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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 2:03 pm

I posted on a few mugu dating sites in an attempt to bait a lad that many of us know. I haven't got him to bite, but now have a lad from Ghana that has fallen completely in love with me. I think I will keep this pet, if for nothing else the education in this modality and maybe a safari chance if things progress well. Today he asked me to take my profile down from the dating site, and I have had this request of other lads who I have dropped along the line. My question is: is this a good sign that this mugu is a lad? I understand that is modality generally takes a while to get to the "gimme the MTCN" stage, but does his request seemingly indicate that he wants my vic all to himself?

Master Baiter Joined: 16 Jul 2007 Posts: 214

10 / 10

Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 2:19 pm

You can be fairly certain it is a scamming lad of one type or another. Some romance lads are very concerned about you talking with someone else, thus one of the reasons for wanting you to remove your profile. They do not want competition. Taking down your profile is one way of showing you are cooperative and may be an easy to control victim. You can always put up another profile.

EDIT: typo repair

Elite Baiter Joined: 11 Jul 2007 Posts: 1979

I always insist my lad take down his profile. And I give him lots of grief over the 'friends' if he has any. I demand a monogamous relationship.

Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 9:48 pm

another thing I have repeatedly observed is the lad stating that he hates lies and always demands the truth. I guess this is just a warm-up to the big bag of bullsh@t he is going to send my way prior to the call for cash. I think I will like screwing with this guy for a while.

Master Baiter Joined: 19 Mar 2008 Posts: 100

Sounds familiar

The scammers that I had the misfortune of being hooked up with on 3Harm-ony both stated they hate dishonestly in the "Must Haves/Can't Stands" stage of communication and both wanted me to drop my account. I told both of them "no" on dropping the account. Told them if they really wanted me to be theirs and only theirs they would come visit. I even gave the one a hard time cause I had to travel to a "neighboring" town (well near where he claimed to be from) and he couldn't make time for me.

Posted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 8:08 pm

OK, something new. I am about the 10 email stage with my primary lad. He is professing great love for me and has asked me to marry him. (Jeez, I can't wait until I start sending him some of the skin pix I have in reserve). Anyways, today I get an email from a friend of his, wanting to say hi. I also got an email from the primary lad saying if his friend emails me, I should not respond. Of course, I invoked the golden rule of baiting: Do exactly the opposite of what the lad requests.

My question is, is this a standard modality in this type of bait or I am getting set up for a mugu menange-a-trois?

Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 3:21 am

bill mcdill wrote:

My question is, is this a standard modality in this type of bait or I am getting set up for a mugu menange-a-trois?

I'm going to have nightmares for weeks now, I'll have you know.

Elite Baiter Joined: 28 Feb 2007 Posts: 1731

It is either the lad "testing" you or another lad the picked up from his screen. Either way, you must profess fidelity to lad #1 and this character is only for lad#1.

Bait lad #2 from a different identiy.

Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 5:31 am

have you checked the ip's in the email headers it will be a clue if it's on e and the same.

Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 1:53 pm

harrya: Good point, checked the IPs and same. Could mean they are at the same cafe or might be the same lad.

redshoes: Going to go a different way here. Talk real serious about love, devotion, honesty, commitment with lad #1. Talk really slutty with lad #2 and bad mouth #1 to him. Let's see what happens Wink

Elite Baiter Joined: 28 Feb 2007 Posts: 1731

Looking forward to seeing how it goes.

Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 6:58 pm

^^ Already a change of plan, lad #2 is talking like a pen apl, telling me his likes and dislikes, coming across as just a regular guy. Lad #1 is talking real dirty to me, and asking for very revealing pix so I'm just going with the flow. I think that he is using lad #2 to figure out if I am for real.

I am convinced they are the same lad because lad #2 told me that lad #1 was out of the office (he said he was at church Confused

) but I got back-to-back emails from both lads and from the same IP address.

This is kinda fun, a nice break from the "gimme the MTCN" lotto pets I usually play with Wink

Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 9:07 pm

Quote:

asking for very revealing pix

I'll show you mine if you show me yours.

Sounds like the same one to me. He is setting himself up for a trophy Smile

Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 9:17 pm

^^ yeh harrya, I am nearly 100% sure they are the same guy. And I am convinced this lad is smart. Lad #1 writes like a typical mugu, no capitalization, minimal punctuation, bad grammar and spelling. Lad #2 writes like an educated person. Has contemporary interests, doesn't at all come across as having ulterior motives. I'm keeping this guy close at hand, and indeed, I feel a trophy coming on.

Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 9:21 pm

I'll bet $WU100 that lad #1 ends up in hospital soon and lad #2 will be there to give you all the details and of the quote for the operation.

Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 10:15 pm

You might be right harrya, you might be right.

Posted: Mon Apr 07, 2008 6:32 pm

OK guys, I think I have the more sophisticated lad (#2) getting really interested in me. I am willing to be patient with this one but I see a safari in the offing. The last safari I engineered had a combination of money and sex, and I would imagine this combination is what is really required. My question is should I start to wind in a money angle or let the lad drop his when he is good and ready. I could imagine a business angle from my end, but I would rather it be his idea. I am at the 60+ email stage, how long should I wait?

Posted: Mon Apr 07, 2008 9:43 pm

60+ he is being patient Smile

Just keep rolling along with to see what his angle is. Is the other persona still writing?

Posted: Tue Apr 08, 2008 2:26 am

^^ yeah I got 2 personnas, #1 is pure W. African mugu, bad grammar and all. told me he loves me, asked me to marry him. says i am the only thing he has in his life. if it wasn't bullsh1t it would be pathetic. #2 is far more suave, educated, we are chatting at a fairly sophisticated level about music, life and, of course, sex. i really wish they would get on with the money request, this is turning into a soap opera.