Just a Rant

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Posted: Sat Mar 07, 2009 8:17 pm

Ok, this is just for ranting purposes, as I have to get his off my chest.

My wonderful husband that he is, decided that while we were arguing that he was going to log in here and post some stuff that I would never do/say or whatever under my account. Then, he decided he was going to change my password so I couldn't get in to here. I went to log in this morning to check on some things and to read more about fake site/bank killing, when I couldn't get in. I tried numerous times, and it would not let me. banghead

Apparently the asshole hit reset password, went into my email account to re-activate under the temp. password that Eater sends you when you have lost your or whatever, and locked me out of here. banghead

I went to reset my password using the same method, but it was not going to the email address that I had registered with. It was lost in cyberspace, which meant he changed the email addy as well.I then had to create another account, which hopefully is gone by now, so I could PM a mod to figure out what to do. Turned out he never changed the email addy, but still. I then figured for the fuck of it I would try lost password again, and this time it asked me for my registered email addy that I had on file or whatever, but the first time it didn't do that. I then went into my email addy and there it was.

I then logged into my account and was ready, set, go. To solve the problem, I changed the email address to another one that I have and I changed my email address so if he doesn't know which email addy it is going to, he can't fucking change it.

All because I promised someone I would help them move when they have to moved out by tomorrow.And the sad thing is, it's a chick. I guess maybe I am a lesbian in disguise....

Ok I am done my rant now.Anybody a divorce lawyer in here.... Laughing

Posted: Sat Mar 07, 2009 8:30 pm

Paging Gomer Pyle, husband in need of a kick in the nadgers in this thread.

Should fix him in no time....

P.S. still help your friend move house.

Posted: Sat Mar 07, 2009 10:19 pm

BREEEEEEATHE! Just breathe. Now take a few more breathes.

Feel better?

I know he acted like an asshole. Mine acts like an asshole way more than I would like. I think sometimes they just can't help themselves. It's that damn testosterone - it's a POISON, I tell you! But try to keep it in perspective. I'd be royally pissed too...but we all do stupid things when we're mad, and it sounds like he was, rightly or not.

If things are more *good* than *bad*, try not to let this incident result in YOU doing something you'll regret later.

I can't even TELL my DH that I'm a baiter. He'd kill me!

Posted: Sat Mar 07, 2009 10:31 pm

Quote:

I can't even TELL my DH that I'm a baiter. He'd kill me!

Cachuma, darling, don't you think that is living a lie?

My ex-wife hated my baiting. I ended up with the house.

Posted: Sat Mar 07, 2009 10:41 pm

dr stephen williams wrote:

Cachuma, darling, don't you think that is living a lie?

:::snort::: Sorry, but I couldn't help but laugh - I mean, isn't that what all of us baiters do? Live lies through our baits? Through my baits I have lived so many different fictional lives - I've been a horny widow on an avocado ranch in Santa Paula; a stoned teenage boy who wants a job cashing checks; a elderly deaf man; I've even been an oga spittin' out insults to lads when I chopped their dollas. None of us could do this if we weren't awfully good at living lies, could we?

The truth is, my hubby has at least some limited awareness that I'm involved in this. But he really doesn't want to know! So I don't volunteer any information. Keeps things settled down in the house. Smile

Posted: Sat Mar 07, 2009 10:47 pm

Well, I think we should all wear armbands and have tattoos that tell the world that we protect the innocent, and all that. Seriously, though, I wrote that to make you laugh!

As far as living a lie, yes, we do lie to the lads. I should have kept my baiting secret as my ex hated it. I had so much fin, though, I had to share it. As I said, I ended up with the house. She lives in a tarpaper shack.

Posted: Sat Mar 07, 2009 10:48 pm

Quote:

My ex-wife hated my baiting. I ended up with the house.

That is so sad.

Sad

Did I ever make mention of my adoration for men with a medical background. (bogus is fine) BTW.

Their bedside manner just makes me go all weak at the knees.

Wink

Prouiso (sic) quod & caveat emptor - Unless DQ is reading the thread.

Embarassed

edit - to add (sic) and illustrate my linguistic supremacy!

edit - and to admit that the C2H5OH was potent.

Rolling Eyes

Baiting Guru Joined: 08 Jul 2004 Posts: 11857 Location: UK

Cathartic Kate wrote:

Did I ever make mention of my adoration for men with a medical background.

I'm not a gynecologist, but I'll have a good look Razz

Posted: Sat Mar 07, 2009 10:59 pm

^^^ SP darling, you can barely breath most of the time now. What would happen if Kate took you up on that offer? Razz

Posted: Sat Mar 07, 2009 11:10 pm

Gynecologist schminecologist.

Anyone with a post count that huge is more than welcome.

Shocked

Just don't even think of doing a half-hearted job though.

Rolling Eyes

Gosh this tart is busy this weekend, good job I can rest up before the Sturgis weekend.

Posted: Sat Mar 07, 2009 11:37 pm

Early in my baiting career I tried, fruitlessly, to do online pelvic exams. I had hoped to have a large trophy chest of pictures. Sadly, the only ones I got were of men with erect penis's, ahem, which is not how I roll. Crying or Very sad

Kathartic Kate, feeling the pain, wrote:

That is so sad.

