Update -Lad -Upset with TT & Curses Me

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Posted: Fri Jul 25, 2008 10:45 pm

Hi,

I have a lad that is willing to fill out all the necessary paperwork to come and visit me in the US. He wants to be with me forever.

Does anyone have forms I could use to email him.
I told him he would need to print and fill in many forms.

All help is appreciated.

Scarlett

Posted: Fri Jul 25, 2008 11:00 pm

@Scarlett -

Lets take our time.. I know there are lots of plans to make.. travel agents to visit, and of course - no matter where your new found love is from, he'll need to fill out a really complete visa application (even if he is from Canada!) Fingerprints and even noseprints may be needed >hey this is the age of national security!<

I've had two pretty successful baits where I drug it out for about 2 months in anticipation for the big day. The main thing to remember is what would it be like in a 'real' situation. Remember, claiming that you are going to the make-up-your-own Immigration department takes numerous trips and lots of standing in line. Make sure to tell your new sweetie that too. The lines ups are long, the bureaucracy is unbelievably slow, etc etc but you'll do anything to appease him 'cause he's coming to visit.

Then start talking about the tickets and airfare.. slowly. Over weeks. You get the idea.

First of all: where is he claiming to be from?

There are some great forms floating around to ensure that your friend is 'trustworthy'. Does he have a faux lawyer he's trying to pawn you off to? Well- there just happens to be a plethora of Lawyer forms for him to complete before you can move anymore forward!

I'll PM you some links to the Baiting Toolkit (do a search with the above box in the header..) Also, consider going to the real life immigration website and downloading/ forwarding to your new husband/ wife.

And .. being internet security is pretty loose these days, your Lad will have to Fax them to a 'secure' K7 number. >on his dime too!<

I've got a few forms for UK/ US and now South Africa governments that are a doozy. I'll PM you and I'm getting good at drawin up BS forms with GIMP, maybe I can help ya..

[edit: my poor speling & grammer]

Posted: Sat Jul 26, 2008 2:44 am

DH Mac has given as good an answer as I could give, just remember to check out other members signature lines, many of the experienced members like to display bumper stickers for various tools that are at your disposal.

One word of advise though it not to get too advanced too early, straight baiting is not a whole lot of fun but it is very educational and a great time waster of lads.

If you have him keen for paperwork by all means get him to fill in the odd form or 2 hundred Wink

but getting a lazy lad to fill in forms is not always as easy as it is made to look and there is a certain skill to it.

If you do make a mistake and lose the bait you can always rebait but not with the same forms, he will be wise to them and will most likely never fall for that form again.

Some of the best lessons I have learnt have been through failed baits so dont be too concerned by that, just be aware and dont get too greedy, one form at a time will be good, starting with the shorter forms then progressing to larger and larger forms

Posted: Sat Jul 26, 2008 2:59 am

I emailed the lad. I told him I have an appointment to visit the state department to pick up forms for him to fill out.

I also mentioned that this is going to be a lot of forms and government red tape. Especially with Homeland Security making it more difficult for people to travel.

I asked him to be very sure about this process, and if he wasn't up for it, not to do it.

He's located in Ghana. We'll see how lazy he is, and if he asks for $$$.
By the way, he has a web cam, and I've seen him on it. He appears to be in an internet café as I could see other computers in the background.

I'll need to take the class on how to capture his web cam pictures. So much to learn. Smile

Posted: Sat Jul 26, 2008 3:13 am

Yes, there is lots to learn,

Wayne's class is very easy to follow but will take about 30 minutes for the average computer literate person or about an hour for someone with my computer skills.

It sounds like you found it already but to save you the trouble Click Here

It is kind of rude to have a webcam lad and not share the webcam footage with the rest of us Wink

Posted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 3:26 am

After many emails, and many hours of YIM, I sent the lad the forms (thanks dh_mac). My pastor has been emailing him too.

He's filled out the forms, but now tells me he has lost his job.
He told me he really hated to ask for $$$, but he needs it to complete the forms to come to me here.

Then on the other side, I'm baiting him as a different character. This lad reminds me of a pushy telemarketer. He's so new at the romance part, it's hard to have any fun with him.

Now that he is asking for $$$, my first character is going to help him out.

When he gets frustrated with secu1ty forms, and going to pick up the money, I am going to get an email from character #3 regarding the luv conversation he's having with character #2.

