I just had to share this - I spent my lads money

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Posted: Wed Mar 11, 2009 6:13 pm

I've been baiting this guy for at least 5 months now...

As per my modality I'm always broke & eating beans, he's been very patient for money...although there has always been something (lost passport, stolen money, etc.).

He HONESTLY HAS been looking for jobs so he can apply for a H2 Visa and I *think* has real ambitions to be my husband. He seriously complained since he put a resume up on Monster.com and it filled his Inbox with scam letters Smile

He told me he got a job as a used car salesman's helper - and they helped provide an apartment. He needed money (he had been asking for money for a long time) for cooking utensils so he could make dinner at home rather than eating out. I had slapped him hard for disclosing he spent $11 a meal eating out.

So I started the long and arduous journey of sending him money.
Started out with $50 to help him with the cooking utensils.

He didn't like M7CN but he did it several times, with him discovering that it expired after 48 hours (he found that on his own), server troubles at WU's end, all sorts of little things...he did get to where it was supposed to send him e-mail twice, but WU had a glitch.

Then he had an APPENDIX (caps per the lad) and needed surgery (not immediately). After surgery, I had another $50 that I could add to the first $50 I was trying to send him...
Again M7CNed...and he tried hard...too bad "frustrate the lad" was turned on.

Then I had a nice paycheck so "just because" I added another $50 to the process...aren't I the nice one Twisted Evil

Well IRL I had 2 car wrecks in 2 weeks - one the other guys fault, one my fault...

So I explained about insurance companies and lawyers, and explained my deductible (500) for the second wreck will be due before I get a check on the first wreck so I had to use HIS money to make ends meet - or at least he seems to think it's HIS (totally possessive of that money).

So now he's going to have to wait until the insurance settles in a couple months before I'm in the position to try WU again.

Posted: Wed Mar 11, 2009 6:17 pm

hahahah! and he buys it, beautiful.

Posted: Wed Mar 11, 2009 7:26 pm

Just to say .... I think that is all brilliant.

Sorry, though, to hear about the RL car wrecks - hope you weren't in the car at the time.

Elite Baiter Joined: 15 Sep 2008 Posts: 1006

I suppose the fact that he will so patiently wait for and perform for small amounts of money means he doesn't have any real victims sending him payments...how sad. Twisted Evil

Posted: Thu Mar 12, 2009 10:46 pm

Ivana, perhaps the guy who's at fault for one of the car wrecks has offered you some money not to file with his insurance company. Ask your love lad whether you should accept it (he is wiser and smarter since he is a man, right?). An added twist is being offered double the amount if you have sex with the accident guy. I'll be interesting to see if your lad is more interested in the money or your honor.

I hope you were not injured in either accident. It's still a pain even if you made it through without any bruises or scratches.

Posted: Fri Mar 13, 2009 6:03 am

lol at settling personally...that would have been an idea Wink

I've already gotten 2 insurance companies and a lawyer involved.
And it's all confusing, and my title isn't registered properly so it's going to take longer, and the lawyer will take forever....so I'll have good excuses for awhile...just when they think they are getting close to the end of a series of waits (and their money) I'll have another form I have to fill out, or another time the lawyer tells me to wait before accepting the money...

In RL we were in the cars at the moment - one we got hit while we were at a dead stop & the other guy was going about 40mph - he didn't even brake - so a hospital trip was involved (but not in an ambulance) and now a chiropractor...but no one was seriously hurt thank god ... the second one I was backing up less than a mile per hour (in a parking lot and was inching out) and just didn't see her -- hit her bumper and with my lack of a bumper was put 2 screw holes in her bumper...so it's just small property damage...but there honestly are a lot of forms involved - YUCK

Actually one of my lad's have been begging to go on safari since December, I might try to send him in early April...

His b'day is april 4th...and he's been begging for a gold chain with my name on it (why do I have a vision of a guy with 10 gold necklaces with different girl's names on them)

He begged for christmas, and valentines day and now his birthday for this. To PROVE to his family and friends that I love him - for some reason our discussion about money not equaling love got cut short...

I think I'll have a nice surprise with @ll st@r shipping for april 1st (april fools day)...that will be the day it's mailed...

I have the receipt photochopped to look like I ordered it personalized, a couple days ago...this won't go to him until after the package is lost...it didn't cost a whole lot ($200) but the shipping company will have a couple thousand dollar minimum for lost/stolen packages -

Posted: Fri Mar 13, 2009 12:17 pm

That's terrible about the car accident. I got rear ended a little while ago, luckily I was driving the SUV. I was at a red light and a guy in an old mustang came flying up behind me, I had just enough time to turn my wheels into the curb so i didn't rear end the guy in front of me. We didn't get insurance involved, but the guy had my exhaust tip punch a 3" hole through his fiberglass hood. Laughing

Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2009 1:49 am

We've been considering welding on metal bumpers with spikes - dare someone to hit us like that again Twisted Evil

Posted: Sun Mar 15, 2009 7:32 am

^^^ VERY Death Race 2000

Posted: Sun Mar 15, 2009 1:36 pm

Ivana wrote:

We've been considering welding on metal bumpers with spikes - dare someone to hit us like that again Twisted Evil

Is that even legal? Shocked

Posted: Sun Mar 15, 2009 7:47 pm

probably not legal ... but ben hur inspired me when I was a child Wink

but it is a thought - lol

my ole man has been looking at military trucks in surplus areas, now that would be something I dare someone to hit us in Wink

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