Yeah, well, it was sad, but life is about growth and all that, and now we can be friends. I drop food off at her tar paper shack now and again, gifting the occasional minor amount of cash so as not to enable her too much, which she uses it to maintain her "recovering" crackhead unemployed boyfriend. Sometimes the drive out there, the AC in my truck makes me cold, which is brutal, and I have to turn it off, but we have to do that which we have to do.

If I wasn't taken, heart and soul, well, Kate, you and I could... but.. you see, I belong to DQ. Rest assured that if she ever dumps me, I will, of course, consider applications. Yours would have a very favorable chance based on your keen abilities at baiting, your knowledge of Latin and that you go for fake Doctors with large houses...

Posted: Sun Mar 08, 2009 1:34 am

Sorry your husband is being a butt, grlnxtdr681! Mad

Lovey loves me to bait, I'm happier, he's happier and we have many more fruitful nights. Very Happy

Posted: Sun Mar 08, 2009 1:53 am

@ grlnxtdr681, sorry to hear about the troubles. Not all guys are jerks*.

[half joking mode]Do you want us to bait him?[/half jokng mode]

How about this, sit down with him and tell him that you don't like some thngs about him, but you don't delete or block his access to those things (nose, naval, balls beans etc).

Tell him that there is a new rue in the house: If he wants to argue, he has to do it naked...

...on the front steps...

...in the middle of the day.

I liked Cachuma's answer, "Breathe, Bait and thank the Mods." Very Happy

*unsubstantiated claim that is made all the time.

Posted: Sun Mar 08, 2009 6:14 am

@ParaNoid - Your post made me laugh.

We are better now. It's not that he cares that I am baiting, he just thinks I am wasting my time. He doesn't undertsand the whole concept, and he's told me before that what I am doing was LEO job, and not mine. He has learned to accept it, he justd oesn't want to hear about it. I mean some of the things I get my lads to do are funny, but he doesn't get it. He really thinks one day they are going to hunt me down.

But thanks you for all the kind words, and I feel better now after ranting/ and now that we better with no fighting.

I hate that....fighting. It's pointless it really is, and there are certainly more good times than bad with him so I will let it slide, I just had to get it off my chest.

Thank you everyone....time for lad pain....

Posted: Sun Mar 08, 2009 6:56 am

grlnxtdr681 wrote:

Thank you everyone....time for lad pain....

That's one thing I missed during my *sabbatical* from baiting. When things got tough in RL, I could take it out on the lads! It works wonders.

Posted: Sun Mar 08, 2009 12:49 pm

I've participated in a few other forums on a variety of subjects, and this one is, b far, the most harmonious. It helps we have a common enemy.

Posted: Sun Mar 08, 2009 3:27 pm

What you need to do is roll up some newspaper & smack him on the snout, then put his nose in his poo. BAD BAD hubby. Evil or Very Mad

ETA my husband didn't like my baiting either...now he's got the house & I've got my cool bachelorette pad...so he's still pissed but he doesn't think baiting is so bad anymore. Twisted Evil

Posted: Sun Mar 08, 2009 3:58 pm

My ex thought baiting was "evil", that I was a monster for cackling with glee as my lads safari'd deeper into the bush (the one who went to Pendjari and the other to Cameroon who ended up at the visitors Center made me howl). She couldn't understand that I was tricking the tricksters. Now she has a crackhead boyfriend, convicted thief.....

I guess there is a certain kind of person who thinks that justice itself is unfair.

BTW, your mans stepping into your email is a huge boundary overstepping, as well as illegal. Catalog that if you ever get divorced. You want the house, right?

Posted: Sun Mar 08, 2009 4:03 pm

IMO locking you out of Eater is grounds for divorce. The betrayal!

Juan's stalker Joined: 28 Aug 2008 Posts: 1423

grlnxtdr681 I hate that he did that to you but I'm glad you found out he has those tendancies.

IMHO that's a Huge Red Flag as to what other sneaky sh*t he may do to you and how his mind works.

Keep your eyes wide open now and good luck.

Posted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 1:39 am

grlnxtdr681, Sorry to hear that your husband is being a jerk. Logging into your email and changing your eater password really is stepping over the line. Does he search through your purse too?

My ex husband was like that. And if we were still together he would have a huge problem with me baiting.

Now my boyfriend just roles his eyes and calls me a nerd.

Posted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 12:43 pm

Quote:

but he doesn't get it. He really thinks one day they are going to hunt me down.

Now you know why we told you ages ago to use your hubby's picture as your I.D.

Wink

Posted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 1:28 pm

My loud and inane cackling at the stuff the lads say frightens my children Smile

Can advise on England and Wales divorce law but you're maybe not anywhere near... Smile

Posted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 3:53 pm

Yeah I am USA I think the laws vary country to country LOL.

Thanks for everyones support!

Posted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 5:05 pm

I will keep looking in The Sun for news of a nude man standing on his steps in the middle of the day having an argument. Laughing