She will be so hurt!!! She will of course cancel that $$$ as a result of his unfaithfulness.

Then he will have to do something huge to prove his luv.

Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 9:08 pm

The lad has tried to collect his $$$ that I (did not) send. He's in trouble with his pastor, oh I mean oga.

Me: why are you saying you didn't get the money?
Me: wu says you picked it up
Me: ??????????????????
Lad: Sxxxxx
Me: yes
Lad: i did not get the money
Me: Western Union says it was collected
Lad: the wetern union there told me that the money is not in
Me: then who did?
Me: WU said it had been picked up. The $400
Lad: i dont know what is going on
Lad: ih
Lad: oh
Lad: who picked it ?
Me: They said the person with the secret question and answer did
Lad: but the wetern union here told me that the money is fand
Lad: in there sistem
Me: fand?
Lad: yes
Me: WU told me that it was picked up.
Lad: i wen to 2 wetern union here there told me one thing
Me: why do you say you didn't get it, who else could have had the answers?
Lad: i dont know
Lad: i am just thinking of my life
Lad: i dont know what is going on
Me: first you say you deleted the email with the information on it
Me: then I resend the email
Me: and now someone has picked up the money
Me: ?? am confused
Lad: do you send the ansers
Me: I sent the question and answer to you two times.
Me: you said you never got the first one
Lad: yes
Me: who got the money?
Lad: the first do u send answers
Lad: ?
Me: yes
Lad: oh
Lad: pls i dont know what is going
Lad: i also lost the smorll money my pastor give to day
Me: someone collected the $400 I sent you.
Me: oh no
Lad: on my going to the wetern union
Lad: all just go of
Lad: justgon like that
Lad: pls
Me: are you saying you did not collect the money yourself?
Lad: oh
Lad: my god
Lad: i did not
Me: then who got the $400??
Lad: in the name of jesus i did not
Lad: i dont know
Me: this is terrible
Me: I am confused
Me: who else knew the answers?
Lad: pls i will be going now i have know money to pay time here in cafe
Me: okay
Lad: late me go home and think of my life
Me: ok
Lad: look if i am the one that teck the money
Lad: i will diy
Lad: but if is not me May the lord Jesus bless me
Me: Yes
Lad: i dont know i will do
Me: someone took the money I sent.
Lad: is onli god knows
Me: and you say it's not you.
Me: so we are both out $400
Me: my pastor will be very sad to hear this
Lad: also my pastor
Lad: is not happy
Lad: there think i am the one that teck it
Lad: but is only God know s the good and the bad
Me: yes, God knows
Lad: pls i have no money to pay for time here now
Lad: pls my time is going of
Me: okay darling
Me: I will pray
Lad: pls
Lad: i loveyo
Me: I love you
Lad has signed out. (8/13/2008 5:01 PM)

Posted: Sun Aug 17, 2008 3:02 am

This is a partial YIM I had with the lad. After speaking with me on YIM phone, he's back to believing in me. I'm stalling on the $$$ issue.
I accused him of receiving the $$$ and then telling me he didn't get it.
After our lovely phone call, I'm going to check into this $$$ mistake.
Of course he IS lying about the love part. I'm baiting him as another character.

