to be married, I am so pissed about being single, no need to be sorry you scared me, at least I am rest assured now that you weren't scaring me dear.

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Good morning my lady! I hope you are well and enjoying the weekend. I am very surprised that you are still single really. We had a rather shaky start but you are a very vibrant, intelligent and lovely girl and I would think all the boys would want to chase you. Their loss is my gain I guess! I should thank them for being too senseless to see what I do with you.

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thank you so much, I believe I am lucky to have you as well cos not many men think and talk like u do, they are all so interested in just sex and I can sense it all over them, Marriage is what want, in love, trust, care, support and unity.

Good morning my dear! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. I see you also have great common sense to know that most guys are just after sex. That is something that I am unable to understand with many of these younger girls now. They involve themselves with users and abusers, then bring babies into this world. I hate seeing that. The fake man sitting at home smoking his drug or drinking or playing games on the TV while the woman goes out to earn the money. Lazy and useless bastards if you want my opinion and I am being nice with my word.

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happy easter my love,
Love making is cool and sweet, sex is for fake people, when 2 lovers make sweet love without anything fake on their minds, it's better than many hours of sex without love. I want to be with you soon... m fed up of my lonely nights full of imaginations of u coming home to me.
With Love

I don't know this from actual experience but if a lot of these women are to be believed sex is typically timed in minutes, usually in a single digit number. Making love lasts for hours.

I do enjoy the thoughts and dreams of being together with you but I would really prefer the reality. The days would be much better with a lovely wife in my life. Maybe even a family after we firmly establish our marriage.

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well,I have never had sex before, I wish could get on a plane tomorrow, even at this time of the night, it's almost another morning and I am just here feeling lonely and think about u... sometimes I ask myself this " is this really love or just internet feelings"

Baby girl, if there is any doubt in your mind about what we have here, you really need to take a step back and contemplate the answer to your question. It seems you are not real sure and that is fine. I really want you to be 1,000% sure before we even think of going further.

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you so much enjoy criticising me, who says doubt you... this is the second time I get this kind of treatment for u

Baby, I am not criticizing you at all! I am sorry if you misunderstood me but I was not trying to be mean. I just told you to make very sure this is what you would want. Please don't be upset with me for stating my mind honey.

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get this baby, I love you, I want you...I have made up my mind, in fact I an sad that we are still far apart.

My darling! This is what I was hoping to hear in the last mail, not that you were upset with me. Maybe I did a poor job of communicating my thoughts to you and for that I apologize. Th only reason I asked you that question was because of yur last sentence in the previous mail

" is this really love or just internet feelings"

This is why I asked you what I did. I did not think I was being mean or critical at all.

I do love you, I always have even before we lost communication. I do want to be with you, not just for a shot time, I want you forever in my life. The distance is all we need to work on here and we are quite capable of that.

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it's ok baby, my apologies as well, yes we can work on the distance, how and why not now... I love you more..

We can work on this any time you are ready baby. I think the only relevant information needed would be Will Rogers airport. We just need to know what is needed for this. I need you to understand that I intend to marry you once I get you here.

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Hey, it's good to know that, but what is the plan? Now that know where, the question now is how?

Good morning dear! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. Honey, we need to figure out what is needed to get you here and what it will cost. We have to know these things before we can form any real plan.

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well, l looked up the flight ticket and it's $1600 and I think that's just it... I don't want how that is going to work

Good evening my baby! I appreciate you looking up the price for us and it seems reasonable enough. Could you please tell me what the rest of your mail means? I don't really understand what you were trying to convey to me.

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Good morning love,
I meant that at the moment, I can't afford such amount of money

Good morning my love! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. Thank you for clearing that up for me darling and it is not a problem. If you will get me the bank account information for the ticket place, I can get that transferred to them.

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wow, cool but I'll go ask for it, their account number I mean... that will be cool...

Thank you baby! I will hope to see that once you have secured it. I have a doctors appointment this afternoon. They are going to stick a little camera thing up my nose and down into my throat to look at my vocal cords again. I hate this stuff. I have to have it done about every 2-3 months for now. Mom will be taking me because they do not want me driving after these appointments. I'll have to go in about 2 weeks for blood work again also. I'll miss you while I am away.

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do you want me around, by your side looking after you so that you won't feel so lonely and bored, please I will love that but we can let it happen later if you want... I'vemade the enquiry and they said they will only either accept cash from me or Western Union money transfer, or Money gram...please, either way, I want you to be careful and stay safe for me. thanks

Darling, I do want you by my side but not just because I am lonely or bored. Those are not reasons for being together at all. I want someone to share everything in life with, no matter what it is. Someone I love and care for.

If they say they only accept payment through those filthy fraud places, they are not real darling. Real businesses use bank transfers. Any place that says cash only is only looking to steal your money.

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ok, I hear you... ok, can't I go pay them myself and get a reciept? they have an office that I see everyday... they said it's because of the bank standard and difference, they said can pay locally.

Good evening my love. I am fine transferring it to your bank account if that is what you want to do. I don't care whether the account is yours or theirs, I just want this done but only in the most secure way. We will not be using those trash places. We are law abiding people honey.