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Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 3:29 am

Jammy wrote:

My fear is that it's a rare lad that will jump right to that stage from "Get a job, scammer!"

Don't be scared of lads. This entire forum is filled with 'I never thought it would work'.

After awhile you'll start to see all these windows of opportunity. Very Happy

Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 3:44 am

^^Good advice. I wasn't planning to fear them, but I certainly may have been over- (or is it under-) estimating them! Razz

At any rate, I'm approaching this experimentally, like I said, and I'll be sure to share the results!

Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 4:34 am

LOL you guys are hilarious. And a lot of you have WAY more experience than I do at this. I will post his email address tomorrow when I get home from work, and you can use the initial email he sent me in your "reply."

I'm curious (and anxious) to see what you can get out of him...the trophies, gold mines, etc. Smile

Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 5:32 am

I wouldn't openly post his address. Lad email killers may see it and have it killed. PM it to those interested in baiting him. Wink

Posted: Mon Jan 18, 2010 1:42 pm

Here is his email addy disguised. Just take away the spaces. I'm curious to see what happens here, and how many people he promises he'll never scam again. You can copy his original email from the very first post in this thread.

al ha js hu boy e @gmail.com

Thank you all for making feel stupid. Smile

lol Seriously, I'm glad I was talked out of it. Very good points were made!

Posted: Mon Jan 18, 2010 2:32 pm

^^^You are gonna be all right, girlfriend! Wink

Juan's stalker Joined: 28 Aug 2008 Posts: 1423

Hiya cece

It is in our human nature to want to see the good in others, especially if you are a good person yourself.
It is hard to believe that someone could do some things when we never think of doing them ourselves as good people.

BUT like the others said these are lads, and they know how to manipulate and make people feel sorry for them. That's how they get the money.

I will never ever believe that a lad is being sincere when he says he wants to live right and quit scamming.
Unfortunately that is how a lot of them get their money instead of working regular hard jobs.
Lads are opportunists and if they can get something easily without having to work really hard for it then that is what they will do.

Typing in a cafe is alot easier than working in the fields helping harvest crops and making less money than they could make at the cafe.

He is flat out lying to you. Sad

Please don't feel bad that you have good intentions and believe the good in others.

If I were you and this lad had gotten under my skin and I was feeling sorry for him, then I would pass him off to the other baiters and drop him myself.

Weasel and some of the others would love to take the time to give this lad some attention.
If I were you I would sit back and watch the show and stay away from this lad myself. He is getting to you.
Find a new lad to play with and anytime they start getting to you like that and under your skin post them up for adoption to one or more of the very talented baiters here.

I would remove his email addy from your post though because what has been mentioned above is the truth.
There are people who visit this forum for the very specific reason of finding shared lad emails and getting them closed so that peoples baits are ruined and lads are protected.

Like the very talented Weasel has suggested maybe sending the email addy to interested baiters in PM's might be better than posting it up in this thread.
If his email account gets closed them he will just make another one and then everyone here will lose him.
He will be allowed to run around finding new victims without having a pack of baiters on his tail keeping him busy and away from other victims.

I'm so glad you asked for help when you started feeling confused.
You did the right and best thing for you.
Don't feel embarrassed, that's what everyone is here for. To help each other. We are a team. Very Happy

Posted: Mon Jan 18, 2010 7:22 pm

Like I told you in PM, cece!

Quote:

You are a great baiter with a big heart. Cool

Posted: Mon Jan 18, 2010 8:14 pm

Hi Cece- Is your lad working for the FBI in wiretaps or is he still one of the directors of the Nigerian Central Bank?

I have similar story as NN. A Turkish scammer spammed everyone of my bait boxes with his 'hooked to the left' wedding tackle. I sent off every image I had and was baiting him from 3 different accounts. He must have sent over a hundred photos to me. After a few months he tells me he is in North Carolina and his IP proves it. I didn't claim a pith helmet as I had not caused him to travel. I don't check the love forums often so I initially missed the thread where the general consensus was that he was a loser not a scammer. He tells me how he did not know that the lady that he would be staying at was black and how he had to move to another man's place but that he was gay. Even though he was racist and homophobic, I felt badly that I was baiting a loser not a scammer. I actually stayed up until 3 one morning looking for jobs he could do. He was constantly begging for a few dollars for bus fare so that he could look for a job and get to it. He then tells me his social security card was fake so I suggested that he work as a summer hire in a national park. The concessionaire hires people from all over the world and works with them on their paperwork so that they can work for 90 days. He gets a job at a restaurant outside of Yosemite. More begging. He goes there and does not last a day, gets thrown out for fighting. IP shows he is in central California. More begging but after a month of this he sends me a gold mine scam. He wants 10K dollars to buy a gold detector so he can go back to Turkey and get millions of dollars in gold that his uncle left a map for. Eventually he goes up to Vancouver, Canada to work on a fishing boat and I try to get him to visit me in Seattle. So the point is scammers are scum and trying to find a job for them may be an excellent modality. I would not call them a scammer as it might have the same effects as burning but will try offering a scammer a few real jobs before I turn them over to my friend that works as a Western Union computer programmer.

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