Lad (9:50:26 PM): is only jesus knows what i am telling you
Lad (9:50:46 PM): i am not happy with
Me (9:50:47 PM): yes, and it might be good for you to dial the prayer line for your sins.
Lad (9:50:49 PM): this
Me (9:51:27 PM): God knows all Lucky
Me (9:51:30 PM): remember that
Lad (9:52:01 PM): i am not happy with this money mater
Lad (9:52:14 PM): am not well now
Me (9:52:37 PM): do you know from the bible
Me (9:52:44 PM): what happens to those that would hurt his children?
Lad (9:52:50 PM): am now sike just this money mater
Me (9:52:57 PM): I am a child of God.
Me (9:53:21 PM): wow unto the person who would hurt one of HIS
Me (9:53:27 PM): *woe
Me (9:53:38 PM): so maybe is why you feel sick
Me (9:53:43 PM): God knows you
Me (9:53:48 PM): and if you have lied to me?
Lad (9:54:17 PM): oh what is this
Lad (9:54:22 PM): my god
Me (9:54:29 PM): It is called the truth Lucky
Me (9:54:34 PM): Yes, my God as well
Lad (9:54:54 PM): what do i do now
Me (9:55:03 PM): If you have lied to me about anything,
Me (9:55:09 PM): you will become ill unto death
Me (9:55:16 PM): because God knows everything.
Lad (9:55:24 PM): i did not the money you sent to me
Lad (9:55:30 PM): i did not
Me (9:55:39 PM): anything else you lie about?
Lad (9:56:33 PM): look if am the one that pice up this money we are going to marriy
Me (9:56:41 PM): oh
Me (9:57:13 PM): and are you telling the truth when you say I am the only woman you talk to or love?
Lad (9:57:19 PM): but if is not me we are going marriy and have baby in this life
Me (9:57:24 PM): Remember, God knows
Me (9:57:36 PM): you wouldn't want to get ill would you?
Me (9:59:37 PM): Thou shalt not bear false witness.
Lad (10:00:36 PM): only God is my witness.no one
Lad (10:00:43 PM): only him
Me (10:00:55 PM): yes, and if you have lied to me another child of God, you will suffer
Lad (10:01:14 PM): and i know that he will bless me
Me (10:01:24 PM): only if you tell the truth
Lad (10:01:41 PM): yes
Lad (10:02:27 PM): what?
Me (10:02:43 PM): Are you telling anyone else you want to marry them?
Lad (10:03:13 PM): oh
Lad (10:03:44 PM): pls are you from usa or ghana
Me (10:03:54 PM): I am in the USA
Lad (10:03:55 PM): are from africa?
Me (10:04:00 PM): no, I am not.
Lad (10:04:01 PM): no
Lad (10:04:11 PM): look
Me (10:04:28 PM): God talks to us through the holy spirit. Do you know that?
Lad (10:04:38 PM): you the Susan i am chating with
Me (10:04:52 PM): Yes, I am the Susan you know.
Me (10:05:02 PM): and the child of the living God, and risen Lord
Lad (10:05:42 PM): no u are not woman a african man lieing to that your from usa
Lad (10:05:50 PM): oh my jesus
Me (10:05:54 PM): If you think so Lucky.
Lad (10:05:55 PM): god why
Me (10:06:06 PM): I am a woman located in the United States of America
Lad (10:06:08 PM): oh my god
Me (10:06:17 PM): and God tells me you are lying to me.
Me (10:06:29 PM): and he is going to punish you if you don't tell me the truth
Lad (10:06:33 PM): oh oh what is going here
Lad (10:07:25 PM): you but a woman pic
Lad (10:07:45 PM): telling me that you are a woman
Me (10:07:53 PM): Yes, I am a woman.
Me (10:07:58 PM): You know that Lucky.
Me (10:08:14 PM): I also belong to God.
Lad (10:08:18 PM): but why are doing this to for long time
Me (10:08:26 PM): He tells my heart you are not telling me the truth.
Lad (10:09:01 PM): am not happy with you
Me (10:09:06 PM): why?
Me (10:09:19 PM): Is it because you don't really love me?
Lad (10:09:24 PM): but why why
Lad (10:09:37 PM): oh God
Lad (10:11:10 PM): i dont understand agen
Lad (10:11:25 PM): i dont understand
Me (10:11:27 PM): Why would you accuse me of being anyone else?
Me (10:11:33 PM): God speaks to our hearts.
Lad (10:11:42 PM): do have mic there?
Me (10:11:45 PM): He's telling my heart
Me (10:11:46 PM): yes
Lad (10:11:53 PM): ok
Lad (10:12:01 PM): i call u now
Me (10:12:05 PM): ok
Lad (10:23:43 PM): my love wen will you com back
Lad (8/16/2008 10:25:36 PM): i love you my Susan my only woman
Lad (8/16/2008 10:26:41 PM): you the only woman i have in my life
Lad (8/16/2008 10:26:54 PM): pls love me as i do
Lad (8/16/2008 10:27:56 PM): May the Lesus Jesus be with you all the times
Lad (8/16/2008 10:28:12 PM): i love you my Susan

Posted: Fri Aug 22, 2008 9:56 pm

I'm baiting the lad from another character. He's changed his yahoo ID because he thinks someone hacked it and took his information and collected the $400.00.
Then he IMs my other character using my first character's name.
Here's part of the YIM.

Quote:

Me: who is this?
Lad: how are you
Me: ok, who is Sus@n?
Lad: who is Sus@n?
Me: that is what ur name says
Lad: ohh
Lad: that my mother
Lad: that what i call her
Lad: i call her i love Sus@n
Me: oh
Me: why the name change?
Lad: i us her name to rimeber my late mothere
Lad: i us her name to rimeber my late mother
Lad: my late mother name is Sus@n
Me: that is very nice
Me: it's a lovely name
Lad: oh thanks
Lad: so how are you
Me: am ok
Me: how are you?
Lad: well God is good
Lad: i did not get your mail?
Lad: for the money
Me: oh
Me: I don't think I sent an email yet.
Me: I went to m@ney grab
Me: and they need u to fill out a one page form and send it back to me.
Lad: but do you see western union there?
Me: western union is not convenient for me
Lad: i will like you to us western union is faster
Me: i already paid m@ney grab 15.00 to set up an account with them
Me: m@ney grab is fast too
Me: and they have the money waiting to send
Lad: ok
Lad: so wen i will get it?
Me: I can email it to you now if you want?
Lad: is the form?
Me: yes, the form. it's homeland security regulations
Me: cause is first time I sent money overseas
Lad: ok
Lad: so you can mail it to me now ok
Me: yes, I can email it now.
Lad: ok
Lad: i wait ?
Me: yes, please wait.
Lad: ok
Me: I just sent it to you.
Lad: ok
Lad: late me see it now ok
Me: sure

Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 4:02 pm

Thanks to Windypops and TT for your help setting this up!

I sent the lad his wu through TT, and this is the thanks I get from the lad. I then sent him an email telling him how insulted I am and giving him the mtcn. I'll see what happens next.
Ungrateful wretch Twisted Evil

Quote:

I am replying you to tell you that the money you sad that you send to me
did not get to me.
i went to the western union there told me that the money is not fan in there system. so May be you have send it to that your love. the man that you send be for now I know that you are not a woman the Susan you sad you are. and also now I know that you are a man you have being Deceiving me for all this days ago. but lat me tell you some thing now if your a woman call Susan or a man call Susan if Deceiving you have being Deceiving me for this day ago
for to do that to me. I tell you now in the name of the Lord Jesus.I am so sorry I give you only 6 moth you will some thing will happen to your life.
you toll me that if is money mater I will be sending you a mail but if is not for money mater i will be charting with. you sad this be for and you think i don't know and you have just sad it are gen. also sad that i don't love you
well God know the good and the bad all i can say is i am not interested with you are gen you have Mack every one that know about me and you to hat me just that i love you but you the Deceiving me.all the charting was lost for me
I can not love a man like me Mr Susan
thanks

Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 5:22 pm

You're a MAN?!?!?!?!? Shocked

A man named -- SUSAN?!?!?!?!? Shocked

I'm dumbfounded!

Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 6:56 pm

well, it kinda makes sense - a boy named Sue had to grow up SOME day Shocked

Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 8:54 pm

I talked to him in YIM, and asked that he send me a letter of apology to prove he didn't mean the insulting email:

Quote:

Dear my only love

Is me your love 1ucky
Prove love please to forgive me
I am so sorry for the mail I send to you
Please my only love of my life I love you is
Just that was not happy wan I com back from western union.
Please prove your love to forgive me
Your love 1ucky I am hoping for your forgiveness
Your love

Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 12:08 am

Susan is good thanks to Windypops and TT.
He's going to supply me with a bank account.

But poor Jennifer is toast. He & I had a long YIM, and he's convinced now that Jennifer is Mr. Jennifer. BTW, I really am a woman.

He's really paranoid that everyone is really a man playing a woman.

My question is, did someone bait him as a man pretending to be a woman?

Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 3:35 am

It's possible that he thinks you're a "joker" - their name for a baiter. And, lad (il)logic here, anyone spending time on the internet fooling other people is male. Women would never do something like that!

Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 3:55 am

Titania - Thanks you're explanation is a good one.

In the YIM, he seemed horrified that I was really a man, and not a real woman. He told me he couldn't love a man and that I should ask God for help and stop sinning that way.

Posted: Tue Sep 02, 2008 11:44 am

^^^ you're a man Shocked

Humphrey is going to be a little ticked of about that as well